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writes:My girlfriend has gone to vacation. I asked her to contact me when she arrived. She text me 2 days ago telling she is safe.Today, I called and text her few times. She didn't call back or even reply to the text. At this hour, she must already slept.She should had saw those missed calls and texts.I forced myself to accept it is ok for her not to answer the call. Maybe her friends are around and she is not free to talk.I couldn't get myself a reason she didn't reply my text.Since we met, we contact each other at least once. This is the first time we didn't talk to each other the whole day.I know she is fine because I can still called her. She just won't answer or call back.If I am going to vacation, I am sure to call or text her at least once a day because I miss herHer action telling me she doesn't miss me and there is no reason you won't miss the one you loved when you are away.It comes to me, she doesn't love me and she might cheat on me during her vacation. Yes, she decided to go vacation in a sudden. It should have something planned but she just suddenly told me she is going to vacation.What should I do? Should I call her again tomorrow?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008): I tried to reach her because I missed her. It is not that I am trying to become a psycho-bf.
If she really can't talk at least she can reply to the text. It won't take much time, maybe just a minute or two.
Whatever it is, I just hope she is having too much fun that she forget about me. That is so much better than she cheat.
Anyway, thanks for the advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008): Okay,I cant say I completley understand your side but ive been the other person if you know what I mean.. like my boyfriend would always call when I went away for a day or two ,but i would purposly not answer..Like i would see his text and missed calls but i would just look at my phone and throw it back in my purse,I think its cause i wasnt worried as much as he did ,i didnt consider his feelings.Like i didnt stop and think,"oh maybe he worried that somthing happened." to me i was always wondering Why? why is he calling?? and it honestly bugged me and got me in a bad mood but i eventually forgot about it cause i was having way too much funn... But then i remembered, See my boyfriend wasnt dumb he knew me well enough, So he didnt call the next day...I was surpirsed! ha he had me worried! like i was so used to seeing his missed calls or texts and one day..Nothing!! So i called him, and guess what..no answer.I was so Furious,i was worried and all of that ..I knew Karma had alot to do with it,So from now on i answer his calls and texts...you should try the same ,it'll give her a reality check.or maybe it just depends on what type of girl she is...You'll see ,it wouldnt hurt to try..
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008): Okay,I cant say I completley understand your side but ive been the other person if you know what I mean.. like my boyfriend would always call when I went away for a day or two ,but i would purposly not answer..Like i would see his text and missed calls but i would just look at my phone and throw it back in my purse,I think its cause i wasnt worried as much as he did ,i didnt consider his feelings.Like i didnt stop and think,"oh maybe he worried that somthing happened." to me i was always wondering Why? why is he calling?? and it honestly bugged me and got me in a bad mood but i eventually forgot about it cause i was having way too much funn... But then i remembered, See my boyfriend wasnt dumb he knew me well enough, So he didnt call the next day...I was surpirsed! ha he had me worried! like i was so used to seeing his missed calls or texts and one day..Nothing!! So i called him, and guess what..no answer.I was so Furious,i was worried and all of that ..I knew Karma had alot to do with it,So from now on i answer his calls and texts...you should try the same ,it'll give her a reality check.or maybe it just depends on what type of girl she is...You'll see ,it wouldnt hurt to try..
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