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I couldn't get an erection because I was too nervous, how can I relax more?

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Question - (16 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *latline writes:

Hey

I'm 15 and the other day I went to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time (my first time ever), but I couldn't get an erection. I already posted a question on why this was and people said it was because of nerves, if this is the case then, what can I do to stop getting so nervous or relax more?

Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009):

I'm sorry i probably seem like the kill joy on this subject but, don't you think you are too young, plus it is illegal. If you are not relaxed enough it could be the case, you need to enjoy it and to o this maybe you just need to wait for a while, sometimes it is because you know your not doing the right thing you just dont want to let her down but if your girl friend loves you she will try her hardest to make you happy as well.

hope this helps :) x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009):

I'm sorry i probably seem like the kill joy on this subject but, don't you think you are too young, plus it is illegal. If you are not relaxed enough it could be the case, you need to enjoy it and to o this maybe you just need to wait for a while, sometimes it is because you know your not doing the right thing you just dont want to let her down but if your girl friend loves you she will try her hardest to make you happy as well.

hope this helps :) x

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (16 February 2009):

StudentOfLife agony auntYou usually become more relax over time. It might have been too soon, especially if it's a first time. Depending on the person, some like to wait until they're fully comfortable in second base (Oral, bj etc ...) before going to third base (penetration).

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