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Archived questions from: 31 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Sex and regrets

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Well, i am a roman catholic. I have been with my boyfriend for about 1 year, 2 and a half months. And today, yes, we had sex. (He is also roman catholic) And now im feeling guilty :/ and a bit .. confused. I always told my self i would wait...

How can I be as hot as a porn star?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - How can I be as hot as a porn star? I'm really adventurous in bed, but how can I be really hot? Equally hot as a porn star? I'm not trying to make my bf stop watching (he's not addicted and he's offered to stop, but I don't want to control hi...

My boyfriend's penis smells!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Okay this is really embarrassing but I have a sex problem. I've been going out with my man for close to four years and the sex is good, when we do have it. I want to please him and stuff, I love to give oral sex and have been told I'm very very good ...

I'm scared shitless in case I don't come up to her standards re sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

31 January 2009 (?) - Ok this is the problem I'm in, I've been with a girl for 1 year since I was 15. Well now I'm 16 and gonna join the army etc. Well my girlfriend wants to take our relationship up to he next level by having intercourse. I've done the minor stuff ...

Explicit!! Guys: how much do you notice when a girl clenches her abs really hard during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I can never tell the difference when I do kegels during intercourse, but I notice a TREMENDOUS difference when I clench my abs as hard as I can. There is a huge increase in sensitivity and pleasure for me, the female. So, I spend 60%+ of my time ...

I always end up giving my friend oral sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I really need some help. For the past year there is this guy that I used to work with. When working together we would run off after work and fool around. Now that I don't work there any more we still talk and I'll go see him on his lunch hour and I ...

I am very confused at the moment, I seem to lack any kind of emotion...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

31 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I am very confused at the moment, I seem to lack any kind of emotion, I have completely gone off sex (with my wife only) I feel a great urge to have sex in massage parlours, on sex chat lines and I seem to want to live out fantasies of the woman ...

Will I bleed the first time we have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I want to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time, but I am scared I'm going to bleed. He has fingered me 2 times, and I use my fingers when I masturbate too. I haven't seen any blood yet. Will I bleed the first time we have sex?...

Infections in having anal sex???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Today I lost my anal virginity to my boyfriend of 7 months but what I didn't actually know [until today] was that you can't use the same condom/finger/whatever in the anus and vagina.. Is there a chance I could get some sort of infection??? and if ...

How can I experience sex for the first time without thinking about the pain???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half and we're both really wanting to have sex but I'm always so scared to. I'll decide that I really want to try and then when it comes down to it I get so scared about the pain that I'm getting ...

When should I tell him about my past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'd like your advice and i'd be grateful if any male could also give me advice and women :). i'm curently chattin with a guy hes 24 i'm 18. its been nearly a month and we have had lots of arguments mostly my fault and we always make up....but its ...

I'm scared when its time to have sex I'm going to get sick!

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31 January 2009 (F) - In a couple of months i'm due to get married to my faince, we've been together for a long time, haven't had sex justed kissed, (i prefered to get married and have sex so i stuck to my oath) and then he proposed to me so i said yes. But the problem ...

To shave? Or leave it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi...im a 14 year old girl and i have my first boyfriend now and we have been going out for a couple of months and i think he wants to have sex! i dont know what to do,do i shave off all my pubic hair?? please help...:)x ...

It feels like he just wants to do it and get it over with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year and we used to have a very active sex life, we used to have sex practically everyday sometimes more than once a day. but in the past month we have hardly had sex at all, i think it's been ...

Did I just experience an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I need your help girls. I need to know if this was an orgasm or not... when my bf would finger me on my clitoris I would start getting short breaths and making noises and breathing heavily and very very fast and I would grasp him very very tight... ...

Typical dating timeline?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I have been talking with a guy for a few weeks now. Having never been in a real relationship before I am unaware of the “typical dating timeline.” So far we have made out and done a bit clothes-on fondling, but nothing else. I really want him to ...

I offered to have sex with my gay friend to "turn him straight"! What now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'm going to be 16 soon. I've known this gay friend for years now and we're really good friends. I tell him everything and vice versa. A while ago, he was really depressed because the guy he likes for a long time finally decided to tell him the ...

I love him but I didn't want to have sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - im a 22yrs old and i lost my virginity last month to my bf of 11 months. i was saving my self for marriage b\c its part of my religion. my bf pressured me into doing it but i started to cry during it and he stopped. the next day he tried again and i ...

Had drunk sex with a friend is there still a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Ok this is a really confusing and complex situation and I need some guys point of view on this but ladies feel free to help ;) I've been friends with this great guy for about a year now and we went to college together. We're both pretty much...

She's inexperienced. How can I teach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

31 January 2009 (M) - ok so my lover and i are very much in love we make out every time we see each other we have not had sex yet but we are joanzing to! i do alot of things to her like foreplay and oral but she is new at this and doesnt know how to do anything and i ...

Do guys know if you're a virgin when you have sex for the first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - When you have sex for the first time, is there a different feeling for guys like do they feel you a virgin or the feeling is the same to when you are not one? Like how people say I'm tight and you loose? Is that really true?...

Masturbation...

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31 January 2009 (F) - I was reading about masturbation recently and I just wondered how to do it properly because some times I don't reach orgasm. I don't really want a toy yet so I just use my fingers to stimulate my clitoris, but I don't really know how to do it ...