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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I met someone online about six months ago. we live in different cities (few thousand miles apart). he visits my city for work every 2 mths or so. i finally agreed to meet him for drinks. i liked him. i had no clue what he thought but he called two days later, agreed to go out for dinner with some friends. i suggested he come out to my house after dinner since i live outside of town in the country. first he seemed pretty happy about it. but when i picked him up he decided not to. we both kinda knew that nothing physical would happen. he said he didnt want to rush things, he wanted my daughter to get used to him slowly so that she'd like him, and that contrary to what i said he felt that the distance wasnt an issue and that he intended to return in two weeks. etc. he said lots of flattering things (sexy, very intelligent, attractive, etc.). My question is: if he's interested (so far), is it possible that he really has sincere reasons for not trying harder to get me into bed? (i'm considered quite attractive by the way). help! Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn  +, writes (19 July 2008):
 U must be use to guys who just want to jump in the sack. It could be that he sees something real with you. Seeing something real causes some to take everything slow. Wanting the first time together to be special and not just "lets do it".
There are more guys than not who just want to jump into bed. You should feel lucky, if this turns long term, he has more respect for you than just having sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008): you are oucky you have met a man who isnt terying to bed you so soon. Stick with him dont rush the bed thing sounds as if he is looking for a serious relationship and if you offer it to him to quick he will be off. Stay put and enjoy when he is ready to bed you he will
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