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writes:When a man is aroused by a sex scene in a movie or a porno, is it because of the amazing beauty of the individual woman or the act of sex itself? Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): I can't speak for the men, but for me it's both. The amazing beauty of a soft curvy body and then add the act of sex with that body... definitely both
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Often both, if you watch a sex scene with two really ugly people you may think yuuuk! Its normal to be aroused by sex on tv me and hubbie have often watched something with a particularly powerful sex scene and then jumped on each other x
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Yes, yes, yes, Yes, Oh My God and YES!
Sorry, I got carried away with myself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008): I'd say both.
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (8 September 2008):
My boyfriend says its the act of sex and that he doesn't know why.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008): I don't need any sex at all to be aroused by a beautiful woman in a movie, although the sex does help. For me, it is more the woman than the sex. Just seeing the woman in some sexy clothing will do it. I would rather see a fully clothed sexy woman in public than some porn. If she is someone who I could just talk with for a while then it would be much better than seeing some hot porn actress getting screwed.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Well, I respect Replacement's opinion, but seeing pretty women is not dull :-). Seeing women, pretty or not, isn't :-).
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reader, Replacement +, writes (8 September 2008):
 The sex itself is infinitely more exciting to me. Beautiful women roam everywhere, seeing them is dull, not exciting. Watching people have sex makes us think of how much we like having sex, and what kind of sex would we be having, were we in a place to be doing so. It sparks the imagination, and the fantasies about our own sex lives. For me, an arousing scene in a movie (as I don't watch porn) makes me think of the last time, or the next time, I will get to have sex with my girlfriend, what position, what room of the house, etc, etc.
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reader, placebo_mad +, writes (7 September 2008):
its the actual sex. and the thought that they could be there having sex. Obviously a lot of guys won't get turned on if it was an 80 year old in the sex scene or if it was a 50 stone woman but the thought of them having sex turns them on. guys are pretty basic when it comes to sex and porn. thats why women don't find it such a turn on. all they need is visual as there imagination isn't as great. this doesn't apply to all men but to a lot of them. if your boyfriend or partner has been getting turned on by films don't worry, its not because your not turning him on, its just because he couldn't sit there thinking of you naked to turn him on as he hasn't got the brains!!!
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (7 September 2008):
When you watch a movie, or when you make love, you can be aroused by either the beauty or the act of sex itself, or, some great times, by both. I would say, however, that, if you had to choose one, the act itself would be more arousing. It's no use to be beautiful if you don't know what to do with your body.
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