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Archived questions from: 26 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Are these signs of being homosexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - Is being attracted to attractive transexual or transgendered people a sign of homosexuality? A friend of mine has transexual porn at his home. And well a few of us checked it out and the 'ladies' were attractive except for the fact that some o...

I want to have sex at 13, what do you advise?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - im am 13 and i really want to have sex i just dont have anyone to do it with! who can i go to?...

He wants it hard and fast and I am a virgin and he knows but doesn't care! Please help!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - okay. this is really scary to me so someone please give me some advice. i have a boyfriend, he is 18. i'm a little younger than him, hehe. anyways we want to have sex. he knows i am a virgin.... he wants me to be on my hands and knees when we do it. ...

Would most men accept sex if it is offered to them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Would most men accept sex if it is offered to them? We hear that men are always thinking about or watching sex at some point or other but even some unattractive average woman offered herself to a man for the night would he take it??...

I don't want my sister to watch porn, what can be done?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - i caught my sister watching porn and masturbating !! she is 15. it has shook me inside and i cant see it happening and leave this matter though i understand its normal.what should i do about it ??? i dont know why but i dont want her to do it. ...

We met a couple of times, when is it OK to sleep with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Hi I've just started dating a guy quite a lot older than me. I like him a lot, and I also find him very attractive but we have only met up a couple of times, and been talking on the phone etc. I dont want to sleep with him too soon, but I think he ...

Do most men like to offer oral sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Do men really like going down on women? - I know that most men like blow jobs - but do men really like going down on women or do they prefer to skip the foreplay and just get on with it? Honest answers please - as I've got my first night of passion ...

My question is what we can do to make the sex somewhat enjoyable and special for the both of us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 and a sophomore in highschool. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. I think it's safe to say that we're very much in love. He's my bestfriend first and then my boyfriend. I can tell him anything. We haven't had sex yet. ...

He says maybe when he has lost some weight we will have sex again!? I don't understand him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfrined for 2 years now. Since september last year he has been acting strange and we havent been sleeping together. We have has sex 4 times since then. He isnt cheating on me i know that for sure because i am always with him.He ...

I never seem to please her in bed as I get tired, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - i dont know what to do with my girlfriend anymore!!! i mean in bed i never seem to please her!! i have a 6 3/4 inch penis its below average i beleive .. but thats not the deal when we have sex i do all i can to make her reach an orgasm and she ...

Scratched vagina, I'm in pain, help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are sexually active. While doing foreplay...he scratched me down there pretty bad. It hurts to pee, wipe, walk, and wash down there for the past week. What could I do to help ease the pain? I am under 18, and I can not be open to ...

My vagina hurts after sex

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I've been in my relationship for three years and my boyfriend is great! When we started having sex (two weeks into our relationship) it was good! There were no problems at all. For about a year now, everytime we have sex my vagina hurts after it...

I don't mind if I become pregnant but my fiance is not sold on the idea

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. I wonder if anyone can help me here? My fiance proposed to me at the weekend. That night, we consumated the engagement. We didn't realise, until I felt him cumming inside me, that the condom had split. He uses an ultra-thin make so it ...

Does this mean I could still be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Ok so on february 16th, my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex. On february 18th i took the morning after pill. And now today i just got my period. It is right on schedule, neither early or late. Does this mean that i still might be pregnant...

Size and performance anxiety during sex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I have had substantial anxiety developing related to my marriage and sex. I was a little bit anxious when we were first married because we did not have sex with each other until we were married. I was rather anxious over size and performance, ...

I'm 27 and not interested in sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Why do i feel like this? Im 27 and not interested in sex! I have a gorgeous boyfriend of almost 2 yrs and we have a beautiful 8 month old daughter. I do feel tired a lot what with lookin after my daughter all day so maybe thats why, but even when im ...

Are all women the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I am just curious, for those of you (women) out there who are experienced, is there a difference between sizes? If it's small you cant feel much, bigger feels fuller? And if she's loose or tight? Which do you (men) perfer? Are all women about the ...

Will he get tired of me sending sexy pictures to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Fwb, i am female and he is a male we were messing around with each other and i had my hand downstars and i was playing with my hand there and put it back but a bit too hard and i hurt him a little i know i should be a bit more carfull and i said ...

My wife feels sex is nasty

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I am a happily married man, And have been for ten and a half years. When we first got married my wife and I had a great sex life. We have four kids and still love each other very much. My problem is that now my wife says that she feels sex is ...

AT 13, should we have sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - im 13 and so is my boyfriend.we are really deeply in love with each other.we have been going out for 4 in a half months.we both want to but should we have sex ?...

On penis size, debunking the myths

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

26 February 2009 (?) - Usually, it's women who have worries about our appearance. We usually wonder if this is too big, if this is too small, too short, too tall, etc. We usually get the same answer: "It's the inside that counts". And it's true, albeit hard to believe. I ...

Did I make a mistake by being easy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I've been emailing this man from a personal ad he had advertised online that I responded to. We've been corresponding since the beginning of February. Made out a couple of times, today I had sex with him. He's not interested in a relationship. Did I ...

Could masturbation and smoking cause erection problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - i have a question to all the men out there and also the girls but mostly men. when i have sex with my girlfriend i sometimes get soft erections and it gets me mad and i cant get it hard no matter how hard i try. this one time i took a pill to make ...

I feel guilty after masturbating

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I want to quit masturbating. I love how it feels when I'm doing it but I always feel guilty after. I feel that I'm unholy or something. Sometimes I even watch porn to help me and after I feel awful. Do you have any suggestions on how to stop. Or at ...

Should I trust that he isn't having sex with men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - My husband and I are soul mates. We have the best marriage of all our friends and everyone tells us that we look so much in love even after being together for sixteen years. We have 3 children,and have always been good parents. I recently found ga...

Pregnant from this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Dear cupid,am afraid i might be pregnant. my bf and i usually use the withdrawal method when we have sex. a couple days ago after he ejaculated on my stomache, he wiped the sperm off myself and his self using a towel and couple minutes later we did ...

Sex is a curse not a blessing

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I am still to think that been beautiful, sexy is a curise not a blessing. I am 5'8, tone slender body. Every body in my school, both high school and college thinks I am beautiful. both male and female. I am into fashion. But I have never had a ...

Tied up again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - hi anuty,last few days I feel like a prisoneer...2 days ago my girlfriend got me drunk,seduced me into sex and then handcuffed me to her bed at her place..slowly she began to remove my trousers and...then all of a sudden she whipped me with my belt ...

1st blow job,what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - Hi, im 15 and my gf is 14, weve been goin out for almost five months, after almost breaking up she hasnt been givin too much attention, and today she said how really "wanted" me, and she got rly horny, so we started thinkin about "goin somewhere", ...

I'm never "in the mood" after I masturbate. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 14 year old guy and I think I've been masturbating for 3-4 years now. Yeah I enjoy it and it really feels good, but after I masturbate I'm always, always not in the mood any more, I would think that I'd be able to savour the moment after ...