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Was he just toying with my feelings?

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Question - (23 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

well,i liked a boy a lot for two years.he was my first love. I was sure he liked me as well and everybody thought the same. he was always after me, showed all the possible signs that he was into me, but as time passed by he never really asked me out, so i moved on and now have a boyfriend that loves me but today, when i was heading home after school we bumped into each other and decided to go together because we went in the same direction.

We talked a lot about many things. he walked very close to me, always brushing against my arm and touching my hand. he tried to show me how cool he is. He even asked how is my friend doing, he told me how much she loved him, but he rejected her, because he had a gf (of course it's not true, he even admitted later on it was just a joke). At one point I asked him why all this years he was always after me.at first he didn't say a word then he told me he wasn't going after me. then he laughed and told me he can't believe he gave me so many hopes. i told him to answer seriously and he said he is serious, especially when it comes to his hopes and then he gently stroked my cheek. To me it seems like all this time he was toying with my feelings and never really liked me. what do you think? did he like me?does he still do? please answer.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2009):

You have a boyfriend, so just remember that for a start. Next, this guy doesn't even know how he feels. He's telling you one thing, then doing something else. It might be that he does like you but doesn't really know how to show it. If he hasn't quite got it in him to just come out with how he feels about you, give him a miss and focus on your boyfriend instead.

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A male reader, jc2008 United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2009):

It sounds to me like this guy doesn't know what he wants. If hes aged 13-15 i'm not surprised! Well you now have a boyfriend which I hope makes you happy, just remind him of this and I'd tell him not to touch you if I were you and decide what he wants.

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