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Archived questions from: 10 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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I will give anything just to be in love even for one day..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - I am almost 22 years old and I have never been kissed or had sex. Most people are excited about turning 21 but it was one of the worst days of my life because I knew it was one step closer to being a 40 year old virgin.. I have never been in a ...

Will girls still want me if I have waist fat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - Hi i'm kobi. I have gotten a little bit overweight recently but still want a girlfriend. will girls still want me? I mean, i'm doing my best to lose weight at the moment but I'm not sure whether I'll still be attractive with some waist fat. can a...

Why do I attract pieces of shit?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - WHY DO I ATTRACT PIECES OF SHIT? I'm having a total break-down! I've been reflection on stuff and I want to scream...........is it me? what am i doing wrong? here's the story: I was with my ex for 13 years!!!(hs bf). He did NOTHING! I went ...

Has a friend messed it up for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I'm so confused! I told a boy in year 9 (Im in year 8) that I had a crush on him and he replied back as 'I fancy you a bit too' We were talking and he seemed really sweet, so I put him as a shoutout on my MSN name with a love heart, messages ...

Am I in a love triangle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - hello dear readers, so i sposted allready lot's of questions.The story is like this i've been seeing a girl for 4 months, and beetween us is real serios.She loves me and she does everything for me, we went o vacation together, she slept at my house ...

I was gutted when my friend asked him out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Here's my problem: I really clicked with this guy who goes to my college, quicker than any friend I have ever made. He's really physical and touches me a lot. He likes carrying me around, sitting next to me - when our knees touch under the table ...

Is my manhood too small?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - hey there, i have what some mite say an unusual question. i have been married for two years and although my wife and i have a great sexual relationship i have never been able to make here cum by just having sex. it always takes a little "rubbing". ...

Is my lack of reaching out proof that I didn't like or care about him as much as I thought?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - So I have been talking to this guy for a little less than a year. We don't attend the same school so it's mostly through the phone and text messages. However, I do visit as often as I can. Now I have grown to like and care for him greatly and ...

Crush on my boss at work...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I have been working at a new job for a few months now and since day one of my interview I've had a major crush on my boss. He's about 15-20 years older then me but I cant help but find him attractive. He has a lot of charisma and is passionate about ...

I'm 17, still a virgin and I really don't want to be!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Heya, I'm 17, still a virgin and .. I really don't want to be! All my friends are in relationships and having lots of sex or just having sex anyway. I have quite a lot of male friends that I am close friends with and feel confident around but I seem ...

I'm not in a relationship but I feel like I need to call it off with this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I had a little too much to drink at a party one night and ended up in one of the boys who lived there's bed. he moved away from home so left his girlfriend. we just kissed and i wouldnt go any further. he asked me if i wanted to see him again and ...

My boyfriend is trying to finger me while I am asleep. Why is he being so crude?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. We're adults and live in our own places, however we have a situation when it comes to sex. I've recently gained weight and I feel unattractive and insecure. Everytime he tries to initiate sex I ...

We confessed we liked each other over a month ago. What should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - me and her used to be friends but then we confessed we liked each other, that was over a month ago and now things have pretty much gone back to how they were before, we haven't talked about our feelings since. I know she trusts me enough to tell me ...

Which is worse and how to move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiance for over three years now. At the beginning of our third year together I made a few mistakes. I once gave my number out to a guy, but told my fiance on the same day and didn't know why I did it. I then developed a crush on ...

After 2 negative pregnancy tests could I still be pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Alright so on August 15th, I had unprotected sex, we didnt use the pull out method nor did he ejaculate in me (that either one of us are aware of), I had just come off my period at the time. I am now almost a month late on my period (it will be a ...

I think I need a break to sort things out. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - Just before my fifteenth birthday I was with this guy, who I fell in love with. But then he made some bad decisions and we went our seperate ways. Not even a month later, I got with this new guy who was nothing spectacular and I figured he'd just be ...

Why would a guy show a girl he likes her and then just disappear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - college started for 3 wks, I haven't seen my crush for the whole summer and since schools started he's been showing more attention to me. He would stare at me try to keep eye contact and I felt him trying to be around me. When we are in the same...

I do not want to ruin my marriage for a ghost! Please Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I have been happily married for 11 years, no kids :-( my husband is wonderful man and I could not have asked for more. He gives me everything I've ever wanted. I am a very conservative women and for the the past 11 years I have never ever thought ...

Shouldn't she inspire me to get my driver's license?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - I really fell for this girl I met online. We dont live too close by, but its not that far either. About 30-40 minute drive. We have been talking for months and we planned on getting together a few months back, but things didnt work out. Then we ...

What's the point of a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - i need to know whats the point of a relationship? after being dumped, cheated on, hurting others, and my obsession with romance. ive lost my way and reasons why a relationship is so important...

Is there something wrong with me if I don't enjoy oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - So I have a boyfriend and we've been with each other for just over 7 months now. We've been having oral sex for a little while now as I'm not really ready for sex yet and he's fine with that. But, the problem is when he gives me oral sex I don't ...

Any suggestions on vegetarian meals I can have?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

10 October 2009 (M) - I'm a vegetarian and I have an alergy to anything with egg in, I have no idea what to eat because my choices are pretty slim, everyone i date thinks it's weird and that i'm just being awkward. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what meals I can ...

Should I tell him he kissed a guy when he was drunk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

10 October 2009 (F) - I am in a new relationship with a man I very much love. Our relationship is going really well, and I think he's the man I may want to marry. Last night, though, I was at a friend's birthday party and got blackout drunk and apparently kissed a guy ...