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Archived questions from: 16 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Sex as a weapon?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - Just to let the ladies know, this DOES NOT AMOUNT TO ANYTHING POSITIVE! Yes, women and men can enjoy sex just as much as the other, but men in general 'do' want it more than women and our feelings towards it are different. Men view sex as 'ess...

Boyfriend likes it rough

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Hi guys its Bailey again with some other questions about that rough sex i've been having with my boyfriend. these are just simple opinon questions and i need an honest oppion. 1. Do you think its because he's really buff and i have very little...

Don't have sex with the ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Dear everyone Why,oh why is it that me ex bf, tells me about the girls hes met and how he sleeps with them after only meeting twice, We split up 5 months ago but i still like him, i now i shouldnt but the thing is he knows i do have feelings fo...

Was it sexy what I said?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - hi ive been fooling around with one of my friends for a while, we couldnt go home together today, so before last lesson as i wouldnt see him after i whispered in his ear ""shame you cant walk, im wearing that bra today"" [[its one he finds really s...

Is he using me as his sex doll?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Hi i'm the person who wrote "Getting hurt/bruised durring sex" and thanks for the answers but right after i posted that my boyfriend walked in the door with a new tatoo on his back. He had my name(Bailey) tatooed on his back and i really dont know ...

Need handjob advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Hey people, Right, i'm really scared to give a guy a handjob because iv'e never gave one before. And I kind of know what to do but i don't at the same time, if you get me. Do i go on my knees and do it? And what happens when he cums? P...

Getting hurt/bruised during sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - ok so my boyfriend and i just moved in together and on the second night i come home and he's standing there naked and wanted to have sex. I really not the kind of person who has sex with a person that fast(we've only known each other six months) and ...

Bareback sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 311 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Riiight. I've always been curious about having sex bare back - (of course whilst using some form of contraceptive) whilst in a serious relationship... I'm tempted because I've heard the stories of it being much more pleasurable. But I'm so par...

Do most men wake up "ready to go"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Whenever I spend the night at my boyfriends house, we end up having sex that night and as soon as he wakes up he wants to do it again because he says he's already hard. Do a lot of men do this too or is he just using this as an excuse to have sex?...

Can't seem to "get it" no matter what!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We started having sex 4 months into our relationship. We endure sexual intercourse weekly, and i just cant have an orgasm. We have tried different positions and instrume...

10 days ago had sex, now maybe pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - about 10 days ago, me and my boyfriend had sex and i think im pregnant. My boobs are sore, there is thick white discharge from my vagina, my period is due around the 1st of the month please help me as im really scared...

No blood--no virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - i want to ask that is that all men before doing sex has in their mind that if the women bleeds than she is a virgin and otherwise she is not...a virgin if she does not bleed...

I act confident, but I'm shy and he wants to sleep with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - Heres the story - me and this guy from work have known each other for about three years we are always flirting, he was ill for a while and we started to text each other a lot - just general stuff - now he is back at work we have been like mega ...

He doesn't seem to be able to cum. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together now for 4 months, we have an active sex life and really enjoy each other. We always turn each other on and have lots of fun. However whilst he can always get an erection, he hardly ever comes. It doesnt matter ...

Boyfriend wants me to use mouthwash after doing the deed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - my bf wants me to use mouthwash after doing the "deed" LOL is this normal? like he doesnt let me kiss him until ive used it :/ i dont mind it im just wondering if you guys or gals have the same problem o.o...

Should I have called him about the morning after pill ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - I would really appreciate some male advice as I am pretty confused at the moment. I met someone over the holidays - very attractive, successful and we had great fun. Although we were abroad he comes from London too. One thing led to another on New ...

Is this going to be a 'Train Crash'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - I'm in a new relationship, it has been eight years. I met a woman we had sex four times early in the relationship. I found out her ex-boyfriend was a lot bigger then i and we haven't had sex since then, three and a half months now. I like her and ...

Should I have sex at the age of 14?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - im for years old i go to shaw high and my bf is well i really dnt kno how old he is but i kno he is in the 10th and go to shaw he respect the fact that i was not ready to have sex with him when i went over his house so we just kissed and just ...

Is it true that a man needs time to recharge after ejaculation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been together from a young age and waited a long time to have sex. Basically we are on the same page about everything, and are very uninhibited. The problem for me is that he rarely can or rarely wants to have sex more than once. ...

Age difference is causing problems with sexual compatability

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - I have been an absolute idiot and don't know what to do. I have been so stressed out I can barely sleep. I am in a relationship with a much older man and have been for four years. It has been my only serious relationship. I have no issues or any...

She says she loves me but she doesn't want sex anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 312 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - Hello. Me and my girlfriend had been together since I was 16 and she was 15. I am now 24 and she 23. We were very much in love with each other and had a very healthy sexual life until we broke up August 2007. We kept in contact and decided August ...

I want to give my boyfriend fellatio, but he has a LOT of pubic hair.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - I want to give my boyfriend fellatio, but he has a LOT of pubic hair which is a turn off for me. I want to ask him to trim it, but I don't know how to ask him. He's very insecure and I don't want to make him feel bad. How can I suggest it without ...

How do women feel about a foot fetish man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 32, male and I have a foot / leg fetish. Not every pair of feet, you'll be relieved to hear, but the first thing I notice in a woman is her feet, shoes, whether she's wearing stockings/tights, etc. I know it sounds weird, but I was wonder...

Spicing it up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - hey guys, im looking for things that will really turn my boyfriend on while we're together or making out. we have some uhm..games i guess you could say and i've tried alot but i want to spice things up. so girls, anything you've done* to yous guy ...

20 years old and can't get up for the girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

16 January 2009 (M) - Ok, im a 20 year old male that can't get errect while with my girl. Ive tried almost everything, I work out everyday, and do keigel exercises. The exercises have helped the hardness but it doesnt matter because I cant get it up when im actually with ...

Wiped myself and saw small bits of blood... have I lost my virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

16 January 2009 (F) - ok, I kinda had sex (well I'm a virgin or at least I think I am), my boyfriend and I tried to have sex. It hurt so bad but he didn't fully go all the way inside me but it did hurt. I went home and peed, afterwards when I wiped myself I saw small ...