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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Should I leave this job? I'm burned out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - I thank all who answer here. I am working in a high burnout field and and have been for a long time. lately I have been feeling near burn out as well. Trouble is, lately I have had co workers snapping at me as well and I do not know how much ...

How do you socialize and make friends? I feel hopeless.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

16 October 2009 (M) - I guess I don't understand - how do you socialize with people and make friends? It feels impossible. People don't want to be your friend, they've already got enough. They don't want to take a risk on you - you could be crazy or dangerous and they're ...

Why am I still obsessed after 12 years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - Please help, I feel like I am turning into an obsesive stalker. Background is I met this guy 12 years ago on holiday abroad when i were 18. He was my type initially but we just clicked straight away. I had never or since felt anything so stro...

Can anyone help answer questions I have on adoption? My fiance wants to adopt my child.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - Heya, Well basicly i'm in a very happy and loving relationship to my fiance. I have a child from a previous relationship whome he regards as his son, and we i'm 5 months pregnant with our second child. As I said, my fiance adores our one ye...

Golden Showers: I don't like it but my partner does!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - Okay so my problem is my Fiance likes peeing on me and to be honest I can't stand it as the smell just makes me want to gag, I just have this thing about urine to start with so I have tried it and every time now we even get close to having sex it ...

Any advice for living in Argentina?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

16 October 2009 (?) - i was wondering what i need to stay in argentina for a year or maybe more. i will be living with my boyfriend from argentina and i am 18. i may get a job but i think that i wont get one because it would be hard as i dont know spanish, but i will ...

Misreading women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

16 October 2009 (M) - I have a situation where a young lady has started to flirt with me (in an office environment at her workplace). She is very nice and it is light flirting. I have been going there for about 4 weeks and initially I did not pay much attention to her. ...

How do you know when someone is for you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - Hello guys, I have kind of a gerenal question. How do you know when someone is right for you/ the right love? I know you have to work for love but how hard. Are you suppose to work really hard or is that just a hint it's not the right love...

Men, when did you realise that your wife was the one you wanted to be with for the rest of your life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - To all married men out there, when did you realize that your wife was the one you wanted to marry? How long had you been seeing her before you guys got married and what kind of circumstance was it? Like were you friends first, were you high school ...

Is this harassment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - My ex broke up with me about 5 months ago. I found out he started dating a girl a week later and they are still together. I stopped all contacts and explained to him my reasons. He has been sending me emails which I do not respond to. I find the...

The romeo and Juliet situation sucks.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - It's been a while since I have been on DearCupid and things were going great with my boyfriend of 1yr5mo. until last month when his father became so wrapped up in believing that my family, financial situation, and myself ulitmately were not good ...

I'm madly in love with someone who lost intrest how do I win him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - Please help me with my "lovelife"!!! I really like this guy and I want to know how to get him to like me or even if I should try to win his heart... We flirted all school year but I didnt think he liked me so i gave up even though I really liked hi...

My girfriend is pregnant and treats me badly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

16 October 2009 (M) - what should i do? im 27 my girlfriend is 23 i've been with this girl 3 years. somedays are easy some are hard. for my birthday i always get a card and kiss and told i love you but thats it i always say " your not gonna say happy bithday " an...

What's the best way to ask if someone's single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

16 October 2009 (M) - Whats a good way to find out if a girl has a boyfriend? IS the best way to just ask? "are you single?" or is there a better way to ask that isnt so straight forward?...

Was being fingered last year making tampons hurt? I just cry...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - hi , i am 14 years old . and i have first got fingured last year , but recently i met this new boy , and he isnt dooing anything wrong . but it hurts . I cant even use Tampons , ii cry just trying . when ever my bf tries too figure me i make him ...