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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Should I call his bluff and take a chance on losing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - A very old friend has recently turned up again. We have known each other for years and he is a friend of my brothers. we have in the past had a kiss here and there and some flirting. Recently we have been talking alot and over the years have gotten ...

How is possible to make money by having an information website on a specific country?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - I maybe be dumb!, but I do have a question. How is possible to make money by having an informationa website on a specific country? My bf is saying he will make good $ by puting this website with info of the country we live in. He is a foreigner a...

Do you think my husband has noticed she is gorgeous?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - My husband and I are friends with another couple. He and the other guy hang out a lot but I know my husband and the guy's wife get along well, too. Problem is she is GORGEOUS. Like model-gorgeous. Fairly lean, big boobs, good legs and butt, clear ...

How do I help him to bring this relationship to the next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - My problem is that i am 33 but i look like 20.it is strange because every one wants to look younger as i do but the problem is that i can't the guy of my age to marry him.i am very beautiful,successful and educated woman.till now i didn't date any ...

I'm scared of the one I've fallen in love with and I hate it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend was extremely emotionally abusive (and occasionally physically abusive) for about 18 months. We both want to be together and he has been trying very hard to work through his personal trust and esteem issues that he blames for his ...

Is there anything I can do to rectify the broken rifts in my family and help them to be proud of me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - I'm sitting here right now in tears, needing someone's advice on my life. I'm wondering, have any of you ever felt like you've lost your way in life? That there was a path you should've chosen, but instead went way off into the dirt roads into ...

What do you consider the upper limit in physical contact with friends? I'm worried I might be too affectionate and lead people on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - Hi there Aunts! So this question definitely won't have just ONE answer, I'm interested in people's views. I would say that I can be a pretty affectionate person with friends I know well, and most of my friends are guys. I don't flirt with them ...

I'm having a confidence crisis, how can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - Good morning, Just a confidence issue here. This is nothing major but I really want to get to the bottom of this. When I was younger my dad used to shout and yell at me which used to intimidate me a little. As I grew older the imti...

If we spend a lot of time together but have never kissed, does this mean he has feelings for me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - If my friend and I go on trips together often, eat together also, just hang out a lot, but have never kissed, is he into me or not? He's never said he loves me, but, he always ask me to accompany him to places, to travel, etc...He's a pastor and I'm ...

I'm in love but I'm scared to tell her! Advice please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - Im in love with my girlfriend ive been with for 2 months. I have recently had fallen in love with her but im scared to tell her. We already had sexual relationship but besides that its been going perfect. We enjoy each and we miss and think about ...

How do I keep the door open for him in case he does agree to be in a casual relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - So there is a lot of details in this story but I will try to keep it short and only give the facts. - I am 25, He is 32. -I am not American and came to the US 2 years ago. HE is American. -I am not religious, he is practicing Irish Catholic. -...

I'm drowning at university, and feel like I don't have the strength to paddle

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - I am a senior in college and I just transferred to a new university. The semester started at the end of August so I am about 2 months into the term and it is not going well at all. Midterms have just ended and I have received most of my exam/essay ...

Is playing hard to get a good thing?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - ok what does a guy mean when he says "your playing hard to get"?is that a good thing?...

I need tips and Ideas ASAP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - I just got a few quick questions here and I would love it if you guy's help me out with this one, ok so it's a new school year new people new class, in one of my classes there is this girl I am interested in getting to know her and what not, I ...

Never been kissed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - My 13 year old friend hasn't had her first kiss yet, but all of her other friends have. She thinks there's something wrong with her. I want to help her but I dont know wat to say to help her understand its okay and that her time will come. When I ...

So hurt and Confused!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - My bf/ex (not sure yet) just found out that we were pregnant about a month ago. We have been arguing like crazy lately over stupid things. His actions and the way he acts around me have totally changed. (IE wont cuddle, talk, or do anything with me ...

I can't forget about his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have always had trust issues but we have seen we cannot live without each other,he had a gf while we broke up 2 months ago after being together for 13 months. I never ever expected him to get a gf,but he did and thought i wouldn't ...

I'm in love with my cousin! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - I have become more attached to my cousins over these past couple years. We see each other 3-4 times a year and over this past summer we saw each other a lot more than we usually do. We talk to each other everyday on the phone as much as we can and I ...

If someone likes you, what are all the signs to look for?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - If someone likes you, what are all the signs to look for?...

I had lots of sex without any protection and I'm worried I might be pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

14 October 2009 (?) - So me and my boyfriend (im 16 hes 18) have been together for about 4 months now. we have sex a lot, every weekend and sometimes during the week, and almost always more than once on these days. i am not on the pill and we dont use condoms, he just ...