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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I think my girlfriend of 6 months ( were both 18) is going to breakup with me soon but she claims she doesnt want to. I dont know if this girl is a person who is good for me. I feel like I love her and she claims the same about me but she just makes me feel bad about myself. She lost her virginity to me but shes been physical with other guys in the past. One of my good friends fingered her and made out with her before we ever got together. I feel sick everytime I think aobut her doing that. One time while we were having sex she said I wasnt " big enough" and then later on claimed it was a joke. Also she just told me that we are going to stop having sex for several months. She always talks about how hot other guys are and I know she doesnt think im an above average looking guy. My girlfriend also had lied to me on multiple occasions saying she was having her period when she wasnt so we wouldnt have sex. From what Ive told you do you think I should just ditch this girl, because im 50-50 she makes me feel so bad about myself but I also like her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008): I am very sad to see how some women treat guys like that, she is doing to you what many men to to many women, play with your self-esteem. Respect is everything in a relationship, and if there is no respect that is psycological abuse, she doesnt deserve you because it clearly shows that you care about her a lot, she doesn't deserve that caring, so if she claims that she wants to break up with you, make it real, break up with her, the world is full of nice girls
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (19 July 2008):
 Frank B Kermit is right. Ditch her before she ditches you.
Other men are welcome to this shallow little girl my dear.
Find a nice young lady who is loving, faithful and does not belittle you.
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reader, saltwater +, writes (19 July 2008):
 Everything Frank says.
Find someone who you share a bond with; emotionally and sexually.
Because it certainly isn't with this girl.
You deserve better!!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (19 July 2008):
 No doubt about it. She wants the relationship to end, but she want YOU to take the responsibility of ending it, so she is doing things to push you away.
Why would you stay in such an emotionally abusive relationship like this? Love is not enough. For a man, love is nothing without RESPECT.
As of now start seeing and dating other women.
-Frank B Kermit
www.franktalks.com
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