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Sex: Help and advice

Sex & the EX & Feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - i split up with my ex boyfriend over 3 years ago it was hard for both of us as we ran away from our feelings rather than stick together. weve always been close and we still see each other now and again, although when we do meet up we normally end up ...

Relationship effects from sexual abuse

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 291 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - From my past of being sexual abused... as well as mental and physical abused it is really starting to effect my relationships... I am 18 yrs. Iv been in many relationships but i can never come to being intimate with anyone. I have difficulty in ...

Lose my v-card to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - So i really need advice because i dont kno if i should lose my virginity right now to this guy..he gets his license in 2 days. only 2 DAYS! and thats how much time i have left to decide because that is when he gets his license. and when he does, he ...

How do I get ready for first time sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - hi =) this Thursday my bf will turn 18 and we are planning to have sex for the first time. ( well actually its my first time since he is not a virgin). I am not scared or anything but the problem is i don't know how to get ready for it. i want to ...

I caught fiance talking sex on the internet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (M) - My Fiance has a thing with talking to people on dating chat sites, people she hasn't met and i caught her one night talking about internet sex sort of thing. am i being over protective or should i be worried about this?...

How can I grind more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - So i ahve been dating this guy for a while and he has a big(the biggest i have had)penis. I like to grind with my man and i cant really do that with him since he is so big...How can i make the grinding part work??Do i have to be more wet or ...

How do I talk to my b/f about lack of sex in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I would like some advice on how to speak to my boyfriend about the lack of sex in our relationship. We have been in a long distance relationship for around 18 months. We are in our early/mid thirties. In the run-up to us having sex for the first ...

He pouts when I don't want sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - He says that he can't stand drama from a girl. Yet, he ignores me for a few hrs. when I say no to 'sex'. Or he'll try the whole guilt trip, being manipulative, things like that. After he ignores me, the next day he'll expect me to respond to hi...

Why have I lost my sex drive with my man? I've considered cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 291 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Help im so confused! I been with my boyfriend just over a yr and half we have a 7 month old daughter together. We have had our problems, with him drinkin but he is doin much better now. I do love him and am attracted to him its just for a while now ...

My boyfriend keeps pushing for sex and I don't feel ready!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend keeps pushing the issue on 'Sex' And I'm not ready. He tries and tries again, but his efforts are useless. We've gone as far as very passionate kissing and touching, rubbing that kinda thing. I'm not a tease but he initiates all this ...

Non-experienced girlfriend with master of experience boyfriend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 15 year old virgin with ZERO experience in the sex department and my boyfriend seems to be a FREAK in that department. He's 18 but you see I wanna be able to fufil his sexual desires but I'm a virgin and I dunno if I wanna lose it yet. Yet I ...

We used protection but I can't stop worrying about unwanted pregnancy, help, I'm 14!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I dont know if i am pregnant or not? I am 14 years old and had sex 3 weeks ago, i haven't missed a period yet but i am so worried. I should be coming up to my period in a few days but i am so tired all the time , and my breasts have become bigger ...

Any way of being 'less tight' during first time sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for a while now and am seriously considering having sex with him in the not too distant future. I'm a virgin and he's not, one of my main concerns is the pain I might experience as well as the fact that I don't think ...

Are his questions healthy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Is it healthy for a boyfriend to ask his girlfriend about her past in such details so as to know (for example) how large another man was, how he made her reach orgasm, how strong the orgasms were with other men, or how long they would go down on her ...

Self conscious during sex with husband because he never pays me compliments, etc. How can I get over my trust issues?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I have been married for 11 years,and I am 31 years old, my husband is 34. We have 4 kids together ages 15,11,9, and 8 months. I consider myself to be attractive even after 4 kids...meaning I’m not skinny or overweight. I’m ...

How do I not make love with the man of my dreams??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - i'm in love with this gr8 guy who happens to be all i've eva wantd +more. he makes me feel lyk flying and i love him to bits. this myt sound silly but i need ideas on how not to have sex- yet. he asked once but we talked about it and we agreed t...

Open relationship backfired! Can we save our marriage or is it me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Is my marriage over? I feel so insecure he is with me for the wrong reasons. Here goes, I have been married for 10yrs and with my husband for 13yrs. Our sex life goes through cycles, over 2 years ago it was bad I admit, once every 6 weeks. We tri...

How do I tell him after we had sex that I want a monogamous relationship while at this level?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - How do I tell a guy after I have dated him six times, had sex with on the sixth date, and want to have sex with again, that I want to be monogamous while we are in this level of the relationship? It's an ex post facto thing and, although ...

I'm attracted to my ex more than my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend I've been going out with for a month,but im in love with another boy I had sex with before I started talking to my boyfriend.the another boy I had sex with is confusing me on his feelings about me.I really really wanna have sex ...

Could someone shed some light on the idea of tantric sex? What's it all about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Hello all! Im not having a relationship problem,thankfully.But im here seeking some insight into something that I know nothing about.I was talking to my boyfriend last night.I asked what he was up to,and he was online reading about tantric sex.Ive ...

Could I be pregnant from his naked rubbing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently had sex. We used a condom, but I just realized that he rubbed himself against me while neither of us were wearing clothes and he didn't have the condom on yet. Could I be pregnant?...

I'm completely scared about the pain that will come with first time sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I dont want to seem naive or typical when i ask this but i have a sex question. My boyfriend wants to have sex and im not opposed to the idea but im scared about the pain. He's an amazing guy and hasnt pressured me into anything but i know he wants ...

Engaged to a guy I love but wish I was still with my ex for the sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - OK,I have a few problems in my sex life, all of which I would assume are my own for not speaking up, but the main is, I'm in my mid 20s and I've never had an orgasm with any partner, by myself no problem, but I know the main problem is because in ...

I went from wanting him for sex to wanting him for a relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - Ok. Me and this guy had been texting, bumping into eachother on the odd occasion and having very few one-to-one sit down chat sessions. But one thing is sure, there was some major sexual chemistry between us both. Weeks went by and he visited ...

How can I enlighten him about sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 293 days ago

3 February 2009 (F) - I recently got with a new guy who isn't very sexually experienced. He comes across quite dominant/confident sexually, which is good because I want him to do what he feels comfortable with. HOWEVER, the other day I was stroking 'him' and he was ...