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Should I tell my college professor I love him??

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Question - (27 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm in love with my college professor, I'm 28 and he has to be like close to 50. I don't know what to do, and sometimes I think he likes me too. Should I tell him?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008):

Well, I am 20 and dating my 45 year old Spanish professor. I sometimes worry about the age difference-my family doesn't know and I dread having to tell them someday if this lasts.

We've been dating for 3 months now... during the spring semester. It just ended, so we're in the clear, he can't get in trouble anymore.

It's really the best relationship I've ever had, and I encourage you to tell him how you feel AFTER school is not in session.

Now that I look back, it wasn't a wise decision on either of our parts to be together during the semester.

Who cares about the age difference? People say you can't have anything in common, but that is NOT true at all.

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A female reader, wildorangecat United States +, writes (21 April 2008):

Over the summer I dated my professor and I really liked him and we got along really well. We have amazing chemistry. When school began we both decided it was best we put our affair on hold. A couple of weeks later he became ice cold; just a completely different person. I dreaded seeing him. I would recommend to wait until you are no longer a student. In the mean time, flirt and talk with him but no more. Age is only a mind set.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008):

Your're a 28 year old mature student, and you fancy your 50 year old college professor. I think you are both old enough to handle the situation. Ask him out for a date. You go out have a laugh, you like each other, you decide to see each other. He acts professionally and doesn't mark your work or has someone else co-assess it. What really is the problem? If anyone objects tell them to get a life, as for a disaplinary situation...28/50, oh come on it's 2008!

50 year old university professor.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (28 February 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntI work at a major university here in North Carolina. Last year a Chemistry professor was fired for getting involved with a student. Do him a favor and love him from afar.

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