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Archived questions from: 16 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

'Oil up for sex'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - So my friend was talking about oiling up for sex with her boyfriend and I'm just curious what it actually means! Is it just using lube or literally covering yoruself in something?...

I keep thinking I should be better for him in bed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend told me he once was involved in a threesome with his previous long term partner. He wasnt allowed to touch the other girl and just watched as they got on with it. I now feel like our sex life isnt enough. I have asked him if he wants ...

I fear sex is the only reason my ex wants me to visit him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend moved back to his home country for work. We decided to break up cos we thought that a long long distance relationship would not work because at the time we was going through a rough patch in our relationship. He has been away for a fe...

I prefer masturbating to actual sex! What's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Ok so a very bad sex experience on a virgin makes him get the wrong idea? coz I am afraid I really got the wrong idea about what sex is.. I didn't enjoy it... not in pain but pleasure... didn't feel anything special... I prefer masturrb...

What can we do to keep it fun except for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - ok well im 16 and well i have been with this boy for like 2 months now and well you no what its like when get to the age of 16 .. well i dont want to rush in to sex and i have talked to my boyfriend about it and hes cool about it but its just i dont ...

Why didn't he ask her to marry him after 9 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Dear All, I planned to forward this question coz I'm kinda worried about this cousin of mine. She has been seeing this guy for about 9 years now. But she told me that he has never touched her or asked her sexually, except "the kissing" thing. Right ...

I didn't know girls can actually cum...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - hey, i didnt know girls can actually "cum" i thought i was called discharge. im really confusing. Any help ??...

I want to seduce my hubby but not in a sick pervy way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - HI, I want to seduce my hubby but not in a sick pervy way but am thinking of putting on a DVD just to let him know what is on my mind!!! Anyone seen any good DVD's lately that could get him in the mood for what I want to do to him...? ...

I'm desperate to have sex, any ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - i want to have sex but im 15 and want to have sex but cant find a girl who live close to me and i cant find anyone on the web who is close to my age, what should i do?...

I want to have sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - i want to have sex but im 15 and want to have sex but cant find a girl who live close to me and i cant find anyone on the web who is close to my age, what should i do?...

I don't have any faith in myself anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I have very low self esteem. Im 20 years old and i have no boobs what so ever. I cant come for the life of me. I feel completely defective as a woman. My boyfriend used to read porn before he came with me, but he stopped after starting a ...

Should I tell my mother that I've been using her vibrator?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

16 February 2009 (?) - Okay so I have a major problem. It's the second time that I've had the guilty feeling this bad. But it's for really stupid things. I've done really really worse things and I've never given it a second thought and it just bugs me that I'm bothered by ...

Shall I sleep with him - will this makes things better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I have not been too happy with my b/f. We have a 6 year old. We do not live together. I have two older teenage boys. My older son has been causing a lot of grief and I had social services involves as I hit him in a way to cause harm as he brusied ...

I'm 13 and my boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I need you advice. My boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me, but I think I am too young. What do you say? I really would like to have sexual intercourse, but I'm not sure whether I am old enough to decide that....

How can I keep the noise down during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - This is a little daft asking I think but here goes... I live in uni halls, a block of 16, and our walls are very thin. Last time my boyfriend came over to stay the night my next door neighbour made a joke about being able to hear everything through ...

I couldn't get an erection because I was too nervous, how can I relax more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hey I'm 15 and the other day I went to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time (my first time ever), but I couldn't get an erection. I already posted a question on why this was and people said it was because of nerves, if this is the case...

Does this mean that he really does want me for me, that he doesn't just want me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - A few years ago, I worked with a guy for a few months and I didn't really think anything of it. I went on a night out and bumped into him, we ended up going back to his place and I spent the night with him and had sex, we were both drunk. This...

B/f can't focus beyond where his brain stops processing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My b/f is not very experienced in the sex department. Although he seems to know what he is doing, he is still very unsure of a lot. Especially for his age. :o( So here's the thing. I've told him a few times that my fav. thing is to be fingered. ...

My latest boyfriend refuses to lick me clean after sex!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My latest boyfriend refuses to lick me clean after sex, is it too much to ask? It's his mess after all? All my previous boyfriend's were happy to do it....

I feel so slutty! Please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Hi I really need help :/, I'm only fifteen and I can usually get boys with ease but everytime I go see a boy, This may sound werid but I always get really horny and want sex with them and straight after it I always seriosul...

How do you offer fellatio?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - how would you give head to your boyfriend?? do you let him cum in your mouth? do you deep throat? i NEED details...

I want to have sex but a promise I made stops me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - i love my boyfriend and all and i want him to be my first BUT i promised my frends that i wouldnt lose it till i was a FRESHMAN. a promise is a promise but i aint sure that it is a promise i can keep cause everytime i think about him and me doin the ...

If I didn't bleed during first time sex, what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - my question is..if i didn't bleed on our first intercourse does that mean I'm not virgin anymore? I'm worried about it..i feel that something has changed from him towards me...what will i do..i know in myself and god knows that he is the first man ...

Ex-girlfriend found someone else but continues to pursue me for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 280 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - i'm confused about my ex-girlfriend.We broke up about 8 months ago. She found a new guy but we been having sex the last six months while she been with her new boy friend. She tells me how much she loves me and miss me.We meet in the morning and talk ...

I have an attraction to both sexes! I want to tell everyone...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Well.. for a start, I have a attraction to both genders. The only person who know's my sexuality is my girlfriend. I really want to tell my friends and family, but how can I? I live in a small town in the west side of British Columbia, Canada. Where ...

I still feel pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - ok I just got off the birth control shot and I'm purposly trying to get pregnant again I was pose to get anotha shot feb.5th....never went and had sex that day and let my boyfriend bust in me....thats not the only time since then that he did ...

I never wanted a relationship with him! Why do I feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My "friend with benefits" recently told me that he had met someone who he thinks he could have a future with and doesn't want to mess it up by fooling around with me. Initially I was happy for him and dropped the "benefits" part of our friendship ...

Is it bad that my boyfriend doesn't finger me when I give him a handjob?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - is it bad that my boyfriend doesn't finger me when i give him a handjob? he did it a few times in the beginning of our relationship and seemed pretty into it but for weeks now whenever we do anything sexual it's really one-sided and i don't really ...

Do women actually enjoy anal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hey do women enjoy anal? Also if me and my gf were to try it what should I do to make it as enjoyable as possible? As far as lubes, toys, and technique. Thanks....

I'm not sure I can be with someone who is so selfish in the bedroom...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 280 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I fear I may have been a massive bitch to a boy - so excuse the length, but I need to be honest here if I am to get honest answers back. There was this guy I met at uni about 4 months ago. He was really nice and sweet and we really got on. ...

He is the PERFECTEST guy ever but my parents would shoot me, but I'm really not caring, and I just want to be with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I'm 15 years old and I've been talking to this 19 year old, I'm a freshman and he graduated last year. He always says how much he likes me and he wants to be with me, and ive had sex with him. He bought me a phone so i can text him, and he is paying ...

I wanna have sex, but I'm just too scared. Is that normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Eventually I wanna try to have sex but I'm still so young. I would have sex now, but I'm terrified of the condom breaking and I'm too scared to ask my mom for birth control so some of the stress of sex can rub off. I don't know how to handle th...

Sexual advice needed please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Ok, well I've madeout a lot and cuddled and shit but I do think I'm prude and I get pressured to get fingered and giving blowjobs and handjobs and sometimes even sex. I do wanna try to get fingered and try a handjob and a blowjob. I know what the...

Will having anal sex hurt me or will I feel pleasure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been toghether for 2 years. Our relationship got physical a while ago but he says he wants to try anal. I am really scared of doing it because it will be the first time I have done that but I don't know whether to let him ...