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Archived questions from: 25 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Is there such thing as a good man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I just feel like I will never find the a guy that knows how to treat me. As I posted before I met this guy that I really liked and he ended up being my first. After the sex he seemed to lose interest in me. He pretended like he wanted to be with me ...

Respect for your boyfriend or bucking a culture trend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend seems to think that i don't respect him because i always have an opinion to everything he says.in our culture "men" get much more respect but i dont agree.could it be that im trying too hard to pass the message on to him?i feel so ...

I don't know how to make his family like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - My bf's family don't make me feel very welcome when I spend time with them. My bf can obviously see that me and his family don't really "connect" type of thing and this upsets him that I don't get along like as if I am part of their family. ...

I am ready for a relationship, but have I waited too long? And should I call him and re~establish coo

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I'm approaching my mid-twenties and I've never had a relationship. Sometimes, I wonder why I can't seem to get into a relationship, while most people my age are already married or committed to someone. I have just finished my master's degree ...

All work and no play, with no end in sight...

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25 October 2009 (M) - Hi friends, sorry but you'll need to read a bit long. Okay, I am 22 and I have a sister who is 24 and I have my mom-dad. We are living together. The main thing is all about my father. He never earned a penny and he never bought us any single thing ...

Dont know how else to slow it down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - hello everyone,I met a girl a few months ago and like her alot.I use to ring her everyday and she use to ring me the same. Before we went on holiday we had a talk about things thats on her mind and that she want to slow the relationship down a l...

How do you tell guys you don't like certain things about them without hurting their ego?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Well here's the thing. I am currently with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. He is about 11 years older than I am and I'm in my 20's. I am very happy with him he treats me better than most other guys but lately he's starting to be a bit controlling. ...

I am scared of potential legal action against me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - i am with this girl for 2 years and we are very close but i dont love her and are just friends... i want to tell u that the kissing was a mutual decision and i just let her touch on the surface of my pants on my private part.. i am 22 and the girl ...

Is he just being a show off or does he like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - This one guy I know is starting to confuse me. We are not very close, but I had a class with him last year and he wanted me to give him a random high five one time and seemed kind of mad when I talked to other guys. On the last day of school I went ...

Is this wrong for a Christian?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - Is my relationship with her wrong? So heres the thing. :) I'm 15. I've been told many times I'm extremely mature for my age. I've been best friends with her since we were 3. Every summer she's come and stayed with her family that lives here for ...

I can't stop thinking that our relationship is doomed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

25 October 2009 (?) - Hi I am a 21 year old who is terribly in love with the girl of my dreams. I constanly think life will find a way of taking us apart and there is no chance in hell we can be together thoughts like these hurt me alot and I tell my Girlfriend ...

I wear the pants....But if I don't he sure as heck wont!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Hi all. My name is Lea and I am a 20 year old newly wed. I am really confused about my husband at the moment, and to be honest alot lately. I am really independant outside of a relationship. I took care of two parents pretty much my whole life wh...

My husband slapped me and left for the titty bar!

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25 October 2009 (F) - How can I finally say I am done My husband has a drinking problem and addicted to pornografy. Today he slap me and left to a adult entertaiment I know because I call him he was there...

I have feelings for my best friend's girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5305 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - I have this best friend who i have known for quite a long time actually we're so close that it is like we're siblings,at first i thought that i just treated her as my friend and nothing more but now she has problems with her boyfriend who also ...

Am I straight, gay or bisexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5306 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - I have always seen myself as straight but recently (starting a year or two ago) I been more comfortable around men than women. Like if I were to hug a women or a man I would choose the man. I decided to explore my sexuality so I kissed a man. It was ...

A little humor, en peut d'humour

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25 October 2009 (F) - This has nothing to do with relationships, but everyone loves a little humor! I adore this video, and it cracks me up in spite of the fact that my French is really bad (I'm trying to improve it). I finally found a version with English sub...

There simply is no answer to the question “Now what?”

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - I have no direction in life; none. There simply is no answer to the question “Now what?” I’m unhappy, tired and demoralized. I want to change in so many ways. I know I’m not alone as I’ve read this same story over and over in the DearCupid ar...

Differences

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25 October 2009 (M) - Heres my problem, my girlfriend and I have been dating for many many years. We get along great, hardly ever fight. We share similiar values, religious, and political views. The commonalities end there. We don't like to do anything the other person ...

We are planning on losing our virginity together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - hey all my girlfriend and i are planning on having sex soon, it will be the first time for both of us. what are some recommended positions for first time, aside from standard missionary which will make it fun and enjoyable?...

I want to know how people feel about dating your cousin's cousin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Hello I'm a fourteen year old girl and I want to know how people feel about dating your cousins cousin. I'm currently dating my moms sisters husbands brothers son and I'm really starting to fall for him. I know there's no blood relation but is it ...

Is masterbating once a day too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - Hello everyone :) i have a question about masturbation. I am a 17 year old lad and i find myself masturbating at least once a day. I usually jus turn my pc on download some transexual porn and have a wank, i was jus wondering if wanking at least ...

Will he gets what's due to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - i actually stayed w/ someone who was so abusive to me. he tried strangling me about 5 times all together. how could i do that to me. it just has sunk me in a pit i'll never get out of. i don't feel anything toward men anymore. no one catches ...

Is an hour for sex too long?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - Sex with my fiance' usually lasts 45 min to an hour. She complains that it takes me too long, but i have "trained myself" to last like this, and now its difficult to have an orgasm in a hurry (less than 15 min). She complains about it, but I though...

What should I do? I really want to be with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Hi everyone...im back...well what can i say..this past tuesday i spoke with the professor...she n i was flirting back and forth..she is really cool with my friend but that day when she left the room she walkd with me and started asking me how i m ...