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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Drunk Sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - It was after I had been out for a few drinks with my mates, I had been texting this boy for ages and we were always talking about doing things but we never got the chance! Anyway, I was talking to him in the bar and before i know it, it was ...

Wanted just for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Hi i think i have come to realise that any boy i seem to meet just wants me for sex..i went out with my ex for a week and he asked for sex! i said no so he left..what a mug also why do most boys (atleast that i know) like easy girls? isnt a gi...

I'd like my husband to masturbate in front of me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - How can I work up the nerve to ask my husband to masturbate in front of me? I know he does it on his own, and I would like for him to do it with me. Would I disgust him by asking? Or do you think he'd be more than willing? I would like to get him ...

Full blown fishy fanny!!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is 15... and I recently engaged with her... but after my fingers STUNK OF FISH. I'm not talking a little, I mean full blown fishy fanny! What do I do??? I can't go round with smelly hands :( Thanks :)...

I love my boyfriend but he's not big enough for me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a while now, and I really really like him. Everything in our relationship is perfect, except for he has a tiny penis (3" when erect) which cannot satisfy my needs... I don't want to lose him but do ...

Why does the idea of a threesome excite me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - Hello everybody, Here goes some matter that has been troubling me: Often when I'm aroused, the idea of having a threesome with my GF and another guy excites me alot. What does that mean? For years i would find it disgusting and get mad a...

I found x-rated pictures of him & his ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - My fiance recently gave me some discs to use on my pc. As I was looking through them I came across xxx pictures of him and an ex-girlfriend. I feel sick and can't get the image out of my head. I have told him that I've found them but haven't been ...

How can I show my love without having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - i am 20yrs and a virgin, i have a boyfriend of 26yrs also a virgin as he told me and is currently working. i love him soo much as he is my first boyfriend. but the fact that we both have not sexed makes him feel i dont love him. i am scared of ...

Girls: Does fingering hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Hi I was wondering if other girls feel like getting fingered hurts. When I get fingered the faster my partner goes, the more it tends to hurt. I'm a virgin and wonder if that has anything to do with it. This is the third person I've been with who's ...

Is it normal to have sex dreams?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

17 January 2009 (?) - I'm very curious about something that has been happening to me. I've found myself thinking about sex a lot. It may be normal since I am 18 and still a virgin. I always wonder what my first time may feel like. I have been so curious that I've even ...

Is the relationship totally built on sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Bailey here again from relationship hell. For those of you who didnt read my questions yesterday let me bring you up to date. My boyfriend and i recently moved in together and when i came home on the second night he standing there naked and wanted ...

Wants to do two--neither to know

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 306 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - This is the situation: a woman is in love with two men, and she wants to sleep with each of them, just one time, without the other knowing, but at the same time not wanting to come across as being a slut. How could she approach this relationsh...

First time sex curiosity

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 309 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - So ... it hurts when you first have sex yeah? So would it hurt if my boyfriend fingered me? If so is there anyways I should stand, sit or lay down to make it less painfull. Am a virgin so it will also be my first time with something up there if...

I love my boyfriend to bits.... but he's really bad in bed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Ok I posted a question a couple of days ago about my boyfriend. Basically he's the nicest guy in the world and we really get on, he's really snuggly and everything but theres a catch, he's really bad in bed. It started off me just thinking he was ...

Boyfriend wants me to consider a threesome

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: Poster is 18, not age stated Just so ya know am not between the ages of 13-15 I thought when you signed up you had to be around that age. Well am 18 and my boyfriend asked me if I would do anal sex and I said no and he was okay with it ...

How can I erase the guilt I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 309 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - i am a 26 years old unmarried guy. when i was in high school I was attracted to one girl ‘A’ (she was my school junior and thereafter my college junior) we were good friends and i always provoke her to have sex with me but she always denied as she ...

Does it always hurt first time???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Is it always the case that when a woman has sex for the 1st time then she should have pain while doing intercourse with her husband...... or not?...

I'm sexually clueless, very unconfident about my body and sex never leads to orgasm, help!...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I am 20 yrs old... ive been married for almost 6months.. i know, young. but anyway. My now husband n i started havin sex about 5 months into the relatinship. he was my first everythin. I had only kissed 2 othr guys and never did ANYTHING else wit...

How can I move from orgasming in the tub to orgasming with my bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - I think there's something wrong with me. I can't orgasm during sex with my boyfriend, but when I'm in the tub, under the faucet, I orgasm a lot. I've been using the water masturbation every since I was 6 years old! I always fake moan with my ...

Threatened & raped by neighbor, I can't tell my husband

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - ok i happy to found this site i think it help us to finde answers in all things in our life my english not good but i try do my best :) i was raped by neighbor when I was 14 years and he 25 years i think he play with me like my brother i thin...

Want to get naughty, but parents do "room patrol"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost two months and he wants me to give him a hand job. Im ok with the idea its just that whenever i go to his house, his parents are there and they sometimes come into his room to “check on us”. I ...

Cant stop masturbating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 310 days ago

17 January 2009 (M) - iam 15 year old boy cant stop masturbating about my teacher and ome time lesbians when everyone asleep i look at lesbians it hink im gay....

anal sex doesn't turn me on but will lack of it turn him off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - okay so my fiance likes anal sex alot but it hurts really bad... so how exactally do i tell him that i dont want to do it anymore with out him getting turned off???...

My fiance just doesn't want to have sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

17 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years over the holidays we got engaged. But the problem is for the last month he does not want to have sex. This caught me off gaurd due to the fact that sex was never an issue. I've tried talki...