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writes:Hey aunts and uncles im 11 and lately i have been really into sex and i want to have sex really bad. Any ideas on how to stop this feeling? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2008): When I was 11 I was In the same situation as you. I knew I was to young, I waited till I was untill a couple of weeks ago when I turned 15. I think you should definatly wait till you are 14 or 15. At 11 you
Might regret what you do, you might regret it or you might not. Well do what you feel is right. But I would just wait awhile. So when you feel you are ready just go for it
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reader, kim 18  +, writes (10 September 2008):
 hey its normal to think about sex but u shouldnt rush into it ur only 11 and that really is to young to be going out and having it u should wait untill u are abit older and understand wot u will be giving up and who to u dont want to do something that u may wish u hadnt latter think about this abit more hunny x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): Dear PosterI have two sons, one 14 and 20; I have given them the same advise that I am going to give you now. So trust me it is from my heart.You should not consider having sex yet; not at least for the next couple of years;BUTI do understand:Your body is developing and with that also your reproductive organs.There is so much information that I would like to share with you but I cannot possibly post it all here;I suggest you get a few good books; one that came to mind is: "How sex works" by Elizabet Denwick and Richard Walker; this book was written specially for teenagers; it is very good, lots of info and very liberal.Masturbation is a very "safe" sexual release for you at this age and can do no harm.I do suggest you read more about the human anatomy ( how the body works); the reproductive organs; puberty and hormone; get to know more about how sex works and prepare yourself with knowledge. Get to know your body, enhance your knowledge and in years to come you will have lots of time to put your knowledge to practice.Best wishes.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (10 September 2008):
 i agree with what everyone has said. it is your hormones that are acting crazy. you're body is changing and this is all normal. What's not normal is to act upon it. 11 is way too young to lose your virginity. You're emotions/mind need to catch up with your body before you should consider having sex.
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reader, Playboy  +, writes (10 September 2008):
What influenced u to be interested in sex at 11?
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (10 September 2008):
 As Annalisa has said, it is a normal reaction to the hormones your body is adjusting to. I have 7 brothers, all of them experiencing the same reaction. Most of them kept it under control by learning more about sex, and, well, masterbating. Hate to say it, sounds awful to have an 11 year old masterbating, but it is a safe, private way to keep these strong desires for sex under control. It is very much so not time for you to have the real experience. I say this because sex is a very complex thing which requires a whole lot of knowlage and maturity. I don't mean "knowlage" in the sence of "how to do it", I mean it in a sence of "action and consiquence". Sex will lead to a lot of life damaging consiquences if you don't know enough about it, and NO 11 year old knows enough about it. So, if you must, explore your body in private (and in moderation) and otherwise keep your mind occupied on school, sports, friends and family.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (10 September 2008):
 DIY? Just be careful hun. My brother is 26 now, but he was thinking like you at your age and became a father just before he turned 15! Please be careful.
Its against the law and can lead to allsorts of problems if you cross the line. My brothers girlfriend was a year or so older than him and nearly faced prosecution. I dont know how she got away with it to be honest! He is paying a lot of maintenance each month for an 11 yr old daughter, and he is only just 26!
C xxxxx
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