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Archived questions from: 15 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

We could have waited until we were married but we let it happen too soon. I'll never feel pure again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - The first time I had sex wasn't the right way. I feel bad about it. When my boyfriend and I did it for the first time I only gave in because I thought he would abandon me or cheat on me if I didn't. It was painful and I was scared, and even though ...

I'm on the pill. Is it safe to let him "finish" inside of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I've recently started seeing this new guy...we actually had our second date yesterday (V-Day!). Anyway, the relationship has gotten physical, and he's confided in me that he has a hard time "finishing", especially while using a condom. I am on the ...

I'm very nervous to give my first handjob.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I'm very nervous to give my first handjob. I'm worried I'm not doing it good enough, or I'm hurting him. What should I do? Any advice?? thanks!! (:...

Whenever I have sex, it feels like there's this pressure inside of me and it makes me feel as though I am going to pass gas.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - This is kind of a wierd question... whenever I have sex, it feels like there's this pressure inside of me and it makes me feel as though I am going to pass gas or something if I try to relax, so I keep my muscles down there tightened to make sure ...

Relationship advice

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Ok this is my first post on this website but as i can tell from the posts ive looked on your all incredibly helpful and filled with rich information from life experiences so ill start at the beginning and hope someone can help me with some advice or ...

Having sex with another girl, don't want my parents to know, don't want to stop either, what do I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I need you help. Im 13 and i am having sex with another girl (16). I dont know what i shall do. I cant tell my parents, but otherwise, I cant end it because im so horny and i like the sex with another girl. I am afraid my parents could find out....

I need help with an erection problem, any suggestions from the guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Hey I'm 15 and the other day me and my girlfriend went to have sex for the first time. It would of been my first time ever, but I couldn't get an erection and even when it got a little hard it just went again. I'm really attracted to my gf and alw...

I have a desire to have sex with my sister, what do you think?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (?) - i need help to sleep with my sister but she says that she is complely by say that that stuff is gross when ever its mentioned. i feel like she just say that to convince her self. when we were little we would alwaly show eachother our privite parts ...

Sex is painful for me, what can I do to enjoy it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Sex is more pain than pleasure for me.my bf says im extreamily tight and things will change but i feel they wont.iv started makin excuses evrytym he brings sex up.what should i do? ...

I really, really like him but he just wants sex... should I do it anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I need some advice although I think I already know the answer. I am 26 years of age (virgin) I started flirting with this guy at work that I have known for about two years, we had arranged to go out once but it never happened, he said we wanted d...

Is this Nyphomania? Do I need help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I am 22 yr old female and have been having sex since I was 14. I don't have enough fingers or toes to count my sex partners. I think about sex the majority of my day and have had sex with plenty of men that I did not care about or had any feelings ...

Is it any wonder I've changed after what I've been through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - heyyy, A couple of months ago I got in to some serious trouble with social services and the police for underage sex with my bf (i felt ready to do it, he's 15 nearly 16 now) I told my friends some VERY personal infomation about it because I ne...

He admitted there are 2 others girl in his life! So I refused to meet him, but now I miss him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Hey frnds i am feeling very low. I am in a relation with a guy.He never expressed any feelings for me. Though he knew that i love him very much. We were involved in kissing, handjob. He always insisted m for intercourse but i always refused . I want...

Is it fun to take pictures? (Why not)

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

15 February 2009 (?) - Is it fun to take pictures? (a minor rant) Ok this is something that might seem obvious. We live in a digital age where everything has a camera. Quiet often people think its fun to take pictures of yourself or partners in various poses ranging fr...

I have clitoridean orgasms, but not during sex, what's wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Im having A MAJOR NIGHTMARE I can orgasm with clitorial stimulation. But I cant have one during sex ! no matter how hard we try. weve tried positions and everything ! WHATS WRONG WITH ME??????? I WILL EXPLODE ! [Moderator's note: You say you ca...

My b/f insists to have sex with me, I'm underage, should I give in?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - im 14 and i have a 18 year old online boyfriend, but every time we chat online he says that he wants to have sex with me, but i kind of want to have sex with him but im not sure if i should, so should i have sex with him or not?...

How I can get birth control without my mom finding out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Okay so, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months and we've been moving quite fast in our relationship. I Love him to death and he loves me and this I am sure of. We talked about sex about 2 months into our relationship but didn't ...

How can I talk her into having sex with me again after all these years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - Hi, when I was 9 me and my first cousin who was 11 and a girl, had sex. This lasted for like two years, until my parents broke up and I moved away. Me and her still talk sometimes, but we never talk about what happened back then... but we haven't ...

How can I persuade my wife to make this video?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - I want to video tape my wife playing with herself but she doesn't want to how can I convince her to do it for me?...

He will only have sex after we are married, what are my options?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I've had sex countless times before with only one guy over the course of two years. This guy is now my ex; has been for over two months now. Anyways, I've been friends-with-benefits with another guy for two days now and earlier today, he told me he ...

What is the G-spot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (M) - what the hell??!!1 i just want to know what this g-spot is everybody's tlking about..today is the first day i've ever heard of it and they say guys have it too What is it exactly???...

Is there someone who would have an answer to my question on ovulation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I haven't had my period since December 19, and they put me on Depo on January 26. I have been having sex recently nd I am pretty sure I had a break out bleed on the 13th of Februrary. Now I will get to my question after you have a breakout bleed, ...

We just got married and he does not want to have sex with me, I don't ask, and the problem goes on, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - hey every body. my husband is getting cold even we just get married.i talked about my situation before ,it is about sex. i don't know if it is normal to go with no sex in relationship for 2months especially if it is in the beginning.becaus...

I had sex with him, he had a girfriend, they broke up, but she wants him back, he 's undecided, what now for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - I messed up this time and I hate myself for it! I'm 15 years old and i have had sex before with others but this time it was different, i'm not a whore but i had sex with this guy that i dont really even know. he snuck over at like 2 in the morning ...