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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He's masturbating more than I can count!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Recently for past 5 months my husband masturbates more than i can count. Our love life had been really awsome and try to play out fantasys! I accidentally caught him one morning with my underware before getting in shower. Tried to over look it but ...

Does a guy notice difference if a girl is a virgin or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 305 days ago

19 January 2009 (?) - Hi everyone, I have been curious on whether or not a guy feels a difference from having sex with a girl who is a virgin from having sex with a girl who's not? I know some girls will bleed on their first time, but it their anyother way a guy can tell ...

13, unprotected sex with b/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - im 13 an i have had sex with my boyfriend.. it was unprotected and nobody in my family knows im sexually active.. im scared incase im pregnent or have catched anything.. i jus dont know what to do.. hes telling me its going to be alright.. but i ...

Herpes???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 305 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - Well I was having sex with my girlfriend and I did something stupid, I kissed her when I had a coldsore and then I asked her to give me oral and she did it then we had sex. She bit me while giving me oral and the next day I found a red spot along ...

We're going at 2 different speeds and I wish he'd slow down a bit.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - He's like.. Let's get it on! But I'm not ready yet! I just started dating this guy.. Our kisses are very, very passionate. I mean enough to lead up to sex, but I'm putting on the brakes. Of course I want sex but much later in the relationship. I ...

Can men hold their cum in??????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I have several questions because I asked my friend and it was totally confusing what he said. So if a guy cums while in intercourse, you can get pregnant right? So how long do you have to take birth control or is there anything else ? Also, ...

Do men have sometimes have really intense orgasms and sometimes just normal, mild ones, like women do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I dont want this to sound dirty or perverted in any way but I'm just curious. Do men have sometimes have really intense orgasms and sometimes just normal, mild ones, like women do? And do they produce the same amount of semen every time they ...

I pushed her beyond her boundaries and now we are both suffering

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - Ok, ok, I was being an asshole and I pushed my girlfriend too far. We didn't actually have sex but it was way farther than her moral standards would have let her go. She's 3 1/2 years younger than me and lives with strict parents as an only child. ...

Sex is boring & I want him to stop

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - ok so ive been having sex for 2 months now and i dont seem 2 enjoy penetration like i get bored and just want him 2 stop... can anyone help me with this.. and also why is it when i get this feeling i dont think its a orgasim but im not sure ...

Questions about first time sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

19 January 2009 (?) - Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. (He's 22 and I am 18) we have a great relationship, lately we have been making out and one thing leads to another and we find ourselves totally naked ready to have sex. I am still a virgin and he ...

Wet dreams a lot...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 304 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 15 year old boy and I masturbate a lot about lesbians and my sexy science teacher mrs Sugiama and one night I didn't masturbate and I had a wet dream about her giving me a blowjob and the next night it was lesbian porn please help dear ...

Messy sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 3-4 months now, and I've just recently started taking the pill. The first time we did it without a condom and he came inside me, I was on top... But I completely didn't realise it would...

Should my girl's sexual history bother me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - So first off i want to say i am a virgin and this girl and i have been talking about sex. Well she is also technically a virgin guys have never done anything to her but she told me she has done things orally to like 5 different guys. I mean i am ...

Sex is a sacred thing to me and I'm not interested in my fiance's ideas.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for a long time and, since we are both virgins, we decided that we are not going to have sex until we are married. So, as an alternative we will "mess around" by touching and pleasuring each other, but we are ...

Love my husband so much, not sexually attracted to him, adicted to my lover

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my husband for 12 year, married for 5. Although we once had very steamy sex and were completely in love and "in like", for me, the attraction is completely gone. It has been for probably 9 years. There's a lot of resentment on my pa...

Making love to a deaf woman, how can I make it great for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - I have had a long time friend who is a beautiful deaf woman. Sometime we communicate through writing words or drawing pictures. We often greet each other with hugs and kisses. She kisses quite nice and she is quite attractive. I would like ...

I'm 22 years old and I have no sex drive, patience or want for children!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Hi, there ok i have a huge problem!!!! im 22 years old and i have no sex drive almost at all ive tried toys and i dont really care for them and even porn but the same thing!!!! also i have no patience what so ever like the littlist things make me ...

Feeling low because of my sex history.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 307 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i really need your help. Im 18 years old and in college. i waited until i was 18 to have sex and it was a drunken one night stand that turned into a semi relationship for a month and a half. then i had sex with this guy who i don't even...

Any tips on how I can delay my ejaculation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - Okay guys this is kinda embarassing for me but i plan on having sex for the first time soon. I am really worried about how long it is gonna take me to ejaculate. This girl that i am with is super hot and she wants to role play and that is gonna ...

Was I an asshole?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

19 January 2009 (?) - One night came home after work and was horny as hell. I ended making love to my girlfriend. She's extremely self-conscious about her breasts because of a birthmark and won't take off her bra for me no matter how I beg. Anyway I couldn't take it ...

Controlling bowels and anal sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Hi, ok Im on my thirties and in a very loving relationship of 3yrs. We have a great sex life and enjoy everything together. We've been having anal sex for a while now and I'm wondering if anyone has any advice on how to fully control my bowels. ...

I gave him a bj, haven't heard from him, should I text him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - ok so.... this is my problem... on new years eve i was really wasted and texted this one guy ive crushed on for a few months, it was like 1:30am and i told him to come up because i didnt feel well.. suprisingly he came up and we somewhat hungout,...

She doesn’t want to begin a physical relationship until she’s has had a tummy tuck completed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - While working as an online volunteer, I gradually formed a long distance romantic relationship with a co-volunteer. I’d known the woman professionally for a couple of years and developed great respect and admiration for her. However, we live 2000 ...

I rarely get head but she REALLY doesn't want it herself either...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - I have a question regarding variety of sex dropping off in general, and cunnilingus in particular. My wife and I have been married nine years, been together for fifteen. No kids. When we were first got together we were quite open to most "stan...

Masturbating and Oral Desires

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - Has anyone while masturbating themselves, ever desired to experiment with someone of the same sex? Does this mean I'm gay? I've never acted on this feeling, but god it turns me on just thing about it....