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Archived questions from: 6 February, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Is he dropping hints about sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months and i think he's dropping "hints" about sex. Yesterday we went to see his parents for a couple of hours and they seam to approve. Then that night he came over to my place and took a shower. Then ...

Is it time to take the next step?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Hi, so my boyfriend and i were disscussing moving in together and one thing that came up was sex. Now my birthday is Valentine's day and thats pressure to have sex 2 times over so we've known each other 6 months, I've meet his family and he's meet ...

Desperate for some physical arousal!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - I never get physically aroused any more, and that's making me desperate! I'm 20. I was always horny, lol. Ever since puberty, I'd check out guys, have fantasies, etc. I got together with my boyfriend and I was hornier than ever! I was always fanta...

Any way I can stop it from happening so fast?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - Hi When I have sex, I come so fast that it just kills the mood for me and my girlfriend as soon as we start to get into it. I’d like to let her enjoy it longer than I do now. It literally takes like 1-2 min for me to come. Is there anything I co...

Should I surprise him for V-Day and take him to a swingers place?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - with valentine day comming i want to do something special. our sex life is great, i know a fantasy of his is for someone to be watching or even a threesome, i just don't want it to ruin anything, or no regrets, my question is should i surprise him ...

My husband wants to act like my ex in bed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Greetings What do you say to this! My husband wanted me to pretend like he was my ex while we were having sex. And my husband said it was harmless fun role play. And I said Role play is nurse/doctor, cops/robbers, etc. Not the ex. I told husb...

Is it unusual for a man to have more than one orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Is it unusual for a man to have more than one orgasm? I'm in between relationships and started a FWB situation with a male friend of mine. While we were having sex, he pulled out and ejaculated on my stomach. Then he went back in and kept going. He ...

Do you let him taste his own semen after oral sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - I'd like to hear from the ladies on this one. As a finale to oral sex, do you ever let him taste your man his own semen? Does he willingly eat when you offer it to him?...

He goes through periods of not contacting me, then he gets in touch when he wants sex. How do I cope with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Been putting this off because I don't want to be blasted for putting up with this nor for being in this kind of relationship. I just need coping tips. I'm seeing a guy, and it's mostly just about sex. I say "mostly" because I need his attention as ...

My boyfriend wants to have anal sex, but there's NO WAY I'm agreeing to it. How else can I spice it up and keep him from getting bored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Hi guys. My boyfriend keeps suggesting anal sex. Not in a horrible way but he keeps slyly mentioning it. Now, I have no reason to believe that it would be a big problem if I didn't do it because it took me a very long time before I could bring my...

I declined to answer a sex-related question from my girlfriends and I think they suspect there's more to it than there is. What should I tell them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - This is a dumb non-living saving question. Me and a few of my new girlfriends, we've justed moved to another state, both my husband and I got new jobs. I was out with some of my girlfriends and since I'm the new one in the group they decided to play ...

My husband doesn't have any sex with me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - My husband doesn't have any sex with me. He went to the doctors and he is healthy. He is absolutely cold, no stimulation, or sexy touch does anything to him. He says he loves me and he does not know what is going on. Could the mistake come from ...

How many sleeping partner have you had

This question has 50 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

6 February 2009 (?) - Hi im doing a survey about how many sleeping partners (vaginal or anal) you or anyone you know, GF/BF etc, has had? Plz also state how sure you are of yours and your partners number! Plz be honest as there's no need to lie because you can just put...

How to get the "spice" back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Ive been with my fella for 5 years and have recently moved in with him. We are still both madly in love but somethings happened on my side with the sex time. We do have sex regular still but it takes me to be REALLY in the mood before i do it. I ...

Threesome--to do? To not do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - My partner of several years and I have reached a little bit of a turning point in our relationship. Although we have a fairly good sex life; as happens with a lot of couples who have been together for a long time we don't do it as often as we used...

I want to try anal sex but my fiance says its disgusting

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - I have been with my fiancee for just over two years and we are getting married soon. Everything is fine between us, we have a great sex life and we are not afraid to try new things to add some spice to the bedroom. However, one thing I would like to ...

What is the liklihood of the pregnancy test being positive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 289 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Hey DearCupid, I'm very worried. - I am on the contraceptive pill. I have 3 weeks on and 1 week off it. - In my pill-free week, my fiance and I were being intimate (NOT having sex), and he came on my breasts, and it dribbled down onto my th...

Can an unfulfilled fetish be a deal breaker?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - I've fallen in love with the most remarkable woman I've ever come across. We have, it seems, all the right things in common, yet have enough differences to keep things interesting. We communicate well, we laugh often, and we love intently. Our ...

Is sucking on breasts or having too many orgasms harmful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 291 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - My guy goes really romantic at times...he kisses me...sucks my breast n even indulges in foreplay...sometimes i bleed n get a stomach pain..whats the reason??? is sucking breasts harmful?? is getting too much of orgasm harmful??!!...

I live in a small town and I don't know if I can wait for "the guy" to have sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I am a 16 year old girl. I know i am ready for sex. I feel ready, and when the times comes i will be prepared. But, i live in a small town of 50 people and there all adults and i wont get out for a long time. So i just dont know if i am prepared ...

I need my young, hot sex life back! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 291 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - After my second baby, I have no desire to have sex with my boyfriend. I am only 21 and have no idea why. Not only is the sex drive gone, but the sex is painful. I feel so bad, because he knows how I used to be and feels that I'm doing it elsewhere. ...

My boyfriend raped me. I don't know what to do. Please help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - im 19 years old. i don't know what to do.. my boyfriend and i have been together for a month.. hes in the army.... well anyways.. we were at a party a couple of nights ago.. and we all got really drunk and i told him before we got drunk that...

I have not yet experienced an orgasm, although I have tried. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (M) - Hello there, I am a seventeen year old male, and I have never consciously orgasmed. I've had several relationships (they were physical, though I remain a virgin), and have looked at porn on the internet for many years, but have never been broug...

Slept with my boss and now he's lost interest

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - I've been at my job for a while and just over a month ago a new manager started. From the first time we meet i was attracted to him, there was a bit of subtle flirting for a week then we went out one night after work ended up getting drunk and ...

After 1st time sex will you bleed again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - say the first time you have sex with a guy has a small penis. and he makes you bleed the first time you do it. the second time you have sex is with a guy with a big penis, will you bleed again??...

Don't know how to prepare for my first time???!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - I am going to turn 15 in March ok and I have been dating this guy for quite a long time and I haven't done anything with him yet because I'm afraid that is all he wants from me is sex but he has shown me that he really cares for me and loves me and ...

Outdoor sex, any innovative ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

6 February 2009 (F) - Guys: Ideas on some memorable sexual experiences in the great outdoors? My guy says one of them is sex on the beach..things like that. Any suggestions? I'm open minded to just about anything. ...