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writes:A few years ago, I worked with a guy for a few months and I didn't really think anything of it. I went on a night out and bumped into him, we ended up going back to his place and I spent the night with him and had sex, we were both drunk.This was about 3 years ago. Since then we have kept in touch, he's always said how much he liked me, I always avoided meeting up with him in case it was just for sex as that's all it was that night. He came round to my house about 6 months ago and because I was nervous, I got drunk - I think he did too, nothing happened apart from some kissing and he held me throughout the night...Then 3 weeks ago we went out together on a kinda date, again I was drunk and spent the night at his and had sex again. He came to see me before work one day last week, he only came round for a couple of hours and it was really the first time we had been sober together and we just spent it kissing and talking. Then I saw him this weekend after work, he came to my place and we had sex, the first time sober.... and again he held me and kissed me through the night. He said he really likes me and I actually missed him during the week of not seeing him - he's in the army so I could only see him at weekends. He said it's because I'm falling for him that I feel like this and he might be right but I really don't know if he just wants sex or if he does actually want to be with me.I have asked him if it was sex or a bit more than that and he said a bit more and I also said joking that he should be falling for me instead of me for him and he relplied with 'I think it's going both ways'.Does this mean that he really does want me for me, that he doesn't just want me for sex, or that he knows the things I want to hear?I don't know what to do?? xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthought id give you guys an update - it was wat i wanted to hear- he now has a girlfriend- apperntly i waited too long !
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthats tottally what i wanted to hear lol- but i always feel really suspicios of guys when they say things that make me get butterflies cause it feels like they are just saying what i want to hear lol.........
thats why i askd to see if it was just me reading in to it too much .....
thanks for your answer :D x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): aww it sounds like he is really into you. he basically admitted that hes falling for you, maybe try and hold off on the physical relationship and connect more emotionally and see where it goes
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just realised he didnt say 'I think its going both ways'he actaully said 'IT'S GOING BOTH WAYS'. I'm only stressing that point as it does make a difference - doesnt it?Am I being too paranoid?
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