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*msieee(:
writes:it's hard to how to explain what i need to, theres this guy and basically i don't know if he likes me. he told me something only him and his parents know not even his best friends know so why me? and he cancelled seeing his brother in amsterdam to come to my birthday also he was aware that i set the party up in couples and still came personally i would not go because i would feel awkward if i didn't like the person in that way. my friends also said he would not take his eyes of me he also lingered at the end of the drive when i was saying goodbye and it seemed he was almost waiting for something. . . i was in a mood yesterday and i asked him about him knowing about couple thing and he said oh i denied i didn't know what it was about because some one was there who coulden't hear. i told him i invited him as a friend he was quiet for bout 5 minutes then said i know. ever since he's been weird he even told me to be quiet beause he has "issues" to sort out! he never does that..so my friend rang him because i was too afraid to hear myself get rejected and i was on the other line listening and basically he admitted that he liked me and has since 2006 but because of rumours and hassle we got in our previous relationship he doesent want to say anything but my friend told him to tell me. so he said in 2 and a half weeks when he has had a think he will speak to me about it what do you think he's going to say and what shall i ? please help
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reader, Amsieee(: +, writes (19 July 2008):
Amsieee(: is verified as being by the original poster of the question i do i mean ive loved him for 3 years i dont know though i think he will say he likes me but doesent want realationshipp i just dont know...i love him im not sure what to do
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (19 July 2008):
 I'm sure he likes you and when he chooses to tell you he will. As to what you say back? Well, that's pretty easy... do you like him or no? Don't toy around with him, be straight with him. If you like him, give a relationship a try. If you don't like him, tell him SOON so that he doesn't work up all this nerve to confess his feelings to you and then get shot down. That can hurt a fella pretty bad. If you like him as a friend, make it very clear that friendship is all you want from him. But if you want a relationship, there is no need to be shy!! Go for it, girl.
xx India
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