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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My guy is obsessed with anal! - Aunts... I need your thoughts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Hello My boyfriend is obsessed with anal sex. Any naughty texts I receive are always about how excited he is about "being in my ass later". I don't mind anal sex but it seems like it's all I know these days. He does have sex with me the n...

Am I a weird sex freak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - I'm an 18 year old boy and started having gay feelings a few years ago but no one knows. I'm still a virgin and want 2 shag a girl but recently I've been watching loads of shemale porn. I don't know why but a hot girl with a dick really does do it ...

Any information about making the experience of sex beautiful, satisfying, and pleasing for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - Ladies, Can you reply? I have been seeing a woman who is more than years older than I am. I really like her and would really like to experience sex with a more mature and experienced woman. And in particular I would like to experience sex w...

Help! I am totally addicted to sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - I am totally addicted to sex and am trying to figure out how to stop but I just can't get a way to go about it, somebody please help!...

I'm shy when it comes to sex even though I desperately don't want to be.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I've been having sex for about 5 months now with my boyfriend who I love more than anything and don't regret one minute with, but when we do have sex, he's always on top, he desperatley wants me to go on top and try other positions but I feel ...

He treats me more like a slut than his GF.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - hey i really love my boyfriend, but he doesnt treat me the way i want to be treated. the way he talks 2 me is always dirty (sexual) and i want him to b more romantic and chivalrous towards me. he says that he is romantic cos he gives me pres...

She tells me she wants sex, but freaks out when we get there!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - OK my girlfriend and i have been dating for 7 months!!! its great, we have talked about sex and almost had sex but she freaks out, her ex and her did and it ended up disastrous, i dont press the issue cause i really do love her but she tells me she ...

Since losing my virginity, I'm constantly craving sex... is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - i first had sex a few months back with my boyfriend, but sinse we did, i've been craving it constantly afterwards, its not an issue for him as he's obviously not going to say no as a teenager, but is this normal/natural to happen or is it just me? ...

I've always had a higher sex drive than my husband, so why would he go and cheat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

2 January 2009 (?) - I am confused! I have and always have had a higher sex drive than my husband. The problem is, lack of intimacy is causing my sex drive to dwindle! I am confused because I am 9 years older than my husband! I don't look my age and have never felt it ...

Am I making a move on a man or a statue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I'm always the one making the first move, he just sits there, makes me feel so unattractive. He says hes no good at this, just wish i could get him to touch me, kiss me. I feel as though i'm kissing and feeling a statue what can i do?...

His "thing is thickly fearsome" - how can first time sex be easier?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I am still unmarried and have a month long relation with a neighborhood boy much younger. he is around 17. he becomes intimate with me almost everyday. first I tried to resist him but nowadays I feel lots of pleasure from the activities. he now ...

How do I get him to be more passionate with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I'm with a man i adore but our sex life is not so good. I'm the one who always makes the first move, i touch him but he dosn't touch me back. theres no foreplay, don't think hes had much experiance. I try and move my hands to where i want to be ...

Cousin chasing her and he molested her years ago

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - Hello, i need some advice.um 16, Well i m wid dis gal for 18months,she s 15.she was molested by her cousin when she was 11.that cousin apologized to her after some day. Now da boy is back.i hate him like anything.now he s doing things to impress my ...

Spice up the sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - How can i spice up our sex life if he won't even touch me, it seems i'm the one doing all the touching. How do i get him to do more foreplay...

I have higher sex drive!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Recently told my boyfriend how i feel regarding our releatiionship. I have a higher sex drive than him and said we were lacking intamacy and passion, his reply was he has never been any good in that department. He's a good guy and i love him to ...

Should we let a relative impregnate her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - Here's a question for you.... I'm soon to be 46 divorced father of 3, remarried for 9 years now (Happily). My wife is 35 and has 1 child from previous marriage (16 yrs old). I had a vasectomy done after my 3rd child in 1994, my wife wants to have ...

What are some good erogenous zones?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - Hey everone I have a question. I am wondering on how best to pleasure my gf when I go down on her. She insists on staying a virgin till she's 18 and I respect that but we do have our fun. And I'm wondering how best I can pleasure her when I go to...

Help with anal, oral and videotaping it all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Hey my bf wants to try anal and he wants me to swallow his cum and videotape it all im cool with the videotaping part though. i just need to know how to give him the most pleasure in anal and how to recieve anal, also i need to know how to give a ...

I'm so tired of living with this curse, what have I done to deserve this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - dear cupid : my life is like hell . i am from a very respectful family "Muslim family" working in a respectful job as an engineer, the problem is that I am gay and I have known it long time ago... but as per my religion and traditions as a ...

What's with the mixed signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - So I have this friend I've known for a few years. We're constantly in and out of one another's lives and most of our relationship is on the phone. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend but we do a lot of flirting and seem to love tlking about ...

Why can't he say "I love you" after 4 years of crazy sex?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Can a man who shows every signs of loving a woman not be able to say "I love you" even after 4 years of crazy sex? I always thought that I could recognize love. I know that many women mistake lust for love...but is it possible that a man may love ...

Why can't I get as hard as I used to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - Hey..am 16 and i had "sex" 2 months ago..ive put it on quotes coz it was embarassing..we were at the beach with no clothes..anyway..i got hard but when i got inside her i started to loose the hardness ..it was soo cold that night and i had no ...

Should I break up with him? I don't know if I can keep this a secret.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of three years got a DUI for the third time so they are keeping him in Jail. I haven't had a close relationship with his brother but because of this situation we had been spending a lot of time together. On Christmas eve he came over ...

Will a break fix everything or have we just grown too far apart?

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2 January 2009 (F) - I have been engaged to my partner for 5 years, and together for 6 1/2 years. We started dating when I was young (17) and I guess you could say it it my first love (same for him he is 27). We had set a date for our marriage over a year ago but rece...

Will he get bored and leave? All we do is snog!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - i want to be able to have fun with my boyfriend. all we ever seem to do is snog,head to the bedroom and thats the end of that. its oring and im afraid he will get as board as i am and leave. any suggestions??? thanks xxx...

How long on average does a guy last in bed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - Just a quick question, for guys or girls, probably mainly for the guys but, how long on average do you last in bed? I haven't had sex for a while and it's getting to the point I'm avoiding it because I'm afraid I'm going to be premature and get ...