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writes:I have a feeling the answer is going to be a definite 'no' here, but I thought I'd better check because I'm quite anxious about this. I spent the night at my boyfriend's and things got pretty heated in bed, he was wearing his shorts but I was stark naked and we were dry humping for a pretty long time. Eventually he realised that his shorts had slipped down, enough so that the tip of his penis was showing. We stopped immediately needless to say. I don't know if there's danger here- he was pretty dry and didn't cum- he was the one who actually noticed it, so it wasn't like he was trying to just have his way! I'm quite panicked now, he was reassuring me afterwards that there was 'no way' that could get me pregnant. I'm actually going to the clinic tomorrow for some general contraceptive advice, so should I ask there to be sure or ask for a pill (this all happened about 12 hours ago) or am I worrying myself over nothing? Please help!
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reader, Mymy +, writes (30 January 2009):
Mymy is verified as being by the original poster of the question Just to say I started my period today, never been so thankful for my time of the month! I've taken out the pill perscription too and discussed condoms with my boyfriend already - so this was a good early wake up call! Thanks for all your help.
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reader, Ravenxx91  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 from whqat you said thers like 0.01% you could be pregnant, if there was no fluid contact then definatly not x
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reader, Mymy +, writes (29 January 2009):
Mymy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, I just got back from the clinic and have got the perscription for the pill but will be using condoms as well. I spoke to the nurse and have been told that if my period's late, I'll go back and get a test... finger's crossed still, the chances are small but not impossible. To be on the safe side I got chlymidia testing but the heavier stuff involved blood tests which I'm not very sure about, so I'm leaving that for now! Would you recommend that I asked my bf to get tested, or would he think I'm overreacting?
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reader, im_a_dummy  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 hey, i dont think you are pregnant at all, there was no cum or precum, so i doubt there was sperm, talk to your doctor at your appoinment if it will help calm you down..
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reader, Mymy +, writes (28 January 2009):
Mymy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice, my period's actually due within days so hopefully I've missed my peak point of cycle. I'll bring it up at the clinic tomorrow still just to be sure. To Icelordess- I had actually discussed using condoms with my boyfriend and he's used them with his past partners so that is the first thing I will look into.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): I hope this isn't too graphic, I just want to give the best answer I can:The chances are slim to none, unless any fluid from him (and there is usually a little even if he does not climax) was transferred into you, possibly even by a hand. Of course, you'd have to be at the right point in your cycle (about the 14th day from menstruation for most women), as well. I read a story a long time ago about this being possible, and gave myself a scare, but of course, nothing happened.If you're going to a clinic, maybe you should ask about being put on the pill or other contraceptives so you won't be as concerned in the future. Oral contraceptives are also helpful in regulating any problems some women have each month, and are not solely used to prevent pregnancy.
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reader, anonymousgirl09 +, writes (28 January 2009):
Hey,
I don't think there is much, if any, chance of you being pregnant at all, but i know that your probably going to get yourself pretty wound up over this, so when you go to the clinic i think you should talk to your doctor just to put yourself at ease. It is pretty impossible to get pregnant if your boyfriend didn't oragasm or cum and so there isn't much to worry about. Hope this helps!
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