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writes:Is there any hope for Ex’s getting together and not having it strained or end up completely broken?I have recently had my heart hurt by my EX and while I still love and care for her I like to say I want to be with her in the future, however I am trying to be realistic and not focusing on that in my life.I was just curious to see if anyone had a story or tale of being in love falling out of it and then later get back into it with the EX and having it work out?I am not looking for a magic cure or some proof that “well others did it so can I” I am just wondering if some people went about it and if they failed or succeed? And perhaps how they failed or succeeded, I know a lot of my own faults and strengths but am looking to use any advice I get to help me conquer my weaknesses and improve my strengths.Thanks for your advice.
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reader, Peterk5699  +, writes (19 July 2008):
 I think ex's can get back together but the "spark" won't be as bright as it was before because, back then, it was fresh love and you didn't think such a thing would happen but it did and when you get back with your ex you worry about it happening again which could affect the relationship.
You can try though and hope it will work this time but I've seen these things happens and the 2nd time was shorter than the 1st.
Here's a scenario:
person meets other person
Persons become couple
Couple are together for a year
Couple split and go their seperate ways
2 months later...
Same persons start emailing one another
One suggests they get back together
It happens
They last 4 months then split and don't talk again.
Now I'm not saying this could happen to you but I've seen it happen 3 times with other people.
Just do your best and do nothing silly and jope it'll last.
Good luck!!
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