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Archived questions from: 24 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Precum equals Pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex yesterday he told after that he was scared when i asked why he said he did pull out but not when he pre cumed.. can i get pregnate from precum?...

I heard you can cum inside a girl and she won't get pregnant?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - I really need your advice here aunts and everyone else. So my g/f is virgin and me too and we will have sex when we both feel ready for it, it won't be very soon though because we both want to take out time. My question is: I know the first time i ...

Could this sexual practice be very risky?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Hello dearcupid users, Me and my girlfriend have been sexually active for about 4 years now. Lately we been talking about deepthroat, and, although we would like to try it, i feel like i might put her at risk. I dunno, tearing some tissues, ma...

My high sex drive may end our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I'm absolutely in love with my boyfriend and have been pretty much from day one after meeting him, I moved 600 miles, from Scotland to London to be with him full time after just meeting him 4 times (for 3-7 days each time) I don’t regret any of it ...

I'm a virgin but don't want to be!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - So, im sixteen and a virgin. I really really dont want to be. Im totally ready but im not sure how to make it happpen. Im not one of those girls who makes a big deal but it just hasnt happened. I don't have a boyfriend and when i do, it usually ...

What happens to the cum???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

24 January 2009 (?) - I really want to know... okay I'm a 14 year old kid and was just curious about this... when a guy has sex with a girl without a condom, and cums inside her.. where does the cum go, does her vagina obsorb it or somethng? What happens to the cum?? ...

Do circumcised guys make better lovers?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

24 January 2009 (?) - This question is strictly for the ladies, but guys can input on the matter if you'd like. My question to the ladies is... would you like a guy to have foreskin, in other words to be uncircumsized... cuz lately Iv'e been really insecure about that ...

Opinions!!! My boyfriend wants to watch me with another man - healthy and normal??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Me and my man michael have been togther almost 5 months ever since we hit about 3 months he has been asking me to have a threesome with another man and him i dont feel comfortable i did it like 4 or 5 times thinking he would give it up but he told ...

Dreams of sex with another man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Hello, My wife says she sometimes will dream of having sex with another man, is this normal? She says she enjoys it while in the dream, but afterwards feels guilty and sad for having dreamed that....

New sex stuff?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - The age shown is not my real age I am 17. Me n me bf like to try new sexual stuff. Any ideas from a female and male perspective ( if thts how you spell it) on what to say and do to make my bf more horney? Thanks...

Sexual issues--how much of a problem is this? Is it valid enough to leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I am in absolute tears as I wrote this. I am married to a wonderful man who I have been with since I was 17. If this is a bit long please bear with me. The only problem we have ever had is the lack of sex in our relationship. He has pretty much ...

This is the oddest friendship I have ever had

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I've been "friends" with this guy for about 6 months. He told me right off the bat that he didn't want a relationship, but wanted a deep and intimate friendship. We have slept together but he has emphasized that to him that is just the icing on the ...

G/f with intimacy issues

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - I'm gonna go ahead and leave our ages out of it, but my girlfriends ex boyfriend took her virginity when she was 14, she's not a trampy little teen slut, she's an incredible girl who thought she was in love. her ex cheated on her and then treated ...

B/f refusing B J

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - So, my boyfriend and i have been practicing oral for a while, as me on him. And when i am on my period i still like to treat him even though he cannot treat me. Today i asked him if he wanted to and he said not today... and that he had to use the ...

Safest time to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I've noticed that i get very horny right before i get my period. and my boyfriend and i are sexually active, and i was wondering when is the best time to have sex? like, the most safe with a condom of course. right before my period or right after?...

Why has hegone off me sexually? I haven't changed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I am a mother of 3 aged 45. I am attractive and in good shape and very indepedent with a good job. Why has my boyfriend gone off me. Its been 9 months since we last had sex and normally we are so good together. April he took me to a hotel an...

I think about sex so much I feel like a guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Ever since my boyfriend broke up with me in October, I have been extremelly horny. I masturbate about twice a day and always think about him, he was my first and only. He's a selfish jerk, but sometimes I feel so horny that I actually think about ...

Should have never let it go this far

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Ok so I have been seeing this guy for over a year. We are still just seeing each other. He comes over almost every weekend when he doesn't have work. We usually go out to eat, movies, or both. Whatever we feel like doing. We do have sex. I'm just so ...

I never came during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 303 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - i have never came during sex and i'm in love with this guy i've been whith for a long time... what should i do???...

How long to have an orgasm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 303 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - How long does it take for you to achieve an orgasm? (specifically for girls, but guys can answer too)...