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*oungandinlove
writes:Okay,So im 17 Now a senior and me and my Boy have been together for 2 years and 7 months since freshman year..I know right? ha,So anyways heres the problem.I dont think Im perfect at all,actually im not even close...I think I have problems saying whats on my mind and reasons why I randomly get upset at him,I don't know what it is or how to change ,ive always been that way...So I am the "Mean" one in the realtionship haha ,And my boy is the really sweet, kind, and a gentelman,well atleast he used to be...So me and him been through alot ,and when i say alot..I mean alot!!! 2 yrs. and 7 months isnt a lifetime or anything but alot happeneds, you know being young and immature and all, but i learned from some of my mistakes..i dont believe you learn from all...but some..So anyways i have a probelm..K ,well i love to talk to my boy about my problems,Somtimes!!! its not all the time so when i do i expect him to listen ,since he says he wants me to be more open about things...So I talk to him,and i feel like I ramble.. Like what I say dosent even go through his ears ,it goes past them.. I catch him falling asleep most the time too...It hurts me alot,Like i wouldnt fall asleep on him.. I dont know maybe its just me, but it really bugs me,like what should i do?? thats one of the main things i wanna know.i have more problems about him to,and dont get me wrong its not just him,it takes two..right??well anyways since hes always been known as the "sweet" one it hurts me so much when hes mean to me, like hes never ever been mean to me ,and out of nowere he gets his man rag and starts saying mean stuff like saying i go to work to go talk to other guys ,Okay yea i know he dosent trust me, i mean he went through my personal stuff and found a letter some guy gave me from work,but it wasnt anything special to me...How do i gain his trust back???and my boy is always the one to tell me "i love you" before we hang up, i wouldnt say it back.. just cause i new it would get him mad,but now 2 years and 7 months later he dosent say it back anymore and it kills me ,Literally... i get this sick feeling inside and it just ruins my whole day... Im not sure how to deal with things like this since this is my Very first legit relationship...and now when we talk on the phone i just feel he dosent have feelings for me anymore like he asked me "hows it going?" i mean if you knew him thats not normal.. im used to the "hi,baby i miss you" type thing and to get that was like a slap in the face...It also hurt me..i dont know if im thinking to much, like he tells me he "loves" me and what not, but now i just feel like he thinks he has too love me since hes already used to having me around,im not sure what to do i feel like our relationship is gonna Crash and Burn literally.i hate this feeling ...what should i do!???is there any hope for him to trust me again??ive already talked to him,maybe not at right times or moments or maybe im just bad with communication and getting the point across but i try my best, mybe i can try a bit harder??+advice,please...Before its too late;[
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reader, Youngandinlove +, writes (20 July 2008):
Youngandinlove is verified as being by the original poster of the question Wow,thanks..
you really made sense...
thank you so much for taking the time to sit down and read my problems..
I apreciate it.
Im really hoping that all goes well with me and him.
because it would make me a better person.
i guess you can say i depressed myself,i think to much into things and get myself mad by thinking about it...
but im gonna try to not do that anymore and to have someone sit down and listen to my problems helps me believe that theres actually people out there that care about my feelings when i think my boyfriend dosent.....
thanks.
.Dahlia.
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