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Archived questions from: 10 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why are white people more promiscuous? Don't mean to offend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I am about to ask a question and its going to sound really awkward and I honestly don't mean to offend anyone i'm just curious.... I am african american and lately I've been noticing that white people are different then black pe...

Afraid to tell my mom I want birth control

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - hi, so i have a boyfriend. we lost our virginity to each other a while ago. i know we're young and it's illegal blah blah but we were ready.. we're in love and we have sex quite a lot.. well every time we spend the night with each other at least. ...

Frenulum breve, should I have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I am uncircumcised and i have a frenulum breve, when i am erected it doesn't let me pull my foreskin behind the head because it hurts. When i am not erected i can retract the foreskin alot. I am not sure what will happen if i will have sex be...

Friends with benefits but looking for something more serious now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 316 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - Just curious, especially want to hear what guys think. I've been friends with benefits with this guy now for a couple of months. We'll typically meet up like twice a month to hang out and go out (or stay in) for dinner together or watch a movie or ...

How do you girls have an orgasm during sex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - This is a weird question.. but howww do you girls have an orgasim during sex??? Like does it feel the same as a masturbating orgasm? I recently started having sex with my boyfriend and it feels amazing but I don't know how long I have to do it until ...

Masturbation, not as good as it was.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - Hello All Well, I started Masturbating a few months ago. The First time I did it, was GREAT, one of the best feelings I'd ever felt. But now it's just not as good. The first bunch of times, my legs would feel weak, and I felt great. But now I...

Can having anal sex get me pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - Ok, I need a little help. I'm 16 and have tried anal sex with my boyfriend. He got it in a little and we did it for a couple minutes but it hurt too bad so we stopped and gave up. He never came... my question is could I get pregnant from this since ...

My boyfriend prefers to pleasure me than me pleasuring him. Is this common?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - I know that it may not sound like an amazingly problematic issue, but my boyfriend prefers to pleasure me than me pleasuring him. I have talked to him a fair amount about this. He has told me that he does enjoy what I do to him (as we are very ope...

I'm 14, he's 18--parents hate him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - well ive been seing this guy for a bit now but were not dating.......weve had sex 4 times already and we text each other alot and hes 18 he texted me the other night saying that i was an angel and that he loves me.......i mean i know its wrong but ...

Hairy chest--what do you do with it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - For guys and girls... This is the first time I have dated a guy who has a really hairy chest. When getting intimate with him, besides just running my fingers through it, what else can I do? Girls, what kinds of things do you do? and Guys, what ...

G-spot ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 316 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - My Girlfriend pretty much always has an orgasm when i go down on her or we have sex, the problem is after one orgasm she gets over sensitive or it doesnt feel as nice for her is there something I can do or is this alright. Also she feels ...

Rough crazy sex!! Now I'm torn & in pain

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had crazy/rough sex and I ripped really bad two days ago. The worst thing is that where I ripped is directly under the urine flow. It hurts so bad and it is ripped in about three spots. I have delivered two girls vaginally and one ...

I don't know what size condoms to buy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 317 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - How do I know what size condoms to buy? Since the ones we have been using for over a year are too tight for him, Im not sure what size to get.. i didnt even know they sold different sizes! Thanks!...

She's lost all interest in sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - Okay, here is my story. I have been dating my girlfriend for close to three years. For the first year, year and a half, we had sex a healthy number of times and she was very into it and so was I. For the past, I would say, 10, 11 months or so t...

We had sex he stopped calling and now he's calling 2X a day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 208 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - Ok I have a question, I don't understant men. Hi i'm 25 and have just got back into the dating game. I recently got divorced a little over a year now and have never dated anyone except for my ex husband. we got married when I was 18 and he was 27 s...

I am depressed because I need a man, but really don't want one!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - I have a 4 month old baby. The longest I have ever been single before my pregnancy was maybe 1 week. I wasnt with my daughters dad for very long, in fact, we were only together 18 days. On the last day we were together I found out I was pregnant, ...

I kissed her and she freaked! I'm baffled by her behavior..help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - I'm so Confused!!!!! I recently converted to Islam, and my very best friend was the one who helped me the most with it. She's divorced from her husband...but still living with her in-laws in the U.S. (who are actually distant family)....I spe...

Husband is emotionally abusive and visits hookers! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - So...allow me to vent and hopefully get some advice. I am 29, my husband 45. I am his third wife, but am the first to give him a son. (Sammy, 3 years old and beautiful) I knew from the beginning that he like sex with prostitutes (thought it was ...

So my leg spasmed about 5 minutes after sex, is that an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

10 January 2009 (F) - So earlier tonight me and my bf had sex and this time i was on top. So i don't think i've ever had an orgasm but i know its like leg twitched. But after we had sex i got dressed and went out into the living room. As we were sitting there(within 5 ...

Is she not sexually attracted to me any more? Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

10 January 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year and 3 months. I have eaten her out and she has given me a blowjob. We've been doing stuff like this for a while now but for some reason its just now that she decides that she doesn't feel right doing it and ...

Problems with sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

10 January 2009 (?) - I had sex with my girlfriend the other day, there was white stuff all over the top of the condom. Is it possible that the girl can still have white come even if she didn't have an orgasm?...