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Sex: Help and advice

My friend is planning on cheating on his girl..what am I supposed to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - My friend started dating a girl i sort of have known for a while a month ago. They seem to be getting along fine, but recently they haven't been spending to much time together which is mainly because they are both pretty busy which is ...

How can I give myself a great orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I am really turned on by fingering myself but don't know how to give myself an orgasm or what it feels like to even have one... I need some tips on how to finger yourself the best way possible and give myself an orgasm.... any thing to put on down ...

I need some "first time" advice.... quick!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - For the past year my best friend and I have been getting closer. We have decided to have sex for the first time this Friday, so in two days. Is there any advice somebody can give on what to do and what not do? This is my first time but not hers. So ...

We're friends... but we do have sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - After dating for 5 months, I got pregnant and miscarried. He then said he just wanted to be friends but now we are having sex again. I told him "friends" don't have sex, so don't break my heart, but said I wasn't pushing him for an answer until he ...

Is my penis small or does size even matter at all?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - I am a 6' tall male i am slender/athletic. at times i feel like my penis is small but other times i think it is a good size. My penis size is around erect 6" long, 5 1/2" thick and flaccid 3 3/4" long, 4" thick. Is that small or does size really ...

I'm freaking out after my horrible sex experience with my BF, can you help me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - So i'm seventeen and my boyfriend and i had sex last night as a late valentines day present and now i'm freaking out. Well my boyfriend kind of pressured me into having sex at this camping trip and he didnt stop when i told him to stop being so ...

Should I help him or do men usually do that themselves?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months. We want to begin to get intimate. When we are ready to have sex for the first time (I'm a virgin and he's not)should I help him put his penis in me or does the man generally do that. Any tips ...

All of a sudden I can't pleasre her anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - Ok, My girlfriend and I were having sex and then all of a sudden things i was doing stopped pleasuring her. even things that used to work before that point. what the hell happened?...

Sex after dating him for 5 years - would this be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - and im 16 and i was wondering if i wanted to have sex with someone i been dating for 5 ears would it be wrong if i had sex with him since i know we will be together for longer time?...

I want to see my girlfriend with another guy, how do I suggest this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - I've been with my beautiful girlfriend for about a year now. We're in our 20's but shes several years older than me. We love each other very much. We've had amazing sex since day one however as of late I've been having this reoccurring fantasy of ...

How can I forget that my b/f had sex with someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - how can i forget my boyfriend had sex with someone else? how can i trust that he wont hurt me again? i want to trust him but i dont think i know how any more well me and my bf have been together for almost 4 years he is my first everything ...

Land lady flirting

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - hi aunty,well last few days have been a roller coaster for me..i am mid 20's guy staying by my self in a small apartment..as per the rules and regulations of the apartments contract,alcohol is not allowed.. but i still do bring beer from outside ...

I'm worried I won't be able to hold onto her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - Well here is my situation: Me and my girlfriend have known each other for over four years we have been practically been best friends.. and just recently begun going out for about 3 months now..i am 19 she is 18.. Here is my question: She wants to...

Why did he do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - when me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time [we have been together well over a year and it wasnt so long ago that we did it] it was really good, despite being told the first time is always rubbish. it only lasted a few minutes but, just as ...

I think he dumped me cause I passed gas during anal sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I started dating my first boyfriend last year and all was going well until about 6 weeks into it and we started doing anal sex on and off for a few months, and it seemed nearly every time we did it after 2 or 3 minutes it I needed to break wind 3 or ...

I don't know what he will say about my feelings, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - i have slept with this guy twice nearly two months ago now i cant stop thinking about him i really like him to the point where i think i love him,i havent told anyone this because i dont know what he will say about it but what can i do??? Please...

How do I ask my husband, who does not like to discuss sex, to try some of these things with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I am married with four children and love my husband, but I fantisize about another man. My husband definitly still turns me on, but at times I can be sitting watching tv and dream of this other man doing things to me that my husband does not do. ...

How do I talk a girl into trying/having anal sex?...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - I have this fetish with having anal sex with girls. A lot of girls won't even try it but I have a real big fetish with it. How do I talk a girl into trying/having anal sex?...

Did she want to see my junk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - this past summer i had a girl out at my house we were going to sit in my hot tub outside then go swimming in the pond after that. well the thing is she didn't really have a swim suit and so she wore her t-shirt and her swim suit bottom. and she goes ...

Can anal sex stretch you out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I have an embarasseing question regarding anal sex. I've had it a few times with my boyfriend (but it wasnt my first time with anal) (who by the why is pretty large for my standards, but not gargantuan, even though he does wear magnums) the first 2 ...

I know sex isn't everything, but it is something!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I fear I may have been a massive bitch to a boy - so excuse the length, but I need to be honest here if I am to get honest answers back. There was this guy I met at uni about 4 months ago. He was really nice and sweet and we really got on. W...

Was he having pity sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - This is kind of embarassing for me even though it is anonymous, but here it goes. My husband and I have been split up for a little while now. It just seemed as if we couldn't spend 2 minutes without getting into an arguement anymore. Since this was ...

I want to have sex with the man I love, but I am self-conscious!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I really want to have sex with they man i love, but i am so self conscious of my body, he is really in shape. and im not, im not an obese girl, a am slighty thicker than some. most guys like my shape, but i dont, i have ugly light strecth marks on ...

I just want to know if this fetish is healthy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - Alright, I'll start off with saying that I have a sexual fetish, and I want to know if it's healthy. It's a pee fetish, but I know about golden showers and the consumption of urine being healthy. I'm, frankly, more into desperation. I know that ...

Could I have had an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - hi i am a 18 year old girl. i just wanted to know what a orgasm feels like i cant say that i have had one one before but really what am i to expect to feel in my vagina and my body. i have tried masturbating i felt a bit of tingeing in my vagina but ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't know how he feels about me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Right, some background. My boyfriend and I met through a friend. We had flirted on a few nights out and ended up kissing at a party a couple of weeks back. The next day, we had a long chat, and we have been talking every day since, and seeing each ...

What's the proper way to finger a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - Proper way to finger a girl.. that is pretty sensitive to going deep??? This isnt my first walk in the park nor is it hers we have been doing this for a year and god knows how long she has been doing it by herself...

I was wondering can vaginas get tighter, because I have a really tight one.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I've had sex in a car before the break out bleeds, and he got his penis in me pretty easily. Then he tried a bed today and he had a lot of trouble getting his penis in me today. I was wondering if vaginas could get tighter, because I have a really ...

What does it mean when your husband of 10 years suddenly begins behaving differently in the bedroom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - What does it mean when your husband of 10 years suddenly begins behaving differently in the bedroom? After all these years, he suddenly is interested in new positions and has become more vocal during sex. He also has started cumming on my stomach ...

He is so established and knows what he wants, and one thing he wants is a woman who will have sex with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Dear Readers, I met this guy Dec 23. I am head over heels for this man, I am 19 and he is 28! He is so established in life, but most of all his is very religous as I am! His words sit in my head, when he touches me I stop breathing, just yesterday ...