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Archived questions from: 8 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Can guys pick up on sexual urges?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Do guy's have like a sixth sense for this stuff? Can they pick up on Sexual urges? If so how do they like know it's sexual if the female doesn't show any interest? A while back I was texting this guy when he sent me this: Tuesday, Januar...

Bisexual, open and honest....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - I am a very sexual female. I have been very open with my husband and admitted to being bisexual - he is fine with it. I am now comfortable enough with him that I am wanting to not only find a real girlfriend and involve her sexually in our ...

My teasing him forced him to force himself on me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Ok, my husband has been telling me for weeks now that if I keep teasing him the way I do he would make me carry through with it. I never thought he would actually make me do it, but of course I was dumb enough to push him to it. I know you all will ...

I'm tired of being tired.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Please help me, my boyfriend and I have been together for a year... we live together too.. everything has been great till 3 weeks ago.. we don't talk any more we don't kiss, and sex is like once a week and when we do have sex there is no foreplay... ...

My wife does not like sex...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

8 February 2009 (M) - I have been married for 11 years I love my wife sooooooo much but sex priorities are far apart, I had doubts about our compatibility the week before our wedding but know that a lady can't be 100% perfect, sex is the only area that she is not 100%. ...

My boyfriend doesn't last long then gets all sleepy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - When me and my boyfriend have sex, he can't last for longer than about 15-20 minutes before he comes. And then that's that. He apparently has such a long refractory period that having sex again isn't worth it and doesn't feel as good - until the ...

Sexual orientation and parent problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (M) - Hello Agony Aunt, I have recently came out to some of my friends as a homosexual and I am worried that when I am older my parents will look down on me for this. Have you any advice on coming out to them before I am at least 18 - 21? I am nearly 15...

Very difficult to have orgasm from penetrative sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - It takes me absolutely AGES to orgasm from penetrative sex - I've only actually come once! - and because I don't want to bore my boyfriend or tire him out (I'm not exaggerating, it really does take ages), on the majority of occasions I'll reach to ...

Any advice on making 1st time sex special?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Okay so I have some questions about sex--And I do NOT want anything about "Oh your too young for sex" and stuff like that. Please. That's not what I'm asking for here. Anyway, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now and I reall...

Will all boys make me feel like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Hi! These a boy who i went out with and then we split coz he wanted sex and i didnt also it turns out he was seeing some other girl just for sex! . Im only 14 and hes 16 so i wasnt ready. But hes asked since then first time i said yes but it didn ...

Relationship ruined because of first date sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - A few weeks ago I met Sean* in one of my classes. I see him every M and W for 4 hours, and we sit very close to each other b/c of assigned seats. We are also partners on a project together, and there are 5 weeks remaining in this quarter (we're ...

What do you do when the hymen breaks during first time sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - what do you do if your hymen breaks during sex for the first time, do you keep going or what??????????...

Am I a heartbroken fool or... ? He said he loves me but sleeps with other people.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Either I'm a fool, or I'm just worrying too much. There is this man *who is now my bestfriend* that I've been dating for almost 2 years now. I've been there for him even during his hardest of times. But at the beginning we were just "casual sex" ...

I don't know if this relationship is right or how we can have a normal relationship that is not based on sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - hi everyone I have a problem that has been bothering me for a long rime. 5 years ago I was in a long term relationship which i would say that i wansnt really happy. I met somebody else and we started going out for drinks.he was pushing me to end m...

Why are strange things popping into my head when I masturbate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (M) - This is not the first time this happened, but last night i was masterbating and while i was doing it strange images were just popping into my head, its realy worrying me. I was masterbathing to sexual fantasies and the next thing images of my ...

The condom broke, what now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Ok so I hadd sex with my mate and the condom broke.so what do I do so I don't become pregnant?...

Tips to make masturbation more fun and enjoyable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - hey. im 16 and i get really horny i mean big time every day almost. is this bad? when i get horny i finger myself i love doin this but its gettin a bit borin. i dont have vibrator and i dont think i could buy one but does anyone no any ways i could...

Doesn't "natural" feel better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are ready for sex.We've talked about condoms but I'm wondering if intercourse is more pleasurable if you can feel a boy's real penis and semen rather than just rubber?...

Sex for the 1st time and now wondering why period is late

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Hi, i am really stressing here! basically, i had sex for the first time 3 weeks ago and i was due to come on my period on thursday. ever since i can remember, i have never skipped or had irregular periods, they have always been every 28 days. i took ...

Seductive Valentine suggestions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - This Valentines is going to be myself and my Husbands first Valentines together as a married couple. Im quite shy but with the day thats in it, I would love some suggestions as to how to seduce him. Im trying my best to organise a meal for the night ...

I think he just wants me to shut up and be happy and I can't do it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Basically my partner has just stormed out of the house saying he is furiously angry with me and I have to change. I love him and I know he is unhappy and I hate him being unhappy but at the same time I don;t know what to do. Basically he i...

First time in back seat of the car! Have I blown his 1st experience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. I feel bad bad bad. I've been dating this guy for three months and a few days and he is great. we had sex last night and now i feel it was too fast. not only that, but t was his first time, and we did it in the backseat of my car. ...

He popped my cherry but didn't cum, I can't get pregnant can I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - my best friend and i had sex and he was so nerves we were having sex he told me that i was his fist time but what didn't make sense to me was he wasn't getting off and he said that there was no pre cum coming out.He told me the next day that he got ...

He loved giving me pleasure but now he ignores me, any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have now been together for a year and half. He was a virgin whenever we first got together. At first, he loved giving me oral sex and always tried to last and please me first. Lately, he never wants to do anything sexual unless I ...

I need a release after all my problems but would this be a correct way to have it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (M) - Well, i recently came out of my first relationship. My girlfriend didnt want any intimacy at all, no hus or kisses, and as im nice and all i thought i wont pressure her at all, and she'd eventually get over her problem. I didnt want sex at all thou...

I slept with him...and now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - Well Ive known this guy for 3 years...weve been friends since weve dated common friends..and over the years there has been flirting..but nothing too serious...until about a month ago...I moved to the west coast..and later in the year he did too..he ...

Can my married best friend and I be FWB??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 288 days ago

8 February 2009 (M) - OK, First I think its necessary to provide abit of a back ground to this question..... I've been good mates with this guy for about 5 years and we would do anything for each other whenever possible (That's what mates are for,right?) . He's 25 ...

How do I invite her to my house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

8 February 2009 (M) - a friend of mine keeps askin me to "not forget to invite her to my place". Its 3rd time now, few other hints i got too. I want to invite her round but i don't know how to ask. Every reason just sounds weird. Any suggestions?...

Like me? Or just want to make out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

8 February 2009 (F) - So my friend Brian set me up with his bestfriend and we started dating. Well Brian has a twin named Brad and one day I was over at their house with my ex hanging out and while we were there my ex (he was still my bf at the time)was being stupid and ...

I am scared of my wife

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

8 February 2009 (M) - I got introduced to my wife on the phone 2yrs 4mths ago.We instantly took to each other.I was in Africa and she in Europe.We kept communicating on a regular basis.I actually proposed to her over the phone after 4 weeks of talking.I look back now and ...