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We spend less time together and our relationship has become "too convenient," according to her! Is it normal?

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Question - (28 February 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2008)
A male United States age 51-59, *ust_me_in_love writes:

I am 6 months into a fantastic relationship. Started off intense and fast. We were pretty much together 24/7 from day one. (except work)It has cooled off into a normal relationship.

She used to constantly show me physically and verbally how much she loved me. Now she doesn't show me hardly at all, although her life and work schedule has changed a lot, which makes her exhausted all the time. I know she still loves me and cares about me deeply, but I miss her showing it both physically and verbally. She says that the early part of the relationship has kinda made it too "convenient" for her to be with me, and she wants to "chase" me a little.

We have started to spend less time together, and I really miss the time with her and the affection. How can I get past this.

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A male reader, Just_me_in_love United States +, writes (28 February 2008):

Just_me_in_love is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks....even with the dart at the end....it helped a lot.

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (28 February 2008):

O Connor agony auntwell wat you have to understand is that the first while of a new relationship is the time wen you cant keep your hands off eachother - and wen you keep telling him/her that. now that the relationship has got a little more comfortable - its not necessary to be constantly all over eachother and reassuring eachother how you feel. you miss the attention - something which is only a fragment of a great relationship. she shouldnt have to constantly reassure you how she feels for you to know it. your past that. and the fact that you spend less time together - thats completely normal. be happy that you are in a comfortable trusting relationship and stop crying out for the attention and affection. focus on the better points of it now that you are in a committed relationship with her, and respect the fact that she may not want to baby you 24/7

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