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writes:Hey can sum1 help me. i talk to girls all the time ive never had a prob talking to them however i cant seem to ask ne of them out. honestly i no im not good looking im a lil overweight and cause of that i cant ask them help plz
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reader, anonymous11 +, writes (20 July 2008):
anonymous11 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys and btw stranger already did that bought new clothes and i am losing a bit of weight but i cant tell cuz i started lifting weights and as u prob well no muscles weighs more than fat so idk rly
and since then (about a month ago) i think a girls has started to like me she was a rly good friend b4 and now im trying to get the guts to ask her to the movies or sumtin thal u all
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reader, Solidus +, writes (19 July 2008):
 I recently asked a similar question!
I lost like 105 pounds. I worked out 30 mins in the morning before breakfast (speeds up metabolism all day and burns more fat). After I lost the weight I had my first girlfriend. We dated on and off for a year. We just finally called it quits for good so now like you I am looking for someone knew.
I look pretty good since I've lost weight and even though I'm more confident and less subconcious the idea of chatting up random hotties at the mall still sort of terrifies me.
In fact, there's a hot chick who works at the mall where I work who I would like to talk to more, but can't find the words. "Hey, you're really hot" doesn't seem sufficient. Bottom Line, I got my first girlfriend by being her friend first. Then things just sort of fell into place.
Cardio 30 mins in the morning and try HIIT to get into shape. This will help with your self confidence and in turn help you out with the ladies. Oh and remember, bet there friend first it puts them at ease.
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reader, kr@zyb@by  +, writes (19 July 2008):
Just be yourself and if you have a true connection it should come easy
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reader, kizzadizza  +, writes (19 July 2008):
 look mate i had the same prob. i started going to the gym and all the girls started taking notice of my body in swimming.
if this dont help talk to your dad or your brother, if you cant do that do what i did and talk to your mom.
i know it will be difficult to lose abit of weight, it was hard for me to lol.
go to the at least 2 times a week, do not over do it and still eat the same way just a lil bit less food wit sugar and fat mate.
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