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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Do men like having their anus aroused during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life and have recently started exploring each other a little more... by that I mean he will now finger my anus as well. Although I enjoy this I know I will never have anal sex because it does hurt a lot when ...

Life span of sperm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - i just wanted to know how long can sperm live outside in room temperature ...

I'm nervous and feel like a virgin again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I have been celibate many years by choice. I have a man that i care for very much. we have been close friends for many years. I know he is sexaully attracted to me and I am attracted to him. 'm ready to have sex but a little nervous like I'm a ...

How can I be a sex kitten and give a good BJ or HJ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I need to become this sexy kitten (so to speak) for my new boyfriend, the thing is I am mostly all talk and am really worried that he will be disappointed, what do guys like to be done to them, for example what is the best way to give a blow job or ...

I don't want to have sex with him, would a BJ be acceptable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - This guy I work with I think just wants a one-off, he has asked me round to his place, I want to go because I fancy him but I don't want to have sex the first time we are alone, what can I do instead of going all the way, would a blow job be ...

My g/f never wants sex now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - im a 21 yr old guy im pretty good looking. ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years. the first 9 months our sex lives for great. we would have sex at least once or twice a day. my girlfriend is 22 yr old. we had a baby about a year in a half ago. my ...

What's the big fuss about being ginger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Im just wandering do men get put off by ginger public hair? Whats the big fuss bout gingers?...

1st time sex with experienced guy I feel uncertain

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - im in love with an older guy but i am a virgin. im 20 and hes in his 40s, divorced with kids, his oldest is older than i am. im really scared about having sex with him. I heard that for your first time its better to go on top but im scared i could ...

How to stop rapid ejaculation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - how to get cure speedy discharge (premature ejaculation) , natuarally ? ...

Do most women shave their vulvas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - What do men prefer shaved or unshaved? I never know what to do for the best. When i man is giving oral sex to a women do he like it smooth? Do most women out there shave their vaginas?...

How can I find a bf who wont just use me for sex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - All I want is a boyfriend that will stick around and not just use me for sex. It always happens to me, I don't know whether its the people I choose or whether its me. I know I could be a good girlfriend and I would treat someone so well, but I ...

Being naked in front of a man terrifies me....any advice??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Ive got a weird problem. Ive lost 5 stone in weight and im am a slim size 10. I do have a little excess skin on my tummy from the weight loss but the i seem to have a fat vagina. Its sticks out when i lie down like a mountain and when i stand up it ...

We have FWB relationship, I want more, he still has feelings for ex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Hi Everyone! Iam so sad and disappointed at the moment and really dont know what to do. Please tell me what the best thing I have to do right now. I have been with a man for 4 months, I really had fun with him, and of course we had sex ( great...

Condom slipped off & now need words of comfort

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - So I'm kinda freaking out...My boyfirend and I had sex tonight and well the condom sliped off. Well he cam and I guess it was like at the bottom of my yeah...but I went striaght to the bathroom and wash it off with hot water and soap very carefully ...

Does masturbation lower your sperm count?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5576 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - well I'm woundeing howany times can a normal man master bate? And does it lower your sperm count? Will it here if you do it more than 2 times? I'm sorry I'm just really curious...

Should I ask my friend about his sexuality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5577 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a friend who is 29 and as far as we know (we've known him since school) is a virgin. He's never had a gf and often expresses crushes on women at his work, etc, but will not ever act upon it, even if a woman asks him out. He's fairly shy, ...

I'm not comfortable with the woman on top position

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I really need your help! I have been dating my boyfriend now for 2 years and i am now trying to avoid sex. Im very shy about it and have started refusing it. Im very embarrased about the fact that i cant get on top of him. When i have tried in the ...