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Archived questions from: 21 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why do I never pre-cum???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - I'm an 18 year old gay male and I dont pre-cum. When I was about 14/15 I used to experiment with masturbating a lot and I used to always pre-cum as I've matured I still masturbate but I have grown out of pre-cumming. Everyone I've been in a ...

WHY does sex hurt the first few times if we're meant to reproduce?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 13 year old girl and don't plan on having sex anytime soon but I was wondering - why does it hurt the first few times you have sex, either when you lose your virginity or when having sex with a new partner? Our bodies are pretty much created ...

He gave me 2 STI's and I'm STILL with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Me an my partner have been together for a year now and it has to be the best relationship I have had. He's loving, caring, funny, everything I could ever wish for. Then a few months in the relationship we broke up for 2 weeks over someone ringing ...

Did I just had an orgasm?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Soooo my gf and me were having fun she was giving me a handjob and i was getting close to finishing i started shaking and when i did it looked like a hose had gone off in my pants..... after i was freezing and the light killed my eyes and it almost ...

Can you name some fun places to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - me and my gf have been together since Decemember and she wants to know where are the best places to have sex besides inside the house or the car? cause she likes doing it in different places... name a few places would help us!! thank ...

Does rough sex hurt the baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - me and my boyfrien just had crazy sex and I may be pregnant so I need to know if hard sex hurts the baby and if u don't honestly know don't reply...

Lesbian verses Penis

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I've been attached to women for as long as I can remember. The past 4 years I've only been dating women and can only picture myself with a woman... but the only way I get off is to think about penis or use a dildo! My current girlfriend of over a ...

Boyfriend nightmares

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Hi I have a problem - I have a long term boyfriend who used to treat me really badly and he used to make me do things I didn't want to do - and this has affected our relationship, as I don't feel like I can ask him for anything or approach him for ...

What do I do about my g/f's dad and his sexual attitude towards me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - I'm 23, my girlfriend's 22. We've been together for just over 4 months now, and everything's great. There's no major problems in our relationship, it's her family that's the issue. Whenever I go over to her house (which is semi-regularly), her ...

Different ways to please my partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - right I really need some help. Everything I do sexually to pleasure my girlfriend doesn't work. It has worked for other girls but it doesn't with her. i've gone down on her, fingered her, had sex with her, she says she can feel it but she doesnt ...

I'm thinking about using viagra but concerned it may be dangerous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - hi i'm a 26 year old man who was wondering would it be dangerous or silly to use viagra or a safe substitite.the reason i ask this is because sometimes during sex condoms make my erection a bit soft and i was thinking if i took viagra i wouldn't ...

My libido is low for the past few months, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Iam 27 and have been with my parnter for almost 4 years. We have sex around 4 times a week but in the last 3 months i have not been into sex. I was not feeling that good about my self so my parnter seek out some very sexy PJ's and underware in hope ...

My partner has genital warts..what does this mean for the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - My patner and I recently had sex tests as we both wished to have unprotected sex, thankfully my results came back clear but he was diagnosed with HPV (genital warts)From research on the internet I understand that this is a highly contagious ...

Lack of performance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - I am in my younger 20's and have a big problem. When ever I would have sexual intercourse with my girlfriend I would not be able to last more then about a minute. It's a really big problem because I want nothing more then to bring her pleasure and ...

Got drunk, unprotected sex, now afraid of pregnancy!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Umm ok... on the seventh of this month I got drunk and made a mistake with a guy. I had sex with him and we didn't use protection. Well... I was supposed to start my period like the next day after that or so but I didn't. I sort of have an irregular ...

I need sex! How can I help myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I am 13 and so horny that i am fingering my self.I need sex but it bad. how can I help myself?????????????...

My ex has me very confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - My ex and I were together for 9yrs, we started dating when I was 17. We have 2 wonderful children together. 4yrs ago our relationship ended for a lot of reasons. We had been talking for quite sometime about how we loved each other but were ...

Will you have orgasm as fast during sex as when masturbating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - While having sex, will I orgasm as quickly as when I masturbate?? I'm not thinking about having sex, but I'm just wondering....

On V-day I got my boyfriend having sex with my sister

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

21 February 2009 (?) - My boyfriend told me not to come over to his place on Valentine's day because he said he wasn't feeling well and didn't want me to get sick. But I forget my phone there and I needed it so I went there anyway. I went get there (he give me a house ...

I have a hard time holding my erection, but want to have sex with my girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - im 16. i have a wonderfull girlfriend and we been together for a lil while now i love her with all my heart and we have tried sex a couple times but durin the hugging and kissing i get a really hard boner but when we get are clothes off i get soft i ...

My boyfriend wants sex, don't think I am ready, what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - i am 13 and my boyfriend keeps wanting me to have sex with him......i think in want to too but am still only 13, you only live once!...

How do I talk to him about this without pushing him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I have been friends with a guy for over a year, we kissed last year, and we did not get together because he was dating someone else (a mutual friend). They broke up 6 months ago. We had sex last week, but I always really liked him. How do I talk to ...

Hymen bleeding after having sex 3 times?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 275 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Is your hymen still supposed to bleed after you have had sex for 3 times?...

I really like this boy who randomly touches my boobs

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - There's a boy I am really attracted to. We get off at the same bus stop and all. The other day, we were just sitting on the bus when he touched my boob. Randomly, out of nowhere, just stuck his hand out and touched my boob. I was caught off guard, ...

I feel aroused by reading about others sexual issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - This is my first question and I really enjoy this site. I read it every day and pretend that I have some other problems others have. I have never been kissed or held and my folks told me very little about sex. In reading about those who are ...

We want to pleasure each other without actual sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - hye guys.. im 14 and me and my girlfriend have been together for a very long time...and we really like each other, but we've decided not to have sex yet..(yes we're smart).. sso anyways im always turned on when im around her, but i fight the ...