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Archived questions from: 9 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Why do most guys act this way after sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Do all guys, or most guys act this way the day after sex? I've noticed this with the past (2) relationships. We have an amazing time, sex and all. Then the next day it's like short answers, small talk, a bit distant, and expects for the girl to be ...

Ways to sexually satisfy an older woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - I am close to an attractive older woman who is 12 years older than me. I would like to consider sex with her. Is there a way I can confirm that she is interested? I am a bit concerned about satisfying her sexually if we do it. I know she has mor...

Losing my V-card on V-day, I'm so scared and nervous, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - well ive been going out with my boyfriend for like 4 months now and im a virgin, we have been talking about having sex lately hes 19 and im 16. weve talked about having sex on valentines day which is like 4 days away, i need some advice really on ...

Is he just horny or does he actually want something with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - So i've hooked up with this guy twice, and i kinda like him. hes just a huge flirt, and seductive. And then last night, i went to a party, and he was drunk and flirting with a bunch of girls, then he came up to me and started dancing with me, and ...

How do I prevent the condom from ripping and can I get an STI while wearing one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (?) - Ok first off im a virgin ok and im planning to have sex ofc im gonna use a condom but my gf wont use the pill i respect her choice but how can i prevent, number 1 condom from splitting :-/ and 2 if i use a condom can i get any std's i know its...

Will my BF mind if his GF isn't great in bed or incredibly forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - I know there's no straight forward answer to this, because everyone is after all different but I was hoping I could get some advice on here. My question is more or less 'do guys like virgins?' but specifically 'will the boyfriend mind if his ...

Why are condoms called johnny's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - this may come across as a daft question, but what is the reason for condoms being nicknamed "johnny"? ...

Ladies, how can a guy make Valentine's Day special for you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - Ladies, how can a guy make Valentine's Day special for you? What are some fun ideas? Do you like to have a romantic evening leading up to sex for Valentine's Day? Do you enjoy sex on Valentine's Day? How can your guy make Valentine's Day sex for ...

She's on the Pill, so can I go without a johnny?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - hey guys bit of a sex question here.......wasnt really told this in school lol . errr my GF is on the pill that apparently makes her 95% less likely to get pregnant or somit, she finished her period like 4 days ago, she recons its nearly impossibl...

How can I bring on my period?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Hi, i know questions like these come up all the time cos i've seem them myself, but i just cant not say nothing! to cut a long story short, i had sex 3 weeks ago, first time with my current boyfriend and we used a condom, didnt see no split or ...

If he wanted to date me, he would've asked so does he just want sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - I'm not sure what this guy at work wants. When we see each other we chat a lot and he kinda looks at me lovingly but he never asks me out he does however make remarks like we should get a room together, we have known each other for about a year and ...

How do I give oral sex and does it matter if I mess up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for a while now and I want to move things on, I want to go down on her but I am not to sure what to do or what to expect, will she tell me when she is coming and does it matter if I mess things up....

Once a liar always a liar? Or is there still hope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - I have been going out with my fiancé for just over a year and a half now. My past relationships have scarred me severely. I have major trust issues now. I don’t consider myself a control freak or anything like that, but I question peoples actions ...

First time humilating sex leads to a bruised ego and erection issues.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - Ok So i am 16 years old i tried to have sex with a girl at the beach we were making out and i was really hard(never had any erection problems) it was my first time and when we took off our clothes and i got inside her i didnt quite enjoyed....

Are there different stages of erectile dysfunction? Please help us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I was wondering if theres different stages of ed? My man has had a problem all his life and thought it was just normal for him to get just erect enough to have sex. The problem is.. hes getting erect enough to have sex just not getting erec...

Is it normal for a man to get angry at his girlfriend for not liking anal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Is it normal for a man to get angry at his girlfriend of almost one year for not liking anal? I told him that I didn't like it while we were doing it and he insisted that we continue because I was only lying that it hurt so that he would think I am ...

If I don't tell my mother I had sex, my boyfriend's mother will, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who i love to bits but the last time i stayed with him we got caught having sex by his mum. To make matters worse i told his mum that i had told my mum about what i h...

Please suggest something romantic yet a bit wild?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has an erection all the time, I mean ALL the time. All I have to do is kiss him and there it is! Lol. He says, that's a good thing. Plus, he has a very high sex drive. I do too. But sometimes we just can't have sex..you know re...

Guys/girls, does your partner's sexual past bother you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

9 February 2009 (?) - Hi i was just wondering how many guys and girls out there are bothered by their partners sexual past? And if it bothers guys more than it bothers girls? Do you care how many sexual partners your partner has had before you even existed in their...

I have a relationship with an older woman but she is hesitant to have sex, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - Hi, there, I have a good relationship with an older woman. I have mentioned that I would like to have sex with her. She says that I just want to try sex with an older woman. While I do want the experience of sex with an older woman I would li...

Would you ask the guy to get circumsized? Would you pay for it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 284 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Girls you really like this guy you have gone out with for a couple of mouths, he decided he wants to have sex with you and he is not circumcsied,would you ask him if he would go and get cut because you only like men cut and if he does would you pay ...

How can I be more aggressive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - Hi. I have been with a girl for a long time now, and things have always been fine up until recently. Lately she's been saying that she needs more aggression from me, but I am not an aggressive person and I get nervous being aggressive around her ...

Am I a 'slag' for wanting sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and recently split up with a boy I was going out with for 4 months. I thought he cared about me and he started off really nice but as soon as we made it official he wasn't as attentive - not calling for days etc. whenever i mentioned why ...

What are some of the things that make women fall out of love with men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - What are some of the things that make women fall out of love with men, and not want to have sex anymore? When you were in a committed relationship and for some reason, things just started to go downhill. Thanks! ...

Aroused by thoughts of my girlfriend with her ex, what's wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have lived together for the past 8 months. We've dated on and off for years, but have been together since 2008. We've both dated other people during our numerous breakups. She dated one guy in particular who she was crazy in ...

People in animal costumes doing group sex activities??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! I am going to try to ask this one more time! My last 2 tries were denied! Urg! Ok I was watching TV and it showed people in animal costumes doing group sex activities! It said that it was a common practice and the people that did...

I made a bad choice when I was younger, and now it's affecting my relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - When I was 16, I was crazy about this boy in school. For years I dreamed of returning the feelings, and even though we were good friends, I knew he didn't feel the same way... until I had a party and he kissed me. But next thing i know, I ended up ...

How do I perform good foreplay on a circumcised guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - I've just started a relationship with an older guy (25) and I know that he's been circumcised. I've been with a few guys before and have no complaints but they've all been uncircumcised. I'm just a little unsure as to how to make foreplay good. I ...

Will my penis get bigger as my body/facial hair growth increases?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - Hey, I don't know if you have read my last question but I'm 18. I am a late bloomer, I have pubic, underarm, and leg hair but not really any body or facial hair. I shave my little mustache, that's about it. I'm wondering if my penis will grow more ...

Are we going to be "friends with benefits" forever, or does he want more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - I met this man about 8 months ago. At first we went to lunch together everyday and we spent the night together every weekend and sometimes through the week things were awesome. Soon we quit having lunch together but that was because he no longer ...

I'm beginning to think my only attraction to him was physical.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - Hi, so i wrote a question on this site yesterday and i still have more questions. So my boyfriend HAS been dropping hints about sex for those of you who read my question and we sat down and talked about sex. But here are the things that set up a red ...

So much has happened but I love & miss him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - What do you think the best next step is to do in a relationship on the rocks? To keep it short, I met a guy two years ago and after a long friendship/romance he moved into my house where he lived for 7 months until I asked him to get his own plac...

Should I be dating him before we have sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - So me and and my ex have been talking about having sex and and all that stuff and and i love him very much so i know it would not be a mistake if i did it but i have one question should i be dating him before we do...

I'm 15, she's 18 and she wants to have sex on V-day

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - Ok well im 15 and ive been with my girlfriend(age 18) for 3 1/2 months and i love her and she loves me. We trust each other with everything and have told eavh other things we havent said before to others. We have been having sexual talks alot lat...