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Am I in love or just obsessed?

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Question - (19 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im 16 years old and i think im in love but im not sure, whenever im with him i dont want him to leave my side .

im always thinking about him and he always calling me to tell me he loves me and when im lonely and sad i just call on him and he talks to me . and when i cant sleep i call him and he comes to sleep with me.

am i in love? or am i obssessed with him?

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (19 July 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntWhenever you think of him, do you feel this happiness that envolves your body and mind? Do you feel happy around him? Do you wish to be with him because he makes you happy and not because you feel needy(sexually)?

On what you described, it seems you may be falling in love with him (at least to me) but you just have strong feelings for him for now. This may develop in love giving it the time, though.

When you do fall in love, no one would make you doubt your love for him and you will know you'll stay with him no matter what, even if he commits some mistakes. Also, you will know you'll stay with him even when he can't satisfy you sexually (something that some people confuse with love).

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008):

Neither... he seems to be your "nothing is worse"... you call when you are lonely, sad or can't sleep!

Have fun while it lasts!

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