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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I had a little too much to drink at a party one night and ended up in one of the boys who lived there's bed. he moved away from home so left his girlfriend. we just kissed and i wouldnt go any further. he asked me if i wanted to see him again and we swapped numbers. he made it clear he doesnt want a relationship but asked me over his and we kissed alot, though i wouldnt go further when he tried. now hes askin me for advice on his ex telling me he loves her and she loves him but he doesnt want a relationship right now, i dont want to be some one he uses for sex but im not pushin for a relationship, i like him and believe that if i saw more of him i would end up liking him. do i leave him now incase he does get back with his ex? am i in my own right for feelin offended and upset that he asked me for advice and keeps braggin about how much his ex loves him and whether they wil get back together? should i leave before i get hurt or see how things go, im worried incase the foundations of our relationship are already set in his mind, that im there for a kiss and fiddle and nothing else.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 October 2009):
Yes, leave him well alone. He's using you as a comfort blanket while he waits for his ex to call him back. Don't let him to this to you, you're better than that. Tell him that you're not interested in him and let him go. Take your time getting over him, then find a guy who doesnt' go on about his ex and actually wants you. And well done for not giving into him as well. Be proud.
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