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Archived questions from: 28 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Can a man "secretly" love someone if he's involved with someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Is it possible for a man to "secretly" love a woman if he is involved with someone else? I don't think it's possible - in fact, I don't think a man would waste his time with one woman if his real heart's desire were available. But if his real love ...

Dry humping scare... could I be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I have a feeling the answer is going to be a definite 'no' here, but I thought I'd better check because I'm quite anxious about this. I spent the night at my boyfriend's and things got pretty heated in bed, he was wearing his shorts but I was stark ...

How do I help my girlfriend stop blaming herself for bad sex and start blaming the GUY?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - My girl friend met a guy and a party and began dating him - he pressured her for sex. After a couple weeks she gave in because he said all the right things and she trusted him. Once he got what he wanted he dumped her. She moved on to me - and ...

Help me choose the best vibrator!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Hello cupids, This may seem a silly question but I'm looking to invest in a vibrator. I have not used one before and have been looking at the Ann Summers website but there is such a variety I don't know where to start. Could anyone give me some ...

Girlfriend not a virgin - but what can I make of this sex act?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - My girl friend told me recently that she had sexual intercourse with a guy before we met. Now stay with me - she explains it like this. He did not ask her to have set, he laid down on her and did it for a few minutes. She said that she had broke ...

How long should I wait to get on birth control with a new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a few days ago wants me to get on birth control. I've gone on it before and it's great! But to me that a huge thing to be sleeping with someone and just relying on the pill. Plus, I have to look out for myself. How long should I wait ...

Can sex be used to control someone or a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I've never done "it", but can "it" be used to control someone or a relationship?...

Faster orgasm when legs are closer, why is that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - How come when you masturbate when you spread your legs it takes longer to organism but when you close them tight it takes a shorter time?...

What can I do about my gfs low sex drive??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - dear cupid, My,girlfreind has a really low sex drive, she has been like this ever since i met her and now its starting to hurt me because i want her to feel the same way sexually about me as i do her. When we have sex its always me coming on to ...

Irrational fear about the male body?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now and we are very close and open with each other and get on really well. I'm a virgin and he's not, though he has been very understanding about my not being ready to have sex yet and has never ...

Sexually involved with co-worker now he's seeing another co-worker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Okay.. I went out with my coworker over course of 2 months we were having sex.. Now a few weeks later he's in a relationship another coworker. I'm really uncomfortable with this. I haven't told them because I want them to see that I'm okay with it ...

I'm wondering if I'm bi? At what age does bisexuality usually show up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - Hello, I am a 21 year old male, and I have always thought of myself has 100% hetrosexual. I had my first serious sexual relationship at 17 and have had another serious sexual relationship at 20. I am now in my third serious sexual relationship but ...

Extra skin "there" is it normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I've recently noticed that theres quite a bit of extra skin around my vagina. If i try to put my finger up my vagina i can feel flesh around the opening that sometimes slightly blocks it. Is this normal??? Will it make things difficult having s...

How often do guys jerk off?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - I'm not a guy and I honestly don't understand how men work. I am with my boyfriend for almost a year. For 5 years prior to this relationship he was single. He had to get used to taking matters into his own hands for quite some time. When I first ...

Sex for the first time didn't work! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - hi, i desperately need some advice. I tried having sex for the first time last night, it was with my boyfriend of 7 months and we were perfectly save and everything. There was just one problem, he couldn't get his penis into me. Has anyone else had...

Which kind is prefered? Straight or bent?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - iv a question for the female population, but iv been wondering. what kind of penis do you prefer? a straight up one, or one with a bend?...

What name should I call him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. This is a bit of a silly question, so don't laugh at me :P Me and my boyfriend have pet names for each other (I'm Bunny, he's Bear - yes, it's sickening. Told you not to laugh!), and we use them so often that we barely ever call eac...

I'm really confused about my sexuality all the time

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28 January 2009 (M) - I think im confused about my sexuality the problem is i have had sex with men an woman when i have sex with a man i feel like some little raving hussy and im so horny but when i have sex with a woman i like to treat her like i have sex with men am ...

Step sister pregnant with my child, will we have problems in future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - my mother died when I was 1,after 3 years my father remarried,but my mother was from London,We stay in India,I have a step sister,she is 8 years younger than me.we started having sex when she was 15,my parents do not know about has they are very ...

I feel like my past is preventing me from reaching an orgasm.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Hello, I am twenty years old and having trouble having an orgasm. I have really good sex and we try various different positions and I can feel it coming, but feel it leave just as quickly. It sort of passes me by and I don't experience it, really. ...

Help needed in the sex department!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - This is rather embarrassing but I need some help in the sex department. My boyfriend and I have been having great sex for about 3 months now, but I'm always feeling like he does more for me than I do for him. I also have this serious phobia of ...

Bi-sexual, very open about sex, I am different, but told I am too much, what gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - So I'm 17, bisexual, and a very open person sexually. When I say that I mean when I have partner or potential partner, I don't play those mind games most girls my age (that I know) seem to play about having sex. I lay all the cards out on the table. ...

How do I, a man, lose my virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - i am a virgin and i need to look a girl to have sex but i don't know how to ask. ...

I need a primer in sexual techniques, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - I would just like to know. I have never gone more than making out with my girlfriend. If we are ready to move on what would be the best way to like lick her pussy? like would should i do to make it feel good for her to make her want to give me a ...

No teeth please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - my girlfriend loves giving me head and luvs to swallow, not to sound ungreatful but she isnt very good at it. her teeth get in the way and my penis is very sensitive and after a while it begins to hurt resulting in me not being able to cum.is there ...

Do all girls squit?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - i have seen girls in videos squirting and some of them squirt as if they are a waterfall and it gushes out... do girls always squirt when they have an orgasm? and if they do is it just water?...

What do girls enjoy watching?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

28 January 2009 (M) - do girls enjoy watching heterosexual sex as much as guys? do they enjoy watching other girls please themselves?...

If I didnt cum what was it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - My bf was fingering me. and while he was this white liquidy stuff came out. but it couldnt have been cum because ive read up about it and it says it should be clear. and it didnt feel 'all that' so what was it?...