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*milyNoir
writes:I have recently fallen in love with the most wonderful man ever, he makes me so happy but I'm so nervous about letting him touch me down there. I don't know why I just am. I don't like my body and I am worried about what he will think, he says he loves my body but I hate it. I am too worried about this to let him do anything to me. Please help ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2008): You must spend some time learning to love yourself. There is nothing more sexy than someone who is confident in his/her own skin.
As long as you are not confident to get naked with him, you should not have sex. Explain to him that you are not ready, but don't bug him too much with your confidence issues, men find that annoying.
Just believe him when he says that you are beautiful, and keep telling yourself the same thing.
good luck!
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reader, Mark25 +, writes (19 July 2008):
 If your boyfriend says that he loves your body then, believe me, he does. Everybody has something about their body they hate. That's human nature. You boyfriend will have something about his body that he doesn't like. Has it stopped you from wanting to make love with him? No, it hasn't. So why should it stop him? If your boyfriend didn't like your body then he wouldn't want to make love with you. But he does. Are you comparing yourself to other women? That's the worst thing that you could do. Girls in magazines and on the telly don't look like that. It's make up and airbrushing. They're probably not as slim as you think. The pictures have been altered to make them look thinner. Please don't worry about what your body looks like. I'm sure there's nothing wrong with it. Your boyfriend fell in love with you because of who you are. So whether you're fat, thin, spotty, skinny, chubby, when you're in love in with someone none of that matters. Best of luck.
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