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I'm desperate to have sex, any ideas?

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Question - (16 February 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *dg writes:

i want to have sex but im 15 and want to have sex but cant find a girl who live close to me and i cant find anyone on the web who is close to my age, what should i do?

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntProbably best that you can't find anyone just yet.... Just masturbate for now, less STIs and babies that way!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009):

Masturbate.

Since you probably don't readily have access to lube, if you need any, use Vaseline. Don't do it in a sock. Just apply a generous amount of Vaseline on your penis, lather it around the top and around the top half and churn it how you see fitting. If it seems like it doesn't work, you're doing it 'incorrectly'. Hold down your penis with your left hand from the base and with your right, churn the top end pass the mushroom.

If other readers think this is too much information - it's simply not enough. You want to give this poor sod advice? Then do it fully and not half-assed with sugar coated crap.

EVERY male in their teen years want to have sex with a girl or boy in some cases. It's called puberty. [ponders] Wait, does that mean I'm also still going through puberty? ^_~

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009):

Listen pal, some of us have been waiting a lifetime to have sex with the right person, someone who loves us as much as we love them. But sometimes it just never happens!!

If however, you just want a girl to be your sex object for the night, I'm sure there will be plenty of girls willing, if you don't set your sights too high and look in the right places!!

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntDon't have sex with people just for the fun of it. It will give you a cheap image and believe me you will regret it because no one will want to be in a relationship with you because they will think you are just after sex.

If you really want to have sex find a girlfriend but wait until you fall in love. Sex if better if theres love.

Olivia.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009):

You shouldnt have a sudden urge to just randomly have sex with someone. Try talking to your local doctor about the situation. Also, tell your mom (or dad if it helps man with man) about the situation because they probably know what it feels like.

Hope it helps,

~Anonymous~

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009):

Don't have sex is the answer for now. If you can't find that special person what are you going to do? Get a prostitute? You're not old enough for that, nor would I suggest it if you were older. It's natural to have urges, but please, think about it. Sex is not something to just toss around for your pleasure. If there is nobody there for you to have sex then sorry, no sex for you. Why rush into it anyway? Unless it's special that's just dirty.

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