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Archived questions from: 12 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Why did he break his silence? Why is he pretending nothing ever happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I met someone quite frankly five years ago. And from that day I have always liked him. It wasn't a strong feeling, but I was attracted to him and have been attracted to him from that first day. Throughout that time that I have seen him in scho...

Is this relationship appropriate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Is is appropriate for an adult friend of my husband to be pals with my son who is 7? They play and sometimes email funny stuff. He asks my son questions about me sometimes. ...

Is he an alcoholic? And if he is, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - hi I am worried about my bf of two years. He drinks alcohol alot but I don't know whether I should class him as an addict. sometimes he'll go for weeks without drinking but others he drinks every night of the week and even when he has hardly ...

What do I do about my controlling mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - ok i have been having problems with my mom lately and this is the full story......... my dad and her split up about 8 years ago because she had invited 3 men home when he had gone to play for a christmas party (he is a musician) and she told me ...

Is it normal for me to question the future of our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 months and he's already talking about how he wants to be with me forever and how I'm the only one for him. We're both each other's first relationship and we're young (17), but I feel our relationship is ...

Is my girlfriend a little too friendly with her brother?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - I was just out with my girlfriend and her brother the other day. Her brother is homeschooled and a pretty physically friendly guy, but the other day when we were walking around, he had his arm around her a good part of the day, even when I had my ...

Should I take full custody of my two year old brother?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I have a 2 year old brother that I have Temp. custody of. I am 18 myself....I'm getting a job, he has medicaid, and I'm going to be going to school online at some point in the future. I want full custody of my brother because my mother is a horrible ...

I started having an affair due to long distance. How can I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi, I am in such a mess and really need help. I live with my partner of 3 years. 2 years ago he left me to go to Australia for a year, we decided during this time we would have an open relationship because we are both realists and know a yea...

My guy seems turned out about hearing my sexual past. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Is it ever a good idea to give details of your sexual experiences???? My boyfriend is turned on by listening to the details. Is this normal??? Also, to his credit, he is never jealous or angry. Just turned on....

How can I gain a guy's respect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - How do you gain a guy's respect? I just want to know, seeing as many people have different opinions......

Should I change myself in order to win him over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - i'm 16. i'm a normal high school student, well i'm not that normal, i look kinda emo and goth, wear lots of eyeliner, i always wear black, and sometimes i could be annoying. ok so i like this guy for about a year now, he's really cool, and i like ...

Is my depression the reason why I feel our relationship is going sour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I think im depressed and my bf isn't taking me seriously. he says that its all in my head and i need to just forget about things. problem is i can't...and isn't depression medical aswell...i know a bit about it and have read up on symptoms and ...

Is this love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi all! Really sorry about the rambling to come; if you don't like long questions, it's best to stop now! Well, lets start with the basics: I'm 20, I have (in my opinion) the best bf in the world whom I met in county badminton and at the moment I;...

Why can't I meet a guy who likes small breasts?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I have small breasts, and as it is known, *most* guys like big breasts better. Some like small, but I have yet to meet one of those! Most guys just settle for small chested women. Like Salma Hayek is hot because of her big boobs, but Kate Hudson is ...

I'm in love with his best friend, so what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - hello, i am having a little bit of trouble.. i am going out with someone, but there is someone else i love, who is my boyfriend's best friend. i dont know what to do! i meen, i sort of love the person im going out with now, but i like the other g...

Does every woman have the ability to have a g spot orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has recently taken a turn down a path of simply stressing me out and making me feel bad because I have never had one. He has said and done things to make sex not fun (that to have sex with me is like having sex with a doll or ...

What should I do so he won't get jealous of this other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I have 2 long distance friends with whom I keep in touch,but more often with one than the other b/c I really have feelings for him and the other I just see as a friend. The thing is that my crush is a little jealous whenever I mention I have male ...

What do women want in a man? Women are so complicated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - 12 October 2009: What woman wants in a man? when i was with my girlfriend, i used to love her like hell ....sometimes i used to struggle to find out that what would make her happy being with me. sometimes my wacky sense of humor would leave her ...

What do good guys look for in a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - How do I attract good guys, I dont know what I am doing but I always seem to attract bad guys. Lots of people think that I want bad guys but the truth is I dont notice their bad behavior til later on and I do leave always. So my question is if I did ...

Is there a dodgy underground sex trade?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - this is gonna sound like a weird question but does anyone know if there are any working girls who cater to very weird or risky fetishes-such as unprotected anal sex or scatophilia-the reason I ask is because I know someone who was threatened by a ...

Are we heading into rocky territory by texting each other so frequently? I have never had a friend of the opposite sex I was this close to!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been very close friends with another couple for years. We spend holidays together, birthdays together, take vacations together, etc. My husband and the girl are very much like brother and sister and have had this relationship ...

Why has he all of a sudden started to ignore me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hope you can help me out because im so messed up. A guy mate of mine has always been a bit strange with me. All throughout college we didnt talk much because people used to say stuff about us and they didnt like us being friends(a girl in particular ...

I'm having major confidence problems at school and I get upset over the slightest thing!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I have confidence problems at school, all the time I feel paranoid about my figure and If I look ok, what people are thinking about, if it's about me, If someone has said something about me. I feel like I don't fit in and it's making me hate school, ...

I'm becoming increasingly concerned about my brother and husband spending too much time together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I've recently become concerned about my brother and my husband. They're spending too much time together, and they've also keep going to Wisconsin quite frequently, which is strange considering we have no friends/family up there, and the fact we ...

I'm petrified my past is going to come back to haunt me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Im 26 and just recently have turned my life around. From 21-25 I was heavily into drugs and partying non-stop. I done some things I regret. I know everyone does silly things that they regret when they are young but I cant seem to stop thinking about ...

How do I tell the father of my baby that I want us to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi, Im 26 and Im pregnant by someone who I was just seeing for a few months, nothing serious. It was a mistake - I was taking the contraceptive pill although had missed a lot. I did not want the pregnancy at first however he said he was really happy ...

I've met someone but I cant stop thinking about my holiday romance!

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12 October 2009 (F) - Hi I met a guy on holiday and we really hit it off. I've never met anyone like him before we were like best friends and more. We said when I go back over there for uni we would get together and that we would see each other on holidays and he would ...

How can I help my mum? I think she has an alcohol problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I'm 23, in a good job, enjoying life in general. I've become concerned about my mum lately, as recently she's began drinking a lot of alcohol, and several times tried to start the car before my dad has physically stopped her from getting in. I...

Does loving someone change the way sex feels?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi all, To the men out there, this is one I hope you can help with, although I'd of course like the ladies' opinions too. I have been dating a man for over a year now and have always known that he was sexually much more experienced than I am....

Does my girlfriend's friend fancy me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my current girlfriend for about 6 years now and although we are happy i keep getting mixed feelings about her friend. Her friend has a boyfriend who i am starting to get on with really well and although i have ...

Will a long distance relationship work for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I have fallen in love with a 20 year old man from America and my problem is i AM 27, have a child and i AM living in England We talk every night sing talk on the phone and tell each other how much we love each other We haven't met yet and i wish i...

How can I get this apartment rented??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My problem is that I am probably about to be kicked out of my apartment because my boyfriend and I can't afford the bills anymore. When we first signed the lease, we were both working full-time and I was going to school (still am, but working ...

Did I say all the right things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I mentioned to my ex about reconciling..he said he can't just jump back into things which is fine..and also that we'll talk on the phone and then meet...its been almost 2 months of talking which is fine but i'm getting nervous about what if he loses ...

Troubled girlfriend looking for a way to make my boyfriend realize what he's got before it's gone...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is going through a divorce, but still talks to his ex ALL the time. They have a daughter together, so I understand them having to talk some, but not about how eachother's day went, etc. He is constantly texting when he is with me, but ...

I am in love with my ex-teacher in highschool, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - I am in love with someone which is possibly a huge plus. A problem with this love is its for my ex teacher from high school. I am now in college and have known him for three years. He has no clue, but i think he sees us as friends or at least more ...

I think he likes me...and so do my friends...so why hasn't he asked me out?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I am horrible at these kinds of things...never really had any relationships in HS, had 2 in college so yeah...Im pretty much new to all this. I think he likes me...and so do my friends...so why hasn't he asked me out??? He... -Pokes me (...

I am confused and am unsure how I should continue with my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I don't know if I should get a divorce. At this time my husband is not living at home. I made him leave a few weeks ago after a drunken rage caused him to threaten me and his boys. He is an alcoholic and relapsed. I have been dealing with this ...

Am I just being paraniod?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - AM I JUST PARANOID? well my boyfriend an I are having problems because of this girl named Amanda, when I come to think about the 'breaks' we took away from each other it didn't really take him a week to go to another girl's house.. I'm really c...

Vicious Cycles of personality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for quite awhile. In that time we've been evolving and had our ups and downs as any couple have. We split up for a couple of months this summer, and then got back together, and I've since started realizing where the ...

Is it jeolousy or is it her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - My girlfriend I have been together over 4 years. We were planning to get married this december, but we had been having some arguments/differences, and I had started to have some serious trust issues with her. She started to hang out with a single ...

I like my ex's friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - Ok so me and my ex broke up bout 5 months ago.ended pretty bad, we were together bout 3 months.not long at all right, but i happen to like one of her friends that's in my class.she's not her best friends but one of her good friends . I kinda think ...