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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Please do not judge me. I only ask for advice or help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I just turned 16 and whenever I masturbate, I can only climax if I think about women and having sex with women, but when I am not masturbating, all I can think about is men. I love actors, and I fantasize about actors practically all day and I get ...

Why can I not get hard enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 316 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - I am 16 years old.. I had unfinished sex. It was very cold and we were outside.. I was hard at first but then when we took off our clothes I was getting softer. I first got inside her but I got soft and then I couldnt enter again.. after that ...

15 and extremely curious...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - I'm actually 15 and extremely curious about sex. Most of the questions are meant for females but males can help as well. 1)Where does a female get the most pleasure? 2)Making Love Vs. Just Sex? 3)What do you consider a large penis? 4)What ...

Why are men so obsessed with breasts but hardly notice them during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Why are men so obsessed with breasts when during sex, they don't even spend that much time on them. lol Just curious!...

Choked during sex...was it wrong of him??

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my overly passionate, subtle and lovely boyfriend for some time now. He's not very spontanous, everything seems like a walk in the park... and almost routine. Last night we had sex. And he started choking me towards the end out of the ...

She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant... could it be possible she is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - Ok so my gf and I are really scared. A few days ago I rubbed my penis against her vagina. I am 99% sure there wasn't any pre cum on my penis because there has never been before. She is having some of the symptoms of being pregnant like feeling sick ...

What happens if she's pregnant and the parents go to the police?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - hey thankyou for your help in advance, this is rather urgent my best friend who is 17 may have got his 15yr old girlfriend pregnant ((they were using protection and condom didnt split ...)) as she is late on her period they both want an abortion...

Want to be ready for sex-what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 315 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - i was in bed last night talking to my boyfriend on the phone and watch porn, so i need to really stick something down there to feel satitsfied. well its been about a year since i've put anything the size of a penis down there, but i've been fin...

Slept together and now haven't heard a thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I was out with friends a few weeks ago and i got chatting to the doorman of the bar we were in, we kissed at the end of the night and he gave me his number.we met up a few times after that, we went out last friday night and ended up sleeping ...

I can't have an orgasm now!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Okay this is rather weird to me. I have been helping myself, sexually, since the age of 12. I have always liked it and i still do enjoy it, although its becoming a bit of a problem to me. I was still a virgin when i was 17 i slept with my ex ...

I want to talk intimately but not sure how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 316 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Hello..! I (15 year old) met this guy (19 year old) 2 years ago and since then we were good friends and now for roughly a year we’ve been dating with a gap of 4 months in between due to some misunderstandings from my side. Lately we’ve got involved ...

Bleed when you have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - is it necessary that when women goes for sex first time is it necessary to bleed .....or not......?...

He pressures me to have sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: Poster is 14....NOT 23.... My boyfriend and I have been dating since November 16th 2008. We also dated in the summer of 2008. I am fourteen, he is fifteen. I've liked him since the summer of 2007, so when he announced he liked me in the ...

Not sure how to initiate sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 317 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - i'm going to see a female friend. She wants me to stay few nights with her. I would love us to have sex but do not know how to initiate it. Any ideas on slow signs don't want to be straight up or ask her at all. How can i lead things on? And make ...

I couldn't get it up for her! Was I too drunk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - Last night I was about to have sex with this girl that I have been interested in having sex with for months..Im so horny around her and I think about it all the time. Yesterday we hung out and we got drunk real bad.We were on Gin and juice for ...

My Bf' is 15 and is having erection problems! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 15. We have had sex once before. (Please dont post anything saying im to young,im being very responsible and i love him and know what im doing) The bad thing is that tonight, we were going to do it again but he couldnt ...

He wants to pee on me!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Hi there! Today I have a strange question.... or maybe not. What should I think about a man who likes to pee on a woman and get horny with it? Is it common? Once again, I think I know it all, but always being surprised... over and over again......

Is she faking it or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - Hey, I had only had sex a few times before I met my current girlfriend, and these times I have been drunk. Now i've started sleeping with her regularly, I'm noticing I can't last as long when sober. She says she really enjoys it, and orgasms quit...

1st time sex no blood--he doesn't really believe I was a virgin

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - When I had sex for the first time I never bled? I don't understand why. I masturbated a few times but like I just used to like rub my clit and stuff. I never put my hands inside my vagina. Before sex, my fiance used to finger me sometimes but I ...

I can't get intimate with anyone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - I can't get intimate with any one! My last tender moment was about four years ago i don't know whats wrong. im healthy not bad looking pretty articulate if a little dyslexic.(excuse the spelling mistakes) i have full time job or tho on off for last...

Orgasm? Or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - i need ur help on this... my bf fingered me, but i don't know if that was an orgasm. the first time he did it,held his wrist vry hard,from this he knew i had an orgasm... he fingered me another time, and this time it was longer,and i started making...