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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I think my mum touched me inappropriately am I wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I am slightly disturbed by something my Mum just did. I am 33 years old and my Mum is in her late 50s. I hugged my Mum and thanked her for being so supportive of me during some really difficult times at work. As I hugged her, her hand slowly got ...

What does he mean by the fact that he thinks I'm boring?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - What does it mean when a guy says your boring? is sexually or he just doesnt have any else to say? and how do i become less boring?...

How can I make him feel appreciated and cared for without having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Hi I recently met a guy and we went out a 3 times. I asked him if he is interested and he said yes. He asked me the same and I answered yes. He told me that I did not show him that. I was surprised becuase I thought I had showed him enough. ...

What do older women see in young guys?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I'm really struggling with this concept. I go on another chat forum and there's an 'older' woman in her 50's that sleeps with loads of blokes. She's married, her husband knows she sleeps about. But the bit I find strange is that she sleeps with ...

How can I get over my shyness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (M) - How do I increase my self-confidence? I was valedictorian of my high school and captain of the football team, but I can't help feeling like I'm a huge loser. I mean, I've never been on a date, never had a girlfriend, didn't go to prom, never held ...

Should I keep trying to befriend this girl?

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7 October 2009 (M) - There is this girl that i want to befriend,but she keeps on giving me excuses which are firstly that her family is too strict on her and doesnt what her to have a boy friend,we went further to discuss,she told me that she has many guy asking to be ...

My girlfriend wants kids, but I don't think I do. How can we get through this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

7 October 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for almost three years now. I'm almost 28 and have two kids, 6-8 from a previous marriage. What is preventing our relationship from progressing is that I have had a vasectomy and am not really sure if I'm going to wan...

I feel pushed away by her busy schedule. Is there anything I can do?

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7 October 2009 (M) - my girlfriend is slowly losing time for me because she has a million and one things to do. What do I do? I feel pushed away. Mentioning it will just cause arguements because it's not something she can help. ...

How do I let him know I'm ready to lose my virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - ok well me and this guy have been seeing each other for about 4-5 months...he hasnt tried to kiss me ... he used to talk about sex but now he isnt. i dont know if i should break it off with him or what. i like him a lot and he says the same about ...

Will he choose me or her? Can he be trusted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - me and my now long distance bf had just broken up a few weeks ago, when it first happened we'd decided to be friends. then later i told him how much i missed him (i broke up with him) and he agreed that he missed me too, and we both still loved each ...

Was I in the right for asking him to end a friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - i was recently really uncomfortable with my boyfriend spending time alone with one of his friends who happens to be a girl. she constantly asks him out, and he always has to be alone when he sees her, either watching romance movies, going out late ...

Can a big move somehow get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I'm not sure if I'm stalking my ex or if I am taking proactive steps to get him back. I mean surely its OK to want your ex back and to try to do things to make that happen? But what if the things you had to do were really really massive and the ...

What does he want out of this relationship? Is he even taking it seriously?

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7 October 2009 (F) - hey aunts!!!...im not sure if im young, naive, or what but im really anxious to know how this guy feels about us...i posted a question on "how serious i should take when a guy tells me we're not having sex but making love" and i got some excellent ...

Does he even care that I've moved out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Hello My b/f and I are going through a very hard time right nw. I have recently moved my things out and is living with a friend. I need him to show me effort and that he cares and loves me. Then I will consider moving back. He seem to...

I look great now - is that the only reason he wants to be with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Hello, I'd love to hear your opinions. I'm 37 and have been divorced 5 years with three great kids. Since my divorce my self esteem has been pretty low and I ended up putting on 3 stone in weight. Two years ago I became friends with a man 8 years ...

Could a woman please translate what she's telling me here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for about 9 months and have grown to love her alot. We are opposites in some ways ( I'm a yuppie. She's a hippie) but our core values are the same. We both adore animals. We both love cooking and baking. We both see ...

Am I normal? Is he the one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I have been my bf for 5 years. However sex just doesn't turn me on! Reading romance novels, thinking of the process of sex, get me going.. But sex itself.. I feel not much- AM I normal? or maybe he's just not for me?...

Would he be offended if I just bonk him and creep away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I met a man online about 6 weeks ago and we have been texting ever since every day morning noon and night. We are meeting up next week but he lives 2 hours away. I need to know what would be the most sensible meeting arrangements. If he comes all ...

He had sex with my ex-friend - how can I get over my insecurities about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I'd just like someone to help me figure out why I have such a problem with this. I'm 17 years old, almost 18 and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend (19, almost 20) for over a year now. This is my first proper relationship and he's the ...

He wont commit but he wont back off either - could someone explain?

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7 October 2009 (F) - im going to try and explain my situation as well as i can i had been seeing someone for a year. for the first three months i did not even call him because i did not want to end up where i have now, fallen and heartbroken. he called me all th...

His 'jokes' keep striking a nerve - what do I say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Last night, my boyfriend and I were talking on the phone. I said hold on, and when I came back, I made my voice deeper to sound like a guy on purpose. We laughed it off, and he said, "Oh yea, like I'll fall for that." I kept going along, "Yes, can't ...

We are at a standstill. Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

7 October 2009 (M) - Me and my 24 year-old girlfriend have been dating for 3 years. We have now reached a point where I want us to get our own place together, but she still wants to stay at her parents' place. Last year she said if I got my place first then she w...

How can I find out everything I need to know about this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Hallo everyone I hope you can help me out on this one because I'm lost and yet in love. It goes like, I met this man 39 last year, he works in Canada so he visits every 3 or 4 months. So more like a distant relationship. I'm a single mum and h...

Is being attracted to a different race wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

7 October 2009 (M) - im 13 and i wondering if youre this race and your more attracted to a different race, is it wrong? like a chinease but im latino. help...

I just found out he was released a week ago and I'm scared!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I'm 33 yr old single mother of 3 boys.I been threw 7 yrs of a bad marriage divorced 10 yrs now.It made me stronge and cold. My problem is i dated a guy for 3 yrs,we broke up and he went nuts.One nite he went crazy trying to find me back and forth he ...

How do I get my boyfriend to propose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - I am 22 years old and i have been in a relationship with my 25 boyfriend for almost 5years what can i do to try and get him to propose. we always talk about the future, but i dont think that he is going to propose at least no tome in the near ...

Anyone with experience in the U.S. Navy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

7 October 2009 (F) - Well I'm considering joining the U.S. Navy. I think what I'm worried about most is that I'm 25. I know it's not OLD but it feels like it is to just be getting into that line of work. I sometimes feel like I have a lack of fulfillment in my life I ...