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We both love each other, but is love enough? I'm worried about jobs.

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Question - (26 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2008)
A female Australia age 41-50, *weetsorrowsue writes:

I Have a long distance realtionship. We both love eacho ther. I'm crazy for him and i'm sure he does too. The only problem is that he has a better chances for the future for good jobs. For me i may just be working out in a supermarket again. One night i told him in person (face to face) that i feel i may let him and his family down, because i dont feel i'm good enough for him in the future. Then we decided to end this and become friends. A week gone past he wanted me to give him another chance. But how can i if love may not even be enough for him. I'm sick right now and can't think straight, and can't eat. We both love eachother, but is love enough?

We're both confused. Just wanted what's best for the future. Please help me...

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A female reader, jaq Ireland +, writes (3 March 2008):

jaq agony auntlove is all that matters here just u and him,

the clothes you wear the work you do the way you act all make you you if he wants you he is obviosly taken you for you youll be with him not his family or friends

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008):

Stop worrying about where or how you work!! It is all money coming in and if you love someone then you will get by. I know getting by isnt like being wealthy but as long as you pay your rent and essential bills a have some left over for food then you will be ok. Honestly, i brought up my son with very little cash so you two can do it. Dont ever think you are not good enough for a person. You are you, so hold your head up high and give that bloke some good loving.

take care

xx

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A female reader, jenna34 United States +, writes (26 February 2008):

I think there is something more to this story.

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2008):

hello1 agony auntWait, you ended a relationship because you work in a supermarket? My mum works in a supermarket, this girl she knows at work has finished uni but decided to stay because it's easier and less hassle there. There's diffrent jobs for diffrent people out there, we wouldn't be able to function if people started thinking, Oh I'm too ashamed to do that! Guess what, no one will make a big deal out of this unless you are, be proud of what you are. Who cares if you work in a supermarket?

STUPID reason to end a relationship

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