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Archived questions from: 19 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Is there such a thing as being too tight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Is there such a thing as being too tight? I am a virgin but I've messed around with lads including all foreplay, oral sex etc so Im not totally inexperienced but I've never gone all the way as I have this fear I am too tight. I've explored a...

Whenever we make out I just lose my mind!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 14 year old guy and I'm in a current relationship with this girl, I'm really in love with her and she's in love with me.. we've been going out for 8 months. I really want to have sex and I know you're gonna say ohh I'm too young, oh there...

How to prolong the climax?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Okay I am about to have sex for the first time. I want to know if there's anything I can do to make myself not finish fast. Any advice would be great. Oh and yes I am being smart, I'm using a condom so don't worry about that. Thanks...

What can be said or done so that our sex life improves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together a long time. we have the same sense of humor, get along great and enjoy the same social activities. the problem we are having that isn't getting much better is our sex life. he has a impotence problem 3/4 of ...

Why do I always burn after having sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - and no I am not burning/have any type of std, or any vaginal infection. it happened in the past and it always burned like some one put a lighter inside my vajayjay, and im scared to have sex with the new guy because it may happen again. what could ...

Do women like for a man to shave his pubes?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Do most women or any like it for a man to shave is pubes? or is that weird? i have asked a girl that and she said if women do men should too. but do you think men should shave their pubes? ...

How to get a vibrator?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I have a question. Can somebody tell me how to get a vibrator? Because it is boring fingering myself, and i dont want to use my sisters' one. ...

I don't know anything about sex but really want to make him feel good

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I am trying to prepare myself for havign a REAL sexual encounter with this man I love, I am 19 and he is 28! I love him a lot, and I think i am ready to have sex with him. but I'm sooooo scared! I don't know anything about sex, and I want him to ...

Will sex be painful?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - I have a tight foreskin and I'm going to have sex with my boyfriend. Would it be painful? If it would is there anything I can do to stop it being as painful?...

Should I surprise him and give him a BJ while we're out?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Ok, so tonight I'm going out to the movies with my boyfriend. He called me late last night at work to tell me he was feeling soooo horny! I thought it was cute. And I didn't let him know, but I wanted him so bad!! We haven't had sex just yet. And ...

Do lots of guys think vaginas are sort of gross/weird?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2206 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - do most guys think vaginas are kind of gross? bc my boyfriend mentioned it the other day (he said "gross" isn't really the right word - and he kinda regretted using the word gross because he realized it probably came across as way too harsh. plus he ...

He is a known as a player so I worry he is just after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hi there, im a bit confused lately. i've been seeing this guy (paul) now for 1 and 1/2 weeks. we've known eachother for 3 years and he has liked me for a while but i had a boyfriend (jack). i finished with jack and me and paul started texting and ...

My wife was offended by my comment about her sexuality, how can I take it back?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - I have insulted my wife by calling her basic to describe her sexually. She was highly offened. She said i destroyed her confidence and self worth. I did not attempt to correct it and now 6 days later after a talk last night she wants to separate. ...

What can we do so that he lasts longer in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - we'll, my significant other is having really hard times lasting long in bed,its creating a real big sex problem in our relationship. what can me or him do to make him last longer?...

When girls masturbate, does that mean they want sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - when girls masturbate does it necessarily suggest need for sex?...

Help! Could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - okkk well im scared i think that i might be pregnant but im not sure i had unprotected sex a few times since my last period but my partner did not cum inside me until yesterday. my period is due in a few days and when i went to the toilet i had...

Sex the first time hurt so much, now he wants to do it again and I'm terrified!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hey so me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time together it was good but became painful at some point and the pain went on for a week or two, now he says he wants to have more but I am scared of the pain and feel I can't do it now so how can I ...

I'm nervous she's not going to do it for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I'm a bisexual female, and just started dating a girl for the first time. I am crazy about her so far but I'm not too crazy about getting oral sex. Only a few people have done it right for me and I don't orgasm from it. Actually, like most women, I ...

Are most beautiful women viewed as sex objects by men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I have noticed at my university that girls who are in relationships tend to be plain looking and most of the good looking women are single. Even though I have heard that I was beautiful many times, I have never had a serious relationship. Men view ...

How can I become more sexually active?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I love each other im satisfied sexually but im not in the mood most of the time. how can i become more sexual and what are some things I can do to turn him on [Moderator's note: What do you mean by most of the time? It is pref...

How to survive a sexless marriage?? Should I cheat?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I am 32 years old and married to a man who never wants to have sex anymore. He can take it or leave it. I know he takes care of himself (porn) and we have had a million talks and fights about it. It has gotten to the point where I refuse to ...

Porn makes me feel like I don't do it for him anymore...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend looks at porn. I know it shouldn't really be a big deal, but it is. I mean I dont mind if i watch it with him, but he says he is goin to the restroom and i dont really think anything of it when he takes the laptop with him, cuz i think ...

Should I get plan b?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I have been on the pill for several years. well, I was recently sick and had to take Amoxicillin for 10 days. It was twice a day and 875 mg. I have been off the antibiotics for 4 days and had sex. I did not use back up. I am on my sugar pills ...

She does not enjoy sex any more...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - I am 30 years old and she is 28. We met 2 years ago and she was my first time. Always valued the fact of being virgin until I was going to meet the right one. In the last months her sex drive dropped and we basically are having sex not more then ...

How can I become a sexual SASHA FIERCE with my first real boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

Is it a huge turn-on for men if your girlfriend catches you off guard and wants sex?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Is it a huge turn-on for men if your girlfriend catches you off guard and wants sex?!? I'm asking because my bf of almost a month keeps asking for sex, but I'm not ready just yet. I'm getting there though. And I think catching him off guard wo...

Help! My mum caught us in the act and now she wont talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were watching a film in my room and we were laying on my bed we started kissing and then he started to finger me. My mum walked in and now she wont talk to me. I don't know what do! Please help. ...

I read about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I am a virgin at 21. Am I a freak? I read erotic fiction books, own several toys and think about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!please help....