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Sex: Help and advice

I told my sister I had sex and now she's going to tell my parents if I don't break up with my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time the other night and after we did it I felt shocked because I couldn't believe I actually did it. I also felt guilty because I have told people that I'm going to wait untill marriage. So in my confusion I ...

Extreme premature ejaculation problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) - hi i am a 21 year old male and have a really bad premature ejaculation problem. i can only last around 2-8 seconds in my partner and its ruining my life. i feel utterly hopeless and pathetic although my partner claims it doesnt bother her and never ...

Should I tell someone about what this guy did to me while drunk?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - On new years eve, me and my friends were all drunk. But for some reason I was more drunk than everyone, probably just because I'm a lightweight. But at some point we left the party and went outside I didn't know why (I was just following my friends) ...

How do I tell him I want more passion and intimacy without hurting his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - Been with my boyfriend now for nearly 2 years only see him on occasions as we live a distance away from each other. When we do get together i find i'm always the one making the first move, my past relationship was passionate so i miss the intimacy. ...

He's drawing fake 'staches on me and making me dress/talk like a man in the bedroom... is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - hi, im 21 and my boyfriend is 25. He keeps asking me to dress in his clothes and talk in a deep voice when we have sex. he even tried to draw a fake mustache on me with eye liner. he says its a huge turn on. is this normal? ...

How can I live with the guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - My best mates has been going out with a long term mate of mine for over 4 years. We are all good, long term friends, including my bf (and yer I am gay), well all get on really well as a group. But one night me and my best mate's gf went out with ...

How long does it take for implantation to take place?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - Ok, here goes my story... My bf and i had unprotected sex last night and again this morning. It is now approximately 18 to 20 hours since it happened. I know i was suppose to ovulate the day before yesterday but i never noticed any stretchy mucous ...

He no longer wants to have sex! I can't fix this without him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - My husband doesnt want to have sex with me anymore. Now it's gotten to the point that I don't even like to try because I feel like I'm forcing him. He makes up every excuse in the book, from being too tired to being stressed out to just plain "I'm ...

What is the name for this kind of threesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - Me and a friend came up with an interesting thing to do while having a threesome (2 f, 1 m) but dont know if there is a name for it... It would involve the 2 girls lying on top of each other (face to face) while you go down on both of them simultan...

What does it mean if my boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as we used to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - What does it mean if my boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as we used to? He says he is so tired lately but for some reason I feel like he isn't as interested or attracted to me. We don't live together, and we are both 19, if that is any help. ...

Can any girls out there just list the different feelings you experience when you have an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - Just a quick question for the girls, I have had one sexual partner and another guy who I would have fooled around with. Thing is I'm not sure if I've ever had an orgasm through sex or otherwise. I get pleasured but sometimes it's mixed with pai...

I need some advice please about my ladyfriend's vaginal odour.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I need some advice please about my ladyfriend's vaginal odour. I only get to see her about once every couple of months and we have a good sexual relationship in the short time we're together. However, on my last visit a few days ago, I was about ...

I'm scared of losing the relationship we have now and also our friendship if I tell him about my feelings.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - I'm 21 years old and I have never been in a relationship. In the past year I have become close to a old work friend, about 7 months ago we slept together and it was my first time. After the first time we slept together we had a big argument because ...

I feel like I have to act cautiously or else I might mess everthing up again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - I had my girlfriend over at my house yesterday and my parents were home. We wanted to fool around but couldn't in my house (for fear of noise), so we told each other we would have our way with each other somewhere else later on. We teased each other ...

How can I make it better re sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I enjoy giving my guy hand jobs and pleasuring him, and he likes to put his penis betweeen my boobs, what is the best position to do this (especially if we don't have anything to sit on), and how do I make it better for him, e.g do I squeeze ...

Can I get some detailed thoughts on what I should do and why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - I am 16 and I am a virgin, I just recently got a really nice girl who happens to be 14. Whenever I look at this I think I am a wierdo, but in all actuality I really just want a good relationship and I think she can provide it. So we were talking ...

A way to stop old unwise men.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - Alright everyone, we all know that there are old men out there on the Internet preying on innocent teenagers and children. You know what? It all disgusts me!!! I'm 18 and a year or two ago (when I was 16 or 17), my mom said I should watch "How To ...

Do I fake it or tell him the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 324 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - if my partner isnt good in the sack do i fake an orgasm or just tell him?...

Where is the best spot to stimulate a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - Quick question: What is the best spot to stimulate on a woman. The inside of the vagina in general, the g-spot specifically, or the clitoris. I realize a combination of them are needed I would just like to know which is the most important....

How do I have sex with her without making it obvious that's what I want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 326 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - I am a lesbian. I made a new friend about 3months ago. At first she was interested in my other lesbian friend. At that time, I just broke up with my girlfriend. She was always there for me. We called each other some times and flirt. Until 1 night wh...

How do you turn on a girl and get her in the mood?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

1 January 2009 (?) - what is the best way to turn on a girl and get her in the mood? im 16 and wana know how to turn girls on my age help?...

Questions about chlamydia

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

1 January 2009 (F) - I know you catch chlamydia by sexual intercourse, or anal or oral but, how does the 1st initial person catch it or develop it? How does it develop?...

I like having my butt rubbed..weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

1 January 2009 (M) - i really enjoy it when my wife rubs my butt hole through my undies, and only through undies...is this normal 4 a 22 y.o male??? ...