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Archived questions from: 20 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

My cousin is really hot & I want to have sex with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - i have this cousin we r both 16 and i have only known her for about 9 months but i find her extremely hot and i want to have sex wit her really bad because she always shows me her thongs and bras and i touch her and she dosent care also she says she ...

He got a private nude dance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I feel exactly the same and am going through the same shitty feelings as you. It was on my now husbands!?!?!? stag night. im quite an open minded girl especially when it comes to sex. thing is he said to me prior to the stag and hen parties that he ...

How can I get my guy to make me have a great orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - how can my boyfriend make me have a great orgasm...be very detailed I need every little detail...i always have to play a part in cumming but I want him to make me do it on my own while havin the penis inside me.or something better?.....tell me ...

Making out and he started shaking... was he just excited?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - The other day my boyfriend and I were making out in my car in the back seat. I was laying down in the back seat and he was on top of me. We were making out and it seemed like he started shaking. Does that mean that he was excited?...

The antidepressants and alcohol problem are taking a toll on our sex life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - My gf and I have been together for 7 years, and our sex life has been a problem for me most of that time. When we met, we were both very sexual people, which was one of the things I was attracted to about her. Over the years she has taken ...

He wants me on top for first time sex and I'm not so sure...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months now and we're talking about having sex. Its not that i dont want to do it, but he says he wants me on top. i've heard its a great turn on for guys to have thier gf's on top but the thing is its my ...

Can you get STDs if you wear a condom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Are STDs still passed if you wear a condom? ...

Why isn't he touching the right place during intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I can orgasm easily by masturbating or when my boyfriend uses his fingers, but not by sex. When we have intercourse, his penis isn't touching my clitoris and of course I can't orgasm. We have tried all kinds of positions but nothing works. We always ...

Is there a non-painful alternative to waxing that's just as long lasting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Can any 1 give me any tips - my boyfriend recently told me he wants to go down on me but wants me to shave off all my pubic hair. The problem is I got razor bumps when I have shaved down there. I want to wax but afraid it will really hurt; is ...

If two gay guys have sex, did both of them lose their virginity?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - if two gays have anal sex do both of them lose there virginity? like if one of them is on the recieving end and the other on the giving is it only one of them that loses it or both?...

Is it just my BF or are girls on top a turn-on for most guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Hey, I gots a question for the fellas! I just lost my virginity to my bf of two years last week. Any way it was the biggest turn on for him that I took the initiative to be the one on the top lol I guess it took ...

Allthough he sounded excited, he didn't have an erection - is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Ive recently started a new relationship 2 months, we're very close and he already says he's falling for me. Anyway cutting to the chase, the other night we were getting close, intimate and eventually to a point of almost ripping into each other. ...

His new sex move is amazing, but I feel guilty for loving it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Dear girls Pse help me with a rather embarrassing question. A few months ago my bf was going down on me and suddenly switched tactics and flicked his tongue across my ass. After a few protestations I had my biggest orgasm EVER and a huge headache ...

I'm sick of him pouting because I'm not ready to have sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for almost a month now. :) He keeps pushing the sex issue. I feel I'm not completely ready just yet. And when I say 'no' he pouts! I'm getting a little sick of it.. For example: This morning I had an appt. to ...

Why did I let my girlfriend have sex with another man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - I have a real big problem. I've always been a very reserved guy in terms of sex and relationship wise. So is my girlfriend. However, for some reason one day I had the fantasy of seing my girl with another man having sex. However, I liked to keep it ...

Are guys vocal when they get pleasure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

20 February 2009 (?) - me and my boyfriend are both 14 nearly 15. last night i gave him oral sex and after about 6-7 minutes i gave up and started wanking him just licking up his penis occasionally. he ejaculated a small amount but im worried what he likes, as he just had ...

My boyfriend wants to be so rough and always wants anal sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - My BF of 6 months is nice and gentle except in bed. I mean he starts nice and gentle but it always gets very dominant. He was abused as a child and HAS to be the dominant person in bed. I want to please him, but he now wants anal sex EVERY time ...

How can I be sexier to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I wanna be sexier to my boyfriend. When we're hugging in bed i put my hands up his t-shirt and rub his back all over and sometimes but my hands down his boxers and rub his bum.. I also carress his chest.. When i kiss him i hold the sides of his face...

I'm looking for some simple things that could drive him crazy during sex and also sure fire ways that we can reach that climax!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 5 months now. We've been crazily in love for 3 months of that and I completely adore him. We can't spend enough time with each other, and when we are together we literally can't keep our hands off each ...

He came in me during anal sex, can it do harm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend and I regularly practice anal sex. Recently, he came inside me during anal. I don't know why I'm worried but it can't do any harm, can it?...

What do you classify as inexperienced?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I understand from what I've been told that most guys/men prefer women or girls who are experienced in relationships. I've been referred to as inexperienced which I guess I would agree with, only I have had one or two rather serious relation...

Masturbation and pregnancy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - my bf told its not good for girls to mastrbate because it will give them problems later in pregnancy. is this true? thank you...

I want to be with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I am a married women and i have been having a relationship with a married co worker.(he is 48)It started 4 months ago we hit it off and have many things in common.He knew that my own marriage was having problems and we were going to split up our ...

My g/f thinks it's weird when I cop a feel of her breasts a little, do other girls think the same?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - quick queston for all the girls out there: my gf thinks its weird that ill always want to randomly cop a feel on her breasts here and there. say for example we're laying down watching t.v and i notice shes not wearing a bra under her shirt, ill put ...

Weird female masturbation technique which is bad?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Hi.. Well first things first- I have been mastrubating since I was 5 years old. I found this new 'game' and kept it secret. Soon I developed my own 'technique' of getting an orgasm. I've been doing this for 14 years now.. What bugs me is the wa...

Why always the porn? Does he not enjoy sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I been married to my husband for three years now, but for the past few months I had realized that whenever we have sex he always have to put on a porn movie to watch. It hurts me so much because I feel like I am not good enough for him and while we ...

Was my boyfriend out of line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Was my boyfriend out of line? We were watching movies at his house last night and then somehow the subject of him dating lots of girls while we had a short break up earlier this year came into conversation. I was surprised because he had never to...

I've cheated and don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - ok well i hav been goin out w/ ths guy for like 4 weeks, and my ex bf had had some thngs tht weve done. but durin christmas break me and my ex had been txtin bout sex w/ each other and my mom read my txts. she was mad so me and my ex decided to ...

I don't want a girlfriend, but I want to have sex with a girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - I am going to be 17 this October, and I have never had sex, I know some may say that its no problem, but it is for me, only I do not want a girlfriend, I don't need that bug, I just want to have sex with a girl, any idea on how to get it, with out ...

Should I tell my girlfriend I experimented with gay porn a few years ago?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - Hey, i'm going out with a girl for nearly 2 years, and i was pretty annoyed recently as i got a flashback of me masturbating to gay porn (Well not real porn but gay sex scenes on non-pornographic movies)! I am not gay but i did this about 4-5 times. ...

I'm 14 and don't want anything to do with sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - Ok I'm 14 and don't want any thing to do with any thing even related to sex is that good or is there something wrong? Like I even think masturbating is a waste of time plz give me your advice! ...

What do I tell the doctor?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - So i've been dating this guy for almost two months now and we've had sex. we're both 15 and really stupid, but we have used condoms. im three weeks late and im going to the doctors to get checked tomorrow . how do i tell him? ...

Sex in public

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

20 February 2009 (?) - So, I love the idea of potentially getting caught having sex—that is of course without actually getting caught. Sex in risque places is just a big turn-on for me. So, I was wondering…where are some good places to have sex at with the least chance of ...

I'm upset because my boyfriend is not a virgin.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

20 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 15 year old girl, who has a 18 year old boyfriend. What bothers me is to know that he has not been a virgin since he was 16. When I first met him I really didn't care.. I guess since he didn't mean much to me but now, I love him. He would ...