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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How do entertain myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 303 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - I'm a 14 year old guy who really want to do it with a chick, but dont have a girl friend and live 50kilometers from me school. Anyone got idea's how to entertain meself untill i get to do it?...

My sister's daughter had sex and I think her reaction is too harsh...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - My sister is the mother of a 14 yr old girl, who she recently found out that she snuck her boyfriend in the bedroom window and had sex with him! The mother went bananas and told her daughter that she had to quit basketball and all other activities, ...

Is my ejaculation normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 303 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - I'm a healthy 24 year old guy, but I'm concerned with my ejaculation. Whether it's masturbation or sex, it is always very liquid - not much different at all from the viscosity of urine. It doesn't in any way resemble what I would typically think of ...

5 years later, suddenly we've been sexless for 5 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - I am looking for advice, I do not know what to do, my girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years now, we HAD the most incredible sex life up until 5 months ago, then nothing, literally nothing. I think I am fed up, I can't live like this a...

I'm curious about BDSM. Does this mean I'm gay or being selfish towards my wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - I wnat to know if I want to explore anal stimulation and penetration for my wife and myself. Does it really mean I have homosexual tendencies. I am very curious about the BDSM lifestyle and the femdom practices. I really would like to get my wife to ...

A birthday threesome, good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I am a 27 year old female that has been in a relationship with a male for two and a half years. He is the man I have seen in my dreams and I adore him and he the same (at least I hope..lol) Seriously, his birthday is coming up and he made a joke ...

My GF wants me to masturbate for her, but I don't want to!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - hey, my gf wants me to masturbate in front of her..but the thing is, ive never masturbated (i dont like it) and she doesnt know that. shes coming over and i dont know what i should do. i cant tell her and i dont want to masturbate in front of her, ...

How do I cure my premature ejaculation naturally???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - How do i cure my premature ejaculation naturally??? I don't want to spend money on a guide or hypnosis track. Is there anything free i can use? I ejaculated in the first 3 seconds of having sex with my girlfriend today and this has happen...

Why has the sexual spark completely died for my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Please help me out with this sexual question.. I'm at my wit ends, I really don't get this. My husband and me, are living in a very strange place. So he says. I love you, you are my love. But we are together naked in bed, and he does not get an e...

The husband wants a threesome with the neighbor...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - help, my husband was talking about us having a threesome with our neighbor, what do i do?...

He wants to get it on, but I'm a virgin and he doesn't know! What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I need some help, I am a twenty six year old virgin, there is a guy at work whom I have been flirting with for about a year, he has said to me that on the next night out we should get it on back at his. I am thinking wow because he is gorgeous and ...

Could we simply remain friends after having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I recently started a friends with benefits relationship. We both argreed it would be physical only and that we would remain friends after. We both care about each other but do not love one another.I was wondering if people can actually remain just ...

I'm trying to get back with my ex, last night I slept with her best friend!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - last night i slept with my ex gf's best friend, ive been trying to get back together with my ex but this f*cked everything up, what do i do!...

I have experienced clitoridean orgasms but not vaginal. How can I achieve those?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - i have two childern and im on my thrid and ive never had an orgasim inside me yes ive had one on my clit manytimes but i want to know how i have one inside someone must please help me thanks for you answeres...

Should I leave because of her vagina size or tell her it bothers me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend vagina is much looser than any other women i have been in a serious relationship with, what really bothers me is that i dont have a small penis im actually well over average, so i kno its not me, I really like the person that she is, ...

We want to have a baby but he had a vasectomy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I need some answers I just got married in Dec and we are wantin to have a baby but he has had a vasectomy so what are the chances of that happening or will he have to get that reversed before we can have a baby?? please help me with this thank you...

Why doesn't he call me now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I met a guy last year around November at a gathering. He facebooked me afterwards and we started talking. He seems like an interesting guy and kind too. We exchanged long messages for days for about two weeks and he decided to ask me to go see a ...

In love, but getting into boring habits!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - soo..seems petty but..! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year, and were really good friends before that. Hes lovely, attractive, charming, outgoing and I really genuinely love him. We had sex for the first time about 8months in...

Is having "break up sex" a good thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - Recently me and my gf broke up, but we had breakup sex. Is that bad/weird? :S...

I have had an affair for 3 years with a very sexy, experienced man but, ultimately a cad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid,I have had an affair for 3 years with a very sexy, experienced man but, ultimately a cad... The same age as my husband. It was exciting, great sex, but the novelty is wearing off, on both sides now, but he won't admit it. He wants me to ...

Gay sex tips appreciated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - hey there guys.. I've got a problem which is a tad sentitive. Well I'm 17 and I've been straight up until about 18 or so months ago.. where this belgian lad captured my heart. I've fallen deeply in love with him and yes I'm now fully gay in the...

We are just sexually connected and not on the right level that we should be connected on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - My situation is pretty complicated. I'm 16 and this boy that i like is gettin his license on the 2nd. thats less then two weeks and he plans on fucking in the car as soon as he gets it. I know that is all he wants cuz he can't even have a normal ...