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Will we have enough cash to survive on if we move in together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (F - Me and my fiance have started new jobs and we both get just over £13k a year but want to get a apartment in the next couple of months thinking about £500 pcm fully furnished and close to our jobs about 15mins drive from work. we obviously are gonna ...

Where can we go, where we don't have to spend money? Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (M - To simplify -this is a conversation I have ALOT with my girlfriend: ME: I don't feel like staying in the apartment tonight, let's go out someplace and do something. GF: I don't have any money. ME: We don't have to spend money - we can just...

Is my diet good for my general health, overall?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

1 October 2009 (F - hi there. ok well for about a year now i have been going without eating lunch everyday .and eventually got use to the routine of not eating until the evening. (due to work ) i moved in to a flat 4 months ago so when i get home from work i coul...

My busty wife is going to pose nude on the internet, any opinions?

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1 October 2009 (M - My wife very busty buxom 40DDD and she is going to pose nude for a site on the internet. Its not a hardcore site site , but it is a fully nude site. Its not the posing nude on the internet that bothers me, she can blur her face but i do not k...

Surprisingly old for a raver!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

1 October 2009 (M - I'm not attracted to women my own age, either socially or sexually. I'm a healthy, tall and well educated man, single but looking after two children who are now both teenagers and quite independent. Over the years relationships have tended to l...

Do you think a man who lies about watching porn will lie about other things?

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1 October 2009 (F - Do you think the man who lie about watching porn can lie about other things? I have never thought that my husband lie until I married him. We were in different country before we got married, I knew he was watching porn because he had no women ba...

Are any women actually trustworthy?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

1 October 2009 (M - I'm losing faith in humanity in general and myself in particular here. A little more than five weeks ago, my fiancée dumped me. I'm 25, she's 21, and we had been together for over 3 years, engaged for over one year. We were making good progress pl...

Is his financial irresponsibility a sign of things to come?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

1 October 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I have been through ups and downs. We just started semi-living together. We stay together 3-4 times a week. He lost his job a few months ago and is just getting by with the unemployment that he receives. In some ways, he is very ...

I dreamt I was getting married, what does this mean?

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1 October 2009 (F - Hey...its me again.lol.Well I have a quick question its probabaly a dumb one put yesterday I had a dream that I was getting married I don't know what this might mean do you guys have any idea what this dream might mean?? Thanks to whoever takes the ...

My mum has just been diagnosed with cancer but I'm supposed to be moving to Oz next month - I want to be there for my mum but I don't want to lose my boyfriend either!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

1 October 2009 (F - I would appreciate any advice.. My Mum was diagnosed with rectal cancer last week and has to undergo chemo and radiation therapy combined before an operation in January. She may have to have chemo afterwards too. This has all come as a massive ...

Am I right in my decision to try and start my life again?

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1 October 2009 (F - Hi,I need you guys advice for my relationship.Me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years.After 5 months dating we moved together and 2 years we moved to his country (puerto Rico).We met in United State(Arizona). I love him that's why I leave ...

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